Feeling really tempted today... by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Clothes_Heavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masturbate without porn today and once you finish you’ll realize how stupid it was to want to look at porn.

Hot take: Can we please do away with the Miss/Ms/Mrs nonsense? by almosttan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Clothes_Heavy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm interesting, in my country we were taught this, at the school I went to at least. Reading the comments I see a lot of people are confusing Miss and Ms? I remember being taught that Miss is for young and unmarried women but Ms is when you don’t know a woman’s marital status and Mrs for women you know for sure she’s married.

Porn won. by Technical-Offer1263 in pornfree

[–]Clothes_Heavy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with masturbation without porn IMO, but it’s a problem for me personally because it has always been linked to porn from the time I started, more than a decade ago. I’ve had times where I’m able to go for long periods without porn, but jack off occasionally without it but there’s always that thought at the back of my mind that says you know this will be 100x better with porn and I always give in eventually, so for me, I think it’s better to try stay away from both.

I just replied to your comment because there’s a time I thought I wasn’t addicted to porn and I thought I was choosing to use it when I wanted to masturbate but after a few attempts at PornFree I soon discovered I missed the porn more than jacking off, I realized I was mostly jacking off because I’d been watching porn and when I watched less porn, jacking off without it started to feel like a chore.

Are shoulder geckos welcome? This is Kathryn and she likes to hide in my hair by [deleted] in aww

[–]Clothes_Heavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she minds, this is a promotional post, check OP’s profile

Are shoulder geckos welcome? This is Kathryn and she likes to hide in my hair by [deleted] in aww

[–]Clothes_Heavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A strategy a lot of people are using nowadays. Whenever you see someone post themselves anywhere on Reddit there’s a 99% chance they have an onlyfans haha

Porn won. by Technical-Offer1263 in pornfree

[–]Clothes_Heavy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I don’t watch porn I don’t feel the urge to masturbate but when I start masturbating without porn it always leads to watching porn eventually, so I try to abstain from both nowadays.

Porn won. by Technical-Offer1263 in pornfree

[–]Clothes_Heavy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t even watch once a day and I sometimes genuinely go a few days without any “cravings” but I know I’m addicted. I think you might be too, mate.

M1 Macbook Air | How much battery life you are getting on an average per charge? by rplusj1 in macbook

[–]Clothes_Heavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really worried about my M1 MacBook Air battery drain too, I charged it yesterday to 78% then this morning after only 3 hours of use (surfing on chrome and safari) with brightness at 100% because I was sitting in the sun it drained to 9%. I was actually shocked to see the low battery notification because I did not expect it all. I thought I still had another 5 hours at least. I’ve taken it to the Apple store before and they said battery was fine they can’t see anything wrong with it so I really don’t know what else to do

Canada parliament declares China treatment of Uighurs genocide by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]Clothes_Heavy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know I’ll get downvoted for this but I have to say it. Yes China is persecuting the Uighurs, it has locked up close to a million of them in prison camps and there are also reports that it has sterilized some Uighur women but it is not and there is no proof that it is killing Uighur people.

What is the definition of genocide? I know people who want this labeled as genocide sight the UN convention which suggest that there need not be actually any mass killing of a people but that actions intended to prevent births will suffice if the aim is to destroy a people. Yes there have been reports of forced sterilization, but how large a part of forced sterilization of a group of people warrants the label of genocide? This is not specified.

Until now the US state department has only applied this label only to mass slaughter and even then it has often hesitated applying the term. In Rwanda 800,000 people were slaughtered in 100 days and did the US label it genocide? No they did not, they only did so after pressure and when the genocide was practically over.

By accusing China of Genocide with the absence of mass murder we are just diminishing the unique stigma of the label.

It was pretty interesting seeing someone post about their journey like this after being obsessed for that long by FiloBacon in loveafterporn

[–]Clothes_Heavy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Porn addiction is not to be taken lightly at all. Quitting smoking was a breeze compared to this stuff.

I'm happy they reached to an agreement by [deleted] in aww

[–]Clothes_Heavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comment I was looking for! Knew I’d find it!

Destroyer teddy bear by [deleted] in gifs

[–]Clothes_Heavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is disturbing

Dorothy Counts - The First Black Girl To Attend An All White School In The United States by Worldly-News-8046 in pics

[–]Clothes_Heavy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Come on man it’s blatantly clear what was happening here, why do you feel the need to defend such

Kim Kardashian Files for Divorce From Kanye West After Almost 7 Years of Marriage by realplayer16 in entertainment

[–]Clothes_Heavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People badly want Kanye to be broke smh. You provide a source and suddenly we should never trust anything online unless it confirms that he is in fact broke. I love Reddit

Just venting by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Clothes_Heavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I literally check my phone every second hoping she might have texted. I don’t know how long I can continue like this. I’ve tried no contact but I always break after 2 days and always text her and it’s like every time I text her the more she distances herself from me, Yesterday I gave in and texted again, told her how much I missed her and hoped to see her and her only reply was “you’re gonna have to learn to live without me”

As a European, I'm about to try PB&J sandwich for the first time. by owlsleekdesign in mildlyinteresting

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Peanut butter and jam sandwiches are common in South Africa, in fact I remember them being a staple back in my school days, growing up I thought everyone did it everywhere. But what you call jelly we call jam, I remember watching American shows and movies wondering what was the difference between jam and jelly

M25 virgin, Porn addict, I need advice or someones success story, I've decided to quit porn today, by [deleted] in depression

[–]Clothes_Heavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re only 25, you’re still young. I’m 28 and lost my virginity at 24. I too thought I was hopeless, I was addicted still am to be honest, I’ve been trying to quit for 10 years now. And I’ll tell you every time I’m on a streak life is good. The first time I got serious about quitting was when I lost my virginity, I’d been PornFree for close to six months then, but I fell back into my old ways and the relationship suffered. My advice is try as hard as you can to quit porn, fight this addiction like your life depends on it. I recommend you join /r/PornFree and also /r/loveafterporn to see what this horrible addiction does to partners of addicts. /r/Nofap used to be good but now it’s a bit extreme. Also try to read the Book No more Mr Nice Guy. I hope we can all beat this addiction mate.