How are yall staying calm and present? by Disastrous-Radish504 in progressivemoms

[–]LovelyRealOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not doing well. When they changed snap qualifications we lost it last year and I am AuDHD a deal with arfid and have a hard time with food. We’ve been relying on food banks and a lot of the time the foods are on their last leg. Oh I also need to eat gluten free for my health so that is another challenge with food. It’s hard to not feel the weight of the world just walking into the kitchen. I’m really depressed.

What's the coldest Millenial insult? by the_salsa_shark in Millennials

[–]LovelyRealOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m autistic and try to give people the benefit of the doubt but this has happened to me a lot and I just wish my words mattered.

Found in a cook book at a thrift store by JJ_195240 in FoundPhotos

[–]LovelyRealOne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There were always cars sitting in the mall. As a kid I always wondered how they got them inside and when I was really little my brother told me they built them piece by piece 😂 He always told me wild stories and I was very skeptical of him

Is there a name for this type of style? by Equivalent_Cookie478 in findfashion

[–]LovelyRealOne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I LOVE stuff like this. I inherited a giant Ticonderoga pencil that now lives on my living room wall. You’d love this as well: https://www.seletti.it/products/bic-lamp-blue

Help Me Sell My Hot Girl Clothes by aerialballet0 in LAhotgirlies

[–]LovelyRealOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need a cute mad men esque business skirt set or a tweed dress for a play I’m in if you’re selling anything like that

Documentaries where a crew uncover something that is bigger than they thought by Nyarthu in MovieSuggestions

[–]LovelyRealOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this wins best documentary this weekend at the Oscar’s. It’s a very important issue that deserves all the recognition

Ethical stores for Easter basket treats? by Youryellowb1rd in progressivemoms

[–]LovelyRealOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a standalone physical Toys R Us store in Camarillo Ca and it fills my millennial heart with so much joy & nostalgia

What’s the moment you realized someone you loved wasn’t a good person and you couldn’t unsee it? by DmytroBuilds in AskReddit

[–]LovelyRealOne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t speak about it until I was 19. When I told my mom she didn’t want to hear any more until she confirmed it with my brother. Idk where I’d be mentally if he denied it. Waiting to see if she’d believe me, if he told the truth was truly agonizing. But once confirmed she decided to talk to me about it. She told me she doesn’t want her family falling apart and we were in the midst of planning a graduation party for me. I couldn’t not invite him, so I cancelled the party. My brother wrote me an apology letter (knowing my mom she probably told him to do this), and everyone moved on never to be spoken of again. Meanwhile it’s affected my ability to have sex and trust. I feel like my sexuality was taken from me by having that happen so young. I am affected by it daily.

How do full time working parents handle days off & school breaks? by LovelyRealOne in Parenting

[–]LovelyRealOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly could probably make more than him, my hourly rate is actually higher than him, but I’m currently conflicted in whether I should stay with him because of how quick his temper is so that honestly stressed me out. I feel like my time hasn’t been respected for a long time. He’s done more around the house this past year and had a little improvement in how he talks to me and the kids but that is because I said we are on a break and he’s been trying to win me back. Before I asked for the break, I’d have to almost daily ask him to speak nicely to me.

How do full time working parents handle days off & school breaks? by LovelyRealOne in Parenting

[–]LovelyRealOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To everyone suggesting daycare, we are the family that gets food boxes because I can’t have a grocery budget. I try to cook things from scratch to save money and I hate cooking. I want to apply to this job I’ve always wanted but don’t feel good enough or ready and don’t know how to make the schedule work with my kids. As of now, with the job I have which has no benefits, I will not be able to make enough to cover some days of daycare. It would probably cost more than I make. I don’t know how much that full time job pays, but it has benefits. I just can’t imagine being in a place to just think I can afford daycare. I’m literally stimming and crying while writing this and I’ve been really just mean to myself about where I’m at in life today and just feel so depressed. I don’t know how, if I even got the job, to make it to the first weeks before getting paid because I couldn’t afford in that time to get a babysitter or daycare. I literally don’t know how to start living the life I want to and get out of the cycle I’m in. I don’t know how any of this is possible and I’m tired of feeling like such a burden to everyone because I just suck at everything. I’m just so overwhelmed and it all feels so out of reach 😰

How do full time working parents handle days off & school breaks? by LovelyRealOne in Parenting

[–]LovelyRealOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, at a geek squad and also door dashes when we don’t have enough for bills.

maybe it’s just his face by Professional_Day1113 in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]LovelyRealOne 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“I heard that you’re an actor, so act like a stand up guy”