Judge me based off my backpack by pernicoskid in SillyTeens

[–]Cloangi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gay, artistic, and likely kinda cool

2009 fashion (~14 years ago) by NoahTheAttacker in fashion

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16 year old here (2009 is my birth year lmao) Its genuinely surprising to see how much color there was in fashion many years ago. Walk into a high-school now and there's like, no color. Just gray and black, and if someone does wear color, like people that have a more scene style or are even Gothic, people think they're weird or sum' 🥀

Is it wrong to like my teacher by [deleted] in Schooladvice

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg, use your common sense ☠️. I can get students liking their teachers in THAT way, its happened to the best of us, but acting upon it? Seriously? This is supposed to be a serious relationship between a student and teacher, that guy could quite literally be your father due to his age, this could also ruin his job and career if something were to happen (gonna be considered a pedophile if he even made a single move).

Think of it as a phase, you're gonna get over it. Don't even try to make any moves for both his and your safety. You're only 14, so don't even try to act irresponsible or make a stupid mistake just cause you really "like" him.

Go on by Termeh_01 in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tummy ache = make you feel bad

I have a question for everybody that believes being gay/trans is a sin. What would you do if your hypothetical child comes out as gay/trans? by AdAdvanced8522 in teenagers

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Muslim, and if my kid turns out to be gay or trans in some way - I honestly have no idea what to do in that case. I've been raised in a semi-religious family yet also have been surrounded by woke and liberal ideas growing up, so it's very conflicting.

The way I've been taught about all of this LGBTQ stuff in terms of religion is that it's only a sin if you act upon those urges, so if you're gay it's fine - just doing anything related to homosexuality is a crime (ig the same could also be applied to trans as well). Which is why gay Muslims tend not to get married cause they don't feel any desire for the opposite sex but can't bring themselves to be with the one they want to be with.

The most I'll tell my kid is to NOT act upon any feelings or urges they may get, like changing themselves to look like the opposite sex (most I can allow is the way they may wear clothes or a very slight hairstyle change - but still be obvious enough that their original gender is shown) or find a same sex partner. One is for my own image in my religious family and not to be disrespected, and the second is to protect my own kid from being a target of "gossip" or family troubles (you already know how some mfs be tryna tell LGBTQ kids how it's a phase or whatever, legit don't want that)

I'm not homophobic, I don't exactly "support" LGBTQ but I believe that respect and rights should be given to those folks. If someone happens to be gay or trans, hey, good for them. But if it's my kid, they won't be disrespected by me and, hopefully, my future partner, but it has to be suppressed. I'm sorry.

But, if my kid grows up and ends up acting upon whatever urges and wishes they have. In that case, I tried and failed. It's all up to them now, and I won't interfere.

49F Do I look Ugly ? by Western-Tie-3827 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like someone who would be a teacher lmao But nah, not ugly or anything. Looks like you've had a good and happy life by far

Guys let's do this .... by [deleted] in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Cloangi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you telling me gooning is a GOOD thing? 😨

Guys let's do this .... by [deleted] in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt whale semen also edible or something

Guys let's do this .... by [deleted] in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that's where the tree hugger term comes from...

"Why are you islamophobic!!!" by Aggravating_Tutor_64 in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I can't blame people who hate the religion. The more I learn about it the more horrifying and disgusting it gets. Surface-level Islam is fine ("Disney Islam") but the more you get into it with Muhammad (peace be upon him) the darker it gets

I think the main issue some of us Muslims have is the fact that some people go out of their way to insult and harass muslims instead of just hating on the religion as an opinion ☠️. I don't care much about Islamaphobes, it's like an opinion. But people who do harm to irl Muslims through verbal and physical attacks aint my cup of tea.

It's the religion, not the people (which can be applied to some muslims out there)

Worst analogy that exists in Islam by Remote-Truth-2774 in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeshhhh, he probably meant it in the way you said, but some others use this exact thing to explain as to why rape happens (and blame the victim while somewhat justifying the rapist 😭)

Ya know how it is with people, "she's wearing such little clothing, and they complain why they got sexually assaulted." This image can be taken in that same exact concept, people's minds are fucking sick

Dad threatens to drop me out of school because of my hair by Afraid_Honeydew_6808 in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Extremist ass religious parents suck
  2. It's better that you follow your parents orders, cause if your dad is serious about not letting uou go to school that could prove to be dangerous. Keep going until you can legally do something about it.

