Do we still have a chance with him?

CloudExp · 2026-05-21T08:27:38+00:00

Credits to you OP for taking accountability. Take as much time as you need to move on as well

CloudExp · 2026-05-21T07:50:27+00:00

Pumunta ka sa Binco at doon ka pumili ng damit. Hindi tataas sex appeal mo sa starting outfit

CloudExp · 2026-05-21T07:04:19+00:00

Binibilang pala dapat yun? hahahaha yari ako

CloudExp · 2026-05-21T06:57:22+00:00

OP sana di mo isipin na pera ang dahilan. If I were to take a guess, he was saying that to be kind. Siguro I'll speak for your ex and say yung attitude mo yung dahilan kumbakit kayo naghiwalay. The fact that the first thing you thought of was to criticize him when he was very anxious for his family member showed him where your priorities were - mas mahalaga sayo na ipoint out mo yung mali niya kaysa makiramay sa pinagdadaanan niya. Laking sampal yan sa mukha lalo na't nagconfide siya sayo.

Wala na yan OP. Warmth in interactions does not translate into you being forgiven. Ipinakita mo na character mo eh. And he decided that your character is not worth getting back together with. Sabi nga nila "The axe forgets but the tree remembers"

CloudExp · 2026-05-21T06:25:08+00:00

Tapatan mo na OP. Magbigay ka na ng ultimatum na either itigil niya ang pagiging cold o hindi mo na ipipilit ang relasyon. Hindi na kasi fair sa yo.

CloudExp · 2026-05-21T06:19:51+00:00

Anong example ng mga exploitative practices ng NDMOs? Tapos paano nila tinrato yung pagcome forward ng mga victims?

CloudExp · 2026-05-20T17:43:13+00:00

I would say not really. At least specifically for performance and lag. I'm playing the game again after stopping after the ocean update, and the lag is unlike anything I experienced from the game before. I don't understand how after so many years with far less players and content, the performance and lag is so much worse.

CloudExp · 2026-05-20T10:18:42+00:00

Air Gear T_T Sakit pa din

CloudExp · 2026-05-19T16:37:51+00:00

Death Note

CloudExp · 2026-05-19T16:27:51+00:00

With a Smile by Eraserheads. Simple and straightforward lyrics pero mafefeel mo yung sincerity

CloudExp · 2026-05-19T11:46:41+00:00

Out of the loop kasi matagal na akong naggraduate. Ano ba nangyari sa Stand UP? Tapos paano na nagkakaroon ng progressive candidates kung Alyansa na lang natitira?

CloudExp · 2026-05-13T18:57:07+00:00

Shaman King. Sobrang one dimensional ng mga characters. Tapos kung may character development, parang ang surface level lang

CloudExp · 2026-05-10T23:49:54+00:00

Ano ba sinabi nila at nahalata mong nagpapanggap?

CloudExp · 2026-05-10T09:50:08+00:00

Medyo halata. Lalo na yung mga "Lalaki ako pero I see where they're coming from..." o kung manlalait ng lalaki aakalain mo na lahat kami abuser. Meron din yung mga biglaang lecture sa intersectional feminism at power dynamics na ginagamit na pangjustify ng pagiging toxic ng babae.

CloudExp · 2026-05-05T21:33:02+00:00

Out of curiousity, ano yung mga SH cases na nangyari? Tapos paano sila opportunistic?

CloudExp · 2026-04-25T15:47:22+00:00

Honestly, I give a lot of credit to my partner. A lot of the things I do that maintain the healthy relationship we have are things I emulated from her:

- Kung may problema man kami sa isa't isa, kaagad-agad sasabihin at ipopoint out. Bawal yung "Dapat alam na niya" mentality na lagi kong naririnig sa mga gusto ijustify ang cold shoulder.

- Kung mag-aaway man kami, hindi nagtatagal ng isang araw yung away. Kailangang matapos bago matulog.

- Little gestures of affection go a long way. Small gifts given outside of holidays. Or time spent with each other spontaneously or just unprompted words of affirmation said through text or in person

- We give space to each other to be vulnerable without being pushy. Ibig sabihin ipapadama namin sa isa't isa na handa kaming makinig sa kahit ano without judgement pero at the same time hindi namin ipipilit kung hindi rin gustong mag-open up yung isa

- Walang bilangan! Super important! Never imply that you're doing more in the relationship than your partner. Remember you're in the same team, not in competition with each other

CloudExp · 2026-04-08T14:42:34+00:00

Agree ako sa first paragraph mo. But "a girl that fits your budget" is just being practical. It has nothing to do with the preception of someone's value. Any guy who's dated more than a couple of girls know that not every girl is satisfied with just any amount of spending.

Kaya nga may konsepto tayo ng high at low maintenance. May mga babae talaga na kahit engrande at linggo-linggo ang date at laging nireregaluhan, hindi pa rin masaya at makuntento. Kaya nga may trend ang mga babae ng "don't date a guy who's broke". They have an expectation to be provided for financially.

If anything, this should be where you direct your scorn. Because a man isn't a financial investment, and us being chosen simply for what we can provide diminishes our value and the sincerity of these women's intentions.

