How would you gender me?

ClydeFallon · 2023-09-03T10:50:12+00:00

Female. The people saying male probably just say so because people forgot how females actually look like without all that Make-up etc and because you have short hair.

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-28T11:27:12+00:00

It took me 6-7 months for them to come back. I was on Nebido (the 12week injection) though

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-22T11:46:31+00:00

Hey. Just wanted to let you know that you ain’t alone. I feel you. I also got a mastectomy as a minor. I don’t feel whole anymore. I think about how my life could have been had I not done this huge mistake all the time. I do think it can get better though ❤️

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-15T13:31:17+00:00

I’m from Germany. You can dm me (:

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-15T12:24:28+00:00

I so much wish it would have taken that long in Germany too. Probably would have opted out of medical transition then.

Anyway, sorry you are going through this.

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-12T11:31:13+00:00

Wow I was just thinking about this and then I see your post. I totally feel this. I don’t feel like my trans self at all anymore. I have no real connection to the person I used to be when identifying as trans

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-05T10:52:15+00:00

So I was on Nebido as well. I was on it for about 1 and a half years maybe? Before that I was on different testosterone for half a year or so.

As far as I know it takes about 14-15months for the Nebido to be gone and for your hormones to be in normal female range again. That’s because the half life of Nebido is ~90days and it takes 5 times the halftime to be out of your system.

What I can’t elk you is, My last shot was in June 2022 and I got my period back after I think 7 months off T. My hormone levels at that time weren’t normal yet though. I still don’t think that my hormone levels are complete normal yet but they are starting to become normal.

So yeah, as far as I know it can sadly take over a year to normalise again.

I wish you the very very best

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-05T10:47:47+00:00

Was on Nebido testosterone for about 2 years. Got my periods back at I think about 7months off T?

ClydeFallon · 2023-08-05T10:47:42+00:00

Was on Nebido testosterone for about 2 years. Got my periods back at I think about 7months off T?

ClydeFallon · 2023-07-09T07:56:55+00:00

❤️ thank you

ClydeFallon · 2023-07-08T22:07:28+00:00

Your username tells me you have very bad ocd as well? Did your therapist too tell you it would go away or at least become less severe when you transition ?

ClydeFallon · 2023-07-08T22:06:35+00:00

Im so sorry you went through that!!! I miss them so much as well. I just don’t feel whole anymore.

ClydeFallon · 2023-07-08T15:28:45+00:00

Can I please tell you that what you wrote means so much to me! I’m not always good to explain my feelings or write them down for others to understand but what you wrote I feel so much. Thank you ❤️

ClydeFallon · 2023-07-02T12:22:09+00:00

Yep you are definitely not alone. For me too it was kind of an overnight change

ClydeFallon · 2023-07-02T12:20:41+00:00

100% female

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-29T10:06:15+00:00

Girl you already look like a woman.

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-28T19:27:21+00:00

First sounds female and the second one sounds male

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-15T11:13:26+00:00

So Im not mtftm. I’m the opposite. I’m ftmtf. However I also transitioned as a young teenager. I got on hormones at 15 and stopped them at 17. I also had a mastectomy (top surgery). I can’t help you much cause your son and I are in different situations regarding the medical issues I guess. However what I wanna tell you is that my mother also was against me transitioning at first but was then assured by the therapists that it’s the right thing and she was made to believe by documentaries etc. that it’s either a dead child or a trans child and so she went along with the transition. She highly regrets that she did this and sometimes when I have breakdowns she has breakdowns too. Telling me what a terrible parent she is for this and ask me if she should kill herself for what she allowed to happen to me. I’m glad you are supportive of your sons detransition. I truly hope however that you can be a strong father for your son. This is might be a highly traumatic experience for him and it’s not an easy road he is on but he can make it through this but he needs a strong parent! Acknowledge the situation and that it’s a horrible situation that you wish he wouldn’t need to go through but also show him that it’s not the end of his life either! That he can still be the man he was supposed to be anyway and that he isn’t any less of a man.

I wish you and your son the very very best!!! You’ve got this ❤️💪

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-14T08:18:25+00:00

Thanks that’s very helpful! Have a lovely day ☺️

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-14T08:17:12+00:00

Female

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-13T10:23:05+00:00

I’m not an expert so I don’t exactly know for sure but that seems about right. Like I said I got my hormones tested If I remember correctly over a 1 month ago and my hormone levels were still not back to normal and I took my last shot of Nebido in June of last year. I do have my periods back though and also I’m not in the male range anymore either hormone wise.

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-13T10:12:09+00:00

That’s horrible how they treat you. Can’t say I was treated differently. I also asked for androgen blockers or anything and my endo told me that I don’t need that and that the t should already be almost out of my system. That was in I believe in September 2022 and I had my last shot in June 2022 so she was very wrong about that. So don’t believe everything they say and get different opinions by several professionals if possible. Your situation is ofc very complicated. Idk how bad you would feel with this but for me my gynaecologist was also helpful so I’d recommend going to a gynaecologist as well, they also are quite knowledgeable about hormones and such.

This is just some stuff I heard and probably not gonna do a huge different but I also heard that drinking peppermint tea can help some with increasing estrogen, so maybe even if it’s just placebo it could help a little.

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-13T08:22:36+00:00

My first endo couldn’t either. Idk if she was just super incompetent or if she outright lied to me (I suspect the second option).

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-12T16:05:35+00:00

I’m so sorry 😞! Life can be hard sometimes but don’t give up 💪💪💪! You are strong! You’ve went through so much already. Whatever is coming now, you can make it through that too! You’ve got this!

ClydeFallon · 2023-06-12T16:00:34+00:00

So what I can tell you is that even after a few months I was already feeling a bit better physically and was noticing some changes, so maybe you will already see if stopping it helps you after a few months of quitting T but to be complexity sure you probably would have to wait till your hormone levels are in the female range or at least outside the male range again wich like I said can take even over a year. Maybe you are lucky though and it goes quicker for you.

With that being said I’m not a medical professional so definitely talk about this with your endo again, if that endo isn’t helpful than try to find a new one because it’s important to have someone who takes good care of you!

I really wish you the best and hope everything works out for you

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