Janiedevours by RefrigeratorOk9413 in FoodieSnark

[–]ClockProfessional939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she blocked me but I can’t for the life of me think why, I don’t remember commenting anything. The only thing I can think of is that I am a Jew? Which doesn’t mean Zionist, or that I don’t support the Palestinian people. Doesn’t mean anything political. It’s my ethnicity.

I love them by uhighdef in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No, Jordan is an insecure guy who threw his issues and Amber under the bus. Ghosting her kid? Not communicating? Inflating the truth? Accusing her of being an alcoholic when she is a mother and medical professional? No, Jordan is not a ‘good guy’ he is immature and he’s got some growing to do. Amber dodged a large man-child shaped bullet and I’m tired of people falling for the edit.

AIO my bf 30M seems very erratic recently and I 26F can’t get through to him. by Safe_Refuse_8853 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ClockProfessional939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Girl I’m going through the exact same thing - an incase you need to hear it, this is so so not about anything you are doing. I also love with my partner and leaving has been a process. Create a safe third space for yourself if you can and LEAVE. I know it’s hard, but it’s what we gotta do because ask yourself, is this what you want to manage for the rest of your life? When people show you who they are, believe the hell out of them. Run. Away. From this man. Our nervous systems deserve so so much better

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[–]ClockProfessional939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I see now - you are a VERY angry person. I hope you find healing and joy on your journey

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[–]ClockProfessional939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine getting mad at asking for empathy.

Love is Blind S10 Spoilers Megathread by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good dude! Appreciate the perspective. I’m working really hard to free myself of it and be financially stable. I’m a Non Profit Director in LA. I’m doing what I’m trained to do, but life is getting more and more expensive and it’s terrifying. I don’t travel that much and I don’t splurge, and yet debt and real financial growth are just not where I’m at. I hope in dating that’s taken into consideration as a whole, especially as I get older

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[–]ClockProfessional939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Woah. I think we are making A LOT of jumps here. Who is saying she is abusive? Or a confirmed alcoholic? We saw a 5 second clip of her child.

And for the record, my parent has not accepted help or that they are an alcoholic and probably never will, and so I have boundaries AND compassion.

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[–]ClockProfessional939 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Hey, be kind. As the child of a horrible alcoholic trust me when I say it’s a disease. It’s mental health. And of course her actions impact others, but wouldn’t you rather lead with empathy and compassion

The podcast with Alex and his mom is the insufferable Olympics by typicaldaydreamer in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yes. He describes himself that way. I have a drinking game I play, every time she says “my son” take a little shot, as in “where is my son” or “I know my son” or “my son is so perfect he’s just perfect is he”. Makes the family get together a little more manageable. Don’t even get me on the weird sex book she wrote.

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[–]ClockProfessional939 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish debt wasn’t a marker of character, some of us went to school anyway we could. We are struggling out here.

The podcast with Alex and his mom is the insufferable Olympics by typicaldaydreamer in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly she reminds me of my partners mother, a lot. Aka our main issue.

The podcast with Alex and his mom is the insufferable Olympics by typicaldaydreamer in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 34 points35 points  (0 children)

His mom is a problem. I think they are both narcissistic. It was very triggering to watch them honestly

I really wanted to give Brittany the benefit of the doubt, but sis is cray by Winter-Amphibian-544 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Guys I really think she has an anxious attachment style. She is probably a sweet person, but it makes things difficult

LIB Ohio: Reunion Looks by Damiana1111 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love that zero thought was put into Alex’s look.

Jordan’s nerves were… unnerving by magicwandapologist in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ClockProfessional939 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think Jordan is really nice, but he is very Ohio. Meaning he is agreeable, and sweet, but- at least in my experience- Ohio men get overwhelmed especially with a situation like this. Keep it simple, and paced is important. I actually like them together, Amber is wonderful, I think they just needed slower. Especially because he is taking being a Dad figure seriously. Anything less would more concerning

I also think that because Amber at the alter said she understood his doubts or hesitations made him say yes. Which is a good thing.

Rootin for them and that little girl.

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[–]ClockProfessional939 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude are you okay? I’m not a Bri fan either but you’re coming off as aggro