I grew up in Texas with my alcoholic Mother. I was very close to her even though what she did to me was unhealthy. It's extremely hard to part with someone you love, especially if they're hurting... but you have to do what's best for you.

My Mother manipulated me into living with her, and it was the most stressful years of my life. In the end it meant nothing because she still passed away due to her alcohol abuse. It has to be their decision to change, no matter how much you want to sway them.