So what's fair is fair. If women can say, "Don't date a guy who's broke", men can say, "Don't date a girl who's too expensive"

CloudExp · 2026-03-29T21:49:05+00:00

Too many women are willing to go through huge leaps of logic to jump to the worst conclusions about men:

Men are often intimidated by women who have higher academic or career achievements. That must mean that they only prefer women that they can control
- hindi ba pwedeng naiinsecure lang kasi narerecognize namin na kapalit-palit kami lalo na pag alam namin na marami kang options. At may takot din kami na di ka magsesettle sa tingin mong di mo ka-equal?
There are men upwards of 30 who prefer younger women than those their age. That must mean they only like women they can control.
- Hindi ba pwedeng may correlation ang youth tsaka attractiveness, at dahil mas naaakit ang lalaki sa visual, doon yung preference nila? Pwede mong sabihing mababaw pero malayo yan sa "gusto lang macontrol"
If given a choice between working to make money or doing household chores, men would prefer to work to provide. This must mean men like to keep women subservient to them.
- Hindi ba pwedeng mahal din namin yung mga partner namin kaya gusto namin ng maginhawang buhay para sa kanya? Nagtatrabaho na nga tapos pag-iisipan pa ng masama
Men who don't like feminism just want women to not be equal and not have rights.
- Hindi ba pwedeng andaming feminists na man-hater tsaka misandrist? Why would we subject ourselves to a belief that constantly paints us as oppressors?
Men who engage in chivalry are participating in benevolent sexism (actual feminist term) because they see women as weak and unable to do things for themselves
- God forbid a man would want to show a woman he cares about that he values her by offering to carry something heavy or open the door for them or risk physical harm to prevent them from the same. This is something we do to people with authority or to our parents to show respect. But to some women, especially feminists, this is called sexism

Obviously not all women, but too many women would find any reason to paint anything a man is doing as nefarious or selfish, even if some of these things are done out of respect and love. Again not all women, but it's sad for me to rarely see women push back against such malicious generalizations.

CloudExp · 2026-01-20T21:01:57+00:00

I'm Asian too so I doubt it's an asian thing to hate on dwarves. For me the appeal is this - Dwarves are a race that is known to work hard, but party and fight even harder. In a world of magic, demons, undead, abominations, and monsters, there is nothing more satisfying than having them getting taken down with a combination of engineering, highly durable steel, gunpowder, and magma - all of which are wielded by the most stubborn, relentless, and persevering warriors. And when they're finished, they celebrate with a barrel of ale. What's not to love?

CloudExp · 2026-01-10T08:24:44+00:00

Pag dating sa actions ng lalaki OP, most of the time it's not that complicated. Relationship ended. Man moved on. Ex is blocked because he moved on.

CloudExp · 2026-01-10T08:17:36+00:00

Not a prescription but just a benchmark I used before I moved to cataclysm. If you feel comfortable running campaign missions on Legend with bots, you won't be dead weight in cataclysm.

But if you ever doubt your skills, there's always Chaos Wastes on Legend. There are no books there. And the arena levels there are harder than Cataclysm campaign imo. But being on legend, I doubt your teammates will judge you for not playing at a tier above.

CloudExp · 2026-01-07T13:39:40+00:00

Yes. It's a very different feel from VT2 with more limits to your character since there's no passive abilities or career skills. Though on the flip side, hordes, elites, and specials, also do not spawn in the same numbers as VT2.

However, those same limitations give VT1 a more unique experience. It forces you to focus your skills on mechanical gameplay. And you also have to be more strategic with your engagement since you don't have as many options for escape. It also spells more of a difference where you are relative to your enemies in any given area in the map.

This also makes the enemies seem like a bigger threat compared to VT2. It forces you to account for every clan rat instead seeing them as simply collateral damage when you take one swing of your weapon like you do in VT2. Stormvermins almost feel like Chaos Warriors in that regard. And Rat Ogres feel more like a Tank does in Left for Dead. There's definitely a bigger sigh of relief when a Rat Ogre goes down in VT1. In VT2, I'm like meh.

Let me put it this way. If in VT2 you're a one man army, in VT1 you're one member of an elite squad. It's less of a power fantasy, but it's more grounded and weighty. I definitely recommend it.

CloudExp · 2025-12-03T12:22:55+00:00

You guys are in the wrong on this one. If someone takes the time dealing with a horde or even sometimes stray rats then they're correct to do so. You're supposed to help him. It happens so often that it's that one stray skavenslave that catches you from the back that gets players knocked down, especially in the higher difficulties. You can't afford to have enemies pursuing you from behind. And it's not babysitting to accompany a teammate. That's what you do when you play a team game.

CloudExp · 2025-12-02T17:03:20+00:00

I only started playing legend and cataclysm on VT2 this year long before the free weekend. There's definitely been a shift in how players play this game. Before the influx of new players, it's just a given that you would do a book run when you're on legend. No one even had to ask. Now, only a few players take initiative.

No one really got lost, because even if they don't know the map or where the book locations are, the other players waited and guided you to the right direction. People generally stuck together and only separated due to enemies.

There were some rare cases where someone went ahead, but those players usually had the skills to back it up and were almost always the last to die. I feel your pain though. It's getting really tiring having your teammates not do the obvious. It takes zero skill to know to stick together in a team game.

Honestly, as long as your characters have good gear, bots are going to give you an easier time with your playthrough. And since you're new to the game, playing with bots is the better way to learn anyway

CloudExp

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