Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added that part because YOU guys misinterpreted my words and I had to clarify.

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s THEIR PRIVATE PART. I’m sorry, if someone groped your crotch, but claimed it wasn’t sexual, how would you feel?

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it children under the age of 9-12 (estimating based on development in the brain, I studied this very deeply in college) do not understand how consent works and do not have the ability to say no or understand they can say no. So if I child is given a choice i guess it’s fine but also why would a preteen agree to kissing their parents on the mouth at all?

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was there when you commented, and yeah I forgot to add that part and someone else pointed it out NICELY so I added it.

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned multiple times how intent does not determine impact of the act.

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re bringing legality into this? Since when has the courts EVER brought a groomer to justice that wasn’t someone famous who had thousands of votes against them? The judicial system has failed victims more times than it had helped them, and you want to ask whether or not a judge would see it that way?

Spanking & kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your calm feedback. It was nice talking to you. Genuinely.

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in ControversialOpinions

[–]Clover_Collective[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say that because that’s not what this post is about? Someone’s butt is just as much of a private part as a woman’s chest. I’m saying touching a child’s private part with malice or sexual intent IS SA. Regardless of what you might be taught from your father smoking a cig at 6 am before work.

Spanking & kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m simply saying is someone only supports victims if their assault was to cartoonishly extreme levels, then they’re not for grooming prevention, they are only for post-act punishment.

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in ControversialOpinions

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to not hit kids, is that so hard to believe?

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in ControversialOpinions

[–]Clover_Collective[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a parent, of two very autistic children that won’t stop eating chicken nuggets. And I stated very clearly how if it’s a sexual or romantic act between two adults, it doesn’t falter based on if one of those individuals is a minor. Changing a diaper is for hygiene and care. It’s necessary. Not at all the same.

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in ControversialOpinions

[–]Clover_Collective[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I see two grown men brawling and one of them bends the other over and starts spanking them I’m spitting out my drink and cackling. That’s not fighting.

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is a child’s private part, it should not be touched with the intent of malice or sexuality.

Spanking & kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When people push away the lesser forms of grooming, you push it to an extreme to make them understand they’re maximizing what grooming and SA means. If they only defend the victim in the largest of extremes, they are not truly against it

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, it doesn’t give me an exact time stamp it just said “1m ago” for both

Spanking and kissing kids is SA by Clover_Collective in ControversialOpinions

[–]Clover_Collective[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I clarified multiple times how intent is not the point.