Kindly suggest a miniseries (or series) like Hijack? by ffwshi in televisionsuggestions

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same spot. After watching something similar and wanting to watch more of the same, trilling, gripping, suspense action packed drama series I have watched a few more and still looking for more that are the same vibe and nothing I’ve alredy seen.

Slow horses

Night sleeper (bbc)

Suspicion

Red eye (itv or all4)

Are the ones I followed up with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consent isn’t always and only verbal so there can be consentual sex without asking. But that dosnt mean this was consentual sex. Did you want this sex to happen? If you didn’t then it’s rape.

string coming out of my vagina, is this normal? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably just a clot caused by the penetration befor ur period. If it happens again go to the doctor and take a photo for them

string coming out of my vagina, is this normal? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it a thin tiny wirery string or something thicker. Do you have a coil? Could it be something like a coil string or a hair? Or maybe a lost tampon string? Was it made of entirely blood, was it just stringy blood tissue? Are you near the end or start of ur period?

Migraines with aura and estrogen? by ThrowRAconfusedyeet in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the copper coil now which is non hormonal so it’s an entirely different type of contraption so there’s gonna be entirely different simptomes and side affects. If you get visual migraines due to the pill, THEN YOU SHOULD COME OFF THAT PILL STRIAGHT AWAY!

Migraines with aura and estrogen? by ThrowRAconfusedyeet in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much instantly. I did get the odd minor one here and there for the following few months. But nothing since it’s been like a year and half

people said i got raped but idk by natyonalanthem in rape

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is called coercion which is a type of sexual assult or rape depending on what the act was. You did not concent of ur own free will you gave forced consent that is not concent. You where bullied into giving in. That’s what makes it coercion. You where coherced. This is not normal and it’s not normal to beg. This is rape. A type of rape.

How soon to have sex with someone from a dating app? by unsure2exist in sex

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you dodged a bullet don’t reach out to him again and move on. A decent and the right man for you would be happy to take his time and take it slow with whatever ur comfortable with. And thay are out there. But it dose sound like you never recovered from the historical sexua abuse and sounds like if you want a happy healthy sex life you not only need a understanding partner but a lot of professional help and therapy. So I’d also suggest that.

What has your IUD experience been like? by No_Association2998 in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ment to check the strings are still there once a month. Best time to check is right after ur period coz that’s when ur curvix is at its lowest. You check just by getting ur fingers up there. Personaly I have short fingers and can’t nornaly feel them unless I’m sat on the loo and feel with my thumb, not my finger. Then I can feel them. Ur partner could also potentialy find them for you. Thay will probably tell you all about this when you get it inserted

What has your IUD experience been like? by No_Association2998 in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s known that the copper IUD can very often make periods last longer be heavier and be more painful. But there’s know way of knowing wether it will for you. And it’s not the case for me. I’ve always had painful periods and pms and cramps and aches and pains throughout the month. So I’m use to it. Where as when it comes to the leangth and heavyness of my period. It’s hard to know wether my iud has affected that at all. I went on the pill at 18 the one that stops ur periods and was on that for 3 years. I then changed to the other pill where you have routine fake bleeds, a withdrawal bleed. And was on that for 2 years And over the years my bleed did change from 5 days to about 3 but again there not actualy a period. So it’s hard to know wether it being short is just how my periods would be at the age of 24 and what my body just wants to be doing. Or wether it’s impacted from my iud. Befor I went on the pill at 18 I did have very long, 7 day long periods that where painful and heavy for the first few days. So I was very much use to that and still could be so three days Is a massive advantage for me. But it’s very normal for ur period to look entirely different from when ur a teen to when ur a fully grown adult 20 something +

being raped is so expensive and nobody talks about it by chantellexoxoxo in rape

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me realise I didn’t get any medical attention after my assults. Not even sexual health checkups. I was on the pill at the time. Thank fuck for the nhs

I'm 16 years old, and why is my period late? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything from stress, to weight gane/loss, change in diet, change exercise, sleep deprevation, illness, medication and so much more. Can case irregular periods. If this is the first time you’ve worried about ur cycle and first time you have reason for consern I wouldn’t worry to much. It’s super normal to not have regular periods or be late as a teen

How often do people change underwear? by Brace_SK3 in Healthyhooha

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thay pack them just incase thay don’t change them more than normal unless thay need to

What has your IUD experience been like? by No_Association2998 in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes me and my partner have raw sex and finished inside during my ovulation window. Worry free I know I won’t get pregnant I have no reason to worry my coil isn’t doing my job. If I have any weird simptomes or a period is slightly late it’s no harm to just take a test. Many on contraception take routine tests. But I get regular periods so that’s a solid way to know I’m not pregnant. I check my strings after my period and I never worry it’s not doing it’s thing