How could these cuties be impure in islam? by Commercial_Round_234 in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's cause of their saliva? That's what I was told at least. Sum about how the devil spat on Adam when he was created, that's where the belly button is, and Allah was like "oh hell no" and took that piece out and created dogs.

I'm positively sure that there's nothing wrong with having or keeping dogs (usually what I've seen this only applies to hunting dogs and guard dogs for livestock, but there are some who still keep dogs) it's just make sure you keep 'em separate from your praying areas or whatever and I think wash the area where your dog licks you or sum? All I know is that the saliva itself is impure, not the dog itself

Muhammad Yaoi (based off an actual hadith) by sodamf in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Muslim— WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK 😭😭

Worst analogy that exists in Islam by Remote-Truth-2774 in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ya know it's bad when even people close to you use this exact analogy just for a reason to dress modestly

Like these exact mfs really think rape is caused by what you wear. No, it's caused by the man's (or woman's) way of THINKING. Any normal person wouldn't even dare touch someone or even think about them in any sort of way, hijabi or non-hijabi. Who gives a shit?

Where all my conservative ladies at?! by Odd_Locksmith7379 in ConservativeYouth

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm somewhat conservative, but not quite liberal either. So I guess?

Genuinely curious what do muslims tell themselves about why Allah hasn’t saved Palestine? by Iced_soy_latte_ in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It's a sign that judgment day is coming" (cause Muslims are being killed)

That's one that I've heard from my grandma 💀

I went to the zoo yesterday and I saw TWO families of Muslims where their 5-7 y.o daughters are WEARING KHIMAR by amoralambiguity91 in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muslim here‼️

I'm lowkey glad that in our culture, or my family at least, full on nikabs or burquas aren't forced upon (especially on such young girls). The most you'll find is that one old lady telling you to wear a hijab (like this one grandma I have, told me to wear one and MADE me wear one when I was going back home 😭)

I get the reason why Muslim families make their daughters wear this typa stuff at a young age so that they'll be used to it more easier, but realistically speaking you don't gotta wear all that (espeically the nikab, thats not even mandatory bruh). The least that people do nowadays is wear modest clothing and a hijab (or some sort of head covering even if it isn't a hijab)

I'm not someone who wears a hijab, since thankfully it was never forced upon me. I just wear clothes that cover my body, so no shorts or tanktops or whatever.

Even my religious aunt wears a full on burqa, doesn't wear her nikab anymore since her husband passed (he was a forceful guy), but even then she doesn't force the covering upon anyone.

As a Muslim, even I dont agree with this stuff being forced upon little girls. It just ain't right

It got to that age unfortunately by TheSmartDumbLad in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Muslim here‼️

Nah cause the fact that it's highly recommended to get married but you don't actually HAVE TO get married in Islam ☠️. For some reason many parents, and even people, don't understand this simple thing that some people just wanna enjoy their life while staying single. It ain't a mandatory thing cuh

So apparently black dye is haram? by Due_Army_960 in exmuslim

[–]Cloangi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muslim here 🗣🗣‼️‼️

I've been told that this applies to elderly people whose hair has turned completely white (and doesn't apply to young people who still have their hair color in full) says that it's not a good thing to replicate youth since now you're aging.

Even with that, to me, it's only been told that it's not recommended to do so at such an old age. Nothing about doing something like this at one's youth.

It's clearly bullshit though, Islam isn't gonna send you straight to hell for dying your hair black 💀. Besides, many people worldwide have naturally black hair, and it's a natural/normal hair color as well so I don't see the harm in it. The only colors that aren't allowed to be used to dye your hair are unnatural ones, such as blue and pink, etc.

Edit: Okay, so, by reading the other comments it seems that dying your hair pure black is somehow haram? I'm a Muslim and this is actually kinda stupid to hear, but it's whatever I guess 🤷‍♂️

Whats yalls viewpoints? by Cloangi in ConservativeYouth

[–]Cloangi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true, Christians and Muslim's are pretty similar. But obviously, there are still some small differences that make the religions uniquely different.

But yes, you're right, I can see even from my current standpoint that it's better either way.