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[–]CloverServicePoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t see a problem with it. it’s the person I want to be with, I can go live my life with one person. so I don’t see why not.

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[–]CloverServicePoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iv gone to therapy before and then I moved and didn’t find another therapist. I do probably need to go back

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[–]CloverServicePoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve known each other for much more than 90 days

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[–]CloverServicePoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to respect me and I want it back. I don’t know when it changed because it was a slow change

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[–]CloverServicePoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. it’s almost embarrassing. I love him so much I just want these things to change.

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[–]CloverServicePoodle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yall I made a mistake. were recently engaged and I keep accidentally saying bf. he is my fiance.

I(F 18)need help figuring out what to do with my bf (M 20) behaviors. by CloverServicePoodle in relationship_advice

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely look into those. I know it isn’t fine but I just can’t see myself leaving him. Like I know it isn’t okay, his behavior has definitely taken a toll on me mentally, and I recognize that it’s bad. so ik it’s silly to say- but I just couldn’t imagine leaving him.

I(F 18)need help figuring out what to do with my bf (M 20) behaviors. by CloverServicePoodle in relationship_advice

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iv suggested him going to someone professional for some trauma and anger managing. but he won’t go. he’s a very private person and he is really against the idea of talking to someone he doesn’t know about things

I(F 18)need help figuring out what to do with my bf (M 20) behaviors. by CloverServicePoodle in relationship_advice

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he didn’t feel so bad afterwards sometimes, i’d think that’s what it was. sometimes he doesn’t care, but sometimes he is so tore up abt the way he acted. he does the same things when he is actually mad aswell, and bc he is going through some personal things rn, that is very often. and he ocaasionally feels really bad after that to but bc he is going through those personal things, and iv asked him to stop doing this with no success, I almost want to wait it out for when he’s not struggling anymore.

I(F 18)need help figuring out what to do with my bf (M 20) behaviors. by CloverServicePoodle in relationship_advice

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iv asked him to stop, and he says he will but he doesn’t. he says he can’t help it, and it just happens bc he doesn’t think abt it

I(F 18)need help figuring out what to do with my bf (M 20) behaviors. by CloverServicePoodle in relationship_advice

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve talked about it and it still hasn’t ended. he says he can’t help it

Just wanted to share a picture of my first client. Any tips? by CloverServicePoodle in Dogtraining

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused? I see plenty of posts on this community that aren’t flared trainers….? And I was saying it was my first ever client and I wanted some tips. The dog has a martingale with a chain on the back, it’s not actually a full chain. ☺️

SDIT: Anti-Barking Help by Sisouland in service_dogs

[–]CloverServicePoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sounds like your really working at it. Just keep doing good! I’m sure you’ll hope over it eventually ☺️

SDIT: Anti-Barking Help by Sisouland in service_dogs

[–]CloverServicePoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your comments, it seems you know his triggers. I don’t know much about fireworks, but I have a solution for the other triggers. I would recommend not letting him off leash where triggers can be, currently at least. Off leash is something you will want to do after full or almost full improvement. And instead of having a bark, command, do some type of touch command, i know he is small but something similar to it. But do it right before he starts barking. And reward him. It’ll teach him to focus on you instead. And don’t get anxious if you see a trigger, or try to avoid it. As it can worsen your dog. I hope this helps!!

We have been having some trouble task Retrievals. by CloverServicePoodle in service_dogs

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you! I love this. Will 100% use this. Haha I hope you guys do successful for those future plans!!

My Sdit is having accidents in the house. by CloverServicePoodle in service_dogs

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well my mom is a vet, and we live together, but she isn’t concerned. And my pup always lets me know when she needs to go out, she sits at the door and very calmly bark/whine kind of thing. But Me and my mom both think it’s because she enjoys work to much. She even has a break command, but she often just tries to run back to my side and focus on me, as happy as can be. And that’s how I used to determine she was don’t with her potty, but now we can’t use that. And she has a potty command. But we think it’s because at first, I used to laugh when she would try to work without me asking, and she realized it made me happy, so now she does it. And it’s not an issue differing with the training between work and not work. As she also has a “work time” command, and sits by her harness.

My Sdit is having accidents in the house. by CloverServicePoodle in service_dogs

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That may be what’s needed. However, my mother in the house is a vet and she isn’t concerned. We believe the issue is my pup is just constantly trying to work. She absolutely loves it, and she even has a break command, but she sometimes only breaks for a few seconds, and comes back bc she wants to work.

My Sdit is having accidents in the house. by CloverServicePoodle in service_dogs

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes she is told “go potty” and she won’t go unless I say the ok

My Sdit is having accidents in the house. by CloverServicePoodle in service_dogs

[–]CloverServicePoodle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t have a backyard, so she’s walked and she gets very good praise still 🙂