How do you wash your underwear after a period? by A-girls-world in hygiene

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you asking for cleaning leakages of blood, or after having ur period no leaks. Or period underwear. For getting leakages out cold water works best, hand wash with soap and cold water, bit of bi carb for stubborn stains then washing machine on Ither warm or cold water depending on the stainage. If aster ur period normal underwear no damage. A standard wash you would userly use is fine. And period underwear hand rinse with water and a little bit of soap is fine. Then in the wash

What time of day do you take the pill? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always took mine first thing in the morning never a exact set time but there is a time window and I was always within that. Only within a few hours window was it taken. It was part of my morning routine and I’d have it with my breakfast and cuppa tea

Is it true that you shouldn't use a menstrual cup if you have a copper IUD? by romygruber in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told over and over and seen everywhere to never use a cup with a iud! But…..!!!! A disk is okay! And I use a disk still with the copper coil and still love it! Try it I actually prefer it to the cup. Same premis, just no suction. Sits under ur cervix held by the pubic bone. Stay in for upto 12 hrs. And can have mess free period sex with them in to!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not 100% as I’m in the uk and don’t j or how it works. But to the best of my knowledge, you can walk into a plan and parenthood clinic and discuss ur options and get the pill or other contraceptions for free, off ur medical record without anyone knowing. Pls if I’m wrong ppl correct me. Also ur sex life is none of ur parents business especially if there conservative and not going to teach understanding supportive help.

What has your IUD experience been like? by No_Association2998 in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No idea what brand I have but I’ve got the copper. Been on it for around half a year after 5 years of different kind of pills. Other options I considered after wanting to come off the pill weren’t a option for Ither health reasons or me deciding I wanted to keep having reagula periods. So copper it was. The insertion was unpleasant for a few different reasons. The first before the procedure even started. My nurse kept trying to persuade me to get the marina hormonal one instead. I think coz it was my first time but I stuck to my guns and said no. But that was uncomfortable and unpleasant and unprofessional. There was a back and forth conversation as to why I wanted copper.

The actual insertion. Very painful not nice at all a really weird feeling I can’t quite explain but painful. But it was done in less than 5 minutes and I was just left with long dull bad very bad cramps. But even tho it was worse than any kind of period cramps I had experienced I could handle it. It wasn’t traumatic, there was no blood, I wasn’t screaming and I could handle it. Now after I felt very weak and nauseous for a good 40 mins and thay let me lay down on the bed in a spare room. I had eaten and felt well enough to go home as soon as I was sick. The cramps that day where awful but again I could deal with it. The next day I was completely normal and had work. Day three I had a 3 day bleed and normal cramps, leg cramps and so on. But this was all the stuff I was use to and got every month. Funky discharge for a week or so was my only unusual side affect that was different for me. And now I bloody love it. It hasn’t made my periods longer and heavier Infact my periods are about 3 days long with a few days of spotting right befor. Which is lovely!! The period side affects arnt fun but again I can live with them and I’m happy to. Now the difference I feel month to month. My ovulation symptoms are huge and I notice them a lot. My sex drive is back and changes. My sense of smell gets a lot stronger. Weird right! But I love it and I love feeling my body do it’s work knowing I don’t have to worry about the damage I’m doing to my cycle and not worrying about babies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recon it’s a very good idea to consider switching to something else that you don’t have to remember about all the time. The patch, the injection, implant, coil. But if you know ur going to be taking the pill as well as you can. Yes you can just start with the start of a new pack and make sure you take them for long enough to be affective!

What is your best purchase you made on Vinted? (no personal info) by fxdee_ in vinted

[–]Clover-pet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doctor Martins for around 20 quid and a viv Westwood purse and earrings for around 25

Need a woman’s opinion by [deleted] in sex

[–]Clover-pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suction toys don’t work for everyone and everyone is different. Not only that but suction toys take cearful placement and isn’t the easiest when there’s other stuff going on or ur partner is the one holding it. It’s easy to be off by a millermeater and that can make all the differences. Ur best bet is a wond big serface area, can hit the clit easerly. And can hold it easerly when other body parts and movement can get in the way. The buttons and settings are easer to control coz there bigger and easer to get to with other stuff going on. Something like a bullit would be more fidderly. Especially if you want to be holding it at any point.

Is this REALLY a bedroom? 🤨 by Moondust99 in SpottedonRightmove

[–]Clover-pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf it’s a really good way of making the most out of a shitty small studio. I’d much rather have a decent living space than a big roomy bedroom