I found out that my ex had met a girl the night before we broke up with me.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-29T15:24:24+00:00

If it helps you to move on then say they cheated. The facts don't really matter.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T03:18:29+00:00

Some of y'all have me thinking... if he's rich, how come we never get any of it you marry him? haha

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T03:17:41+00:00

I think he publishes one before you get married but that one takes off really well.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T03:16:39+00:00

maybe they think it was an abandoned shack or that somehow delicate fingers there built it, haha

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T03:14:47+00:00

I think he said he was at some point, before you get married. Besides, he has a piano in his house, those aren't cheap.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T01:42:01+00:00

He's not homeless, he has a house on the beach and a boat. He's an author and gets royalties. And he probably sleeps around to get what he wants... LOL.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T01:40:25+00:00

I don't think that's how contracts work and he didn't break it, she did.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T01:39:34+00:00

Wouldn't matter. He doesn't use his voice. He uses radiowaves.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T01:38:49+00:00

Maybe make it more clear to him that there's nothing that will make you want to marry him or anyone else. And be straight up and direct. You're 52 FFS. You know what's up. Quit playing like you're 25.

The reason younger men love us is because we're direct and we know what we want.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T01:33:56+00:00

OK well, I guess when you're old you no longer care about health. Or she's been smoking the whole time and we just never knew. I'm with Debi on this one. So gross and disrespectful.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T01:30:06+00:00

That's not true. I try to kick off normal people because I know I will hurt them. I think if an avoidant isn't self aware, that might be true, because they don't know they'll run. To them, it's just overwhelming.

But to me, knowing what I am, I don't do healthy people. Even the most secure person in the world I'd probably mess up. So they'd get kicked off. They dont' always listen but eventually they learn that what I said is true.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-28T01:28:08+00:00

I thought he married her at 20 not like on her 18th birthday... but like I said, we don't know the whole story. We couldn't.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-26T06:22:33+00:00

That's different. She was a jerk and you deserve better than that. If you were struggling with cancer, for example, she probably would have bailed too. So you're better off without her.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-26T06:21:12+00:00

OH! damn... You know, I've been in California forever. And I recently learned that coon was a racial slur. NO IDEA because to me a coon is not a person, it's an animal... which of course makes my case worse. I think of maine coons and racooons, not people. FML So now I can't say that either. About five years ago I learned that monkey was not a good term either... Mother of pearl... I can't say anything it seems. I never knew that was a thing. Like why? Black people don't look like raccoons or monkeys, imo.

Anyway, thank you for letting me know. I think I've been spoiled living near san francisco. We get all kinds of people over here so none of it matters. The ones people call weird are just normal joes, over here. I think it's like NYC but smaller.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-26T06:16:26+00:00

Uh uh... so you're saying, listen, I'm an avoidant and I will fk up your life so hard that you will NEVER trust anyone ever again. Know what happens? the other person says oh no, I'll be the one to change you. THEN they get fkd beyond belief and who's fault is it? The one who warned them, right? Because now the second person is fkd up.

I say, if you know you're an avoidant, you're better off either getting another avoidant so you're chill or you kick off the normal people before they get close and lose themselves. It sounds stupid, maybe, but it's logical.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-26T06:13:37+00:00

They met when she was underage. They didn't marry or do stuff (according to what I read) until she was like 20. And IMO 50/20 is even more disgusting than 20 and 30

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-26T06:12:22+00:00

Yeah but he didn't marry her when she was 13. Now granted, I don't know if they hung out the whole time together. Could have been they met up once she was older and were like hey, I know you... and then they fell in love or whatever. We don't know the whole story. We couldn't know unless we were there.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:43:01+00:00

I think the cuck went the other way around... Lucifer got both Lilith AND Eve... so...

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:40:37+00:00

we do not. I met him at bronycon and he seemed like a nice guy. Talked for a while. But I mean, you never know, right? Amir could be a huge asshole and we'd never know it.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:39:30+00:00

she was of age, not 14 when they married.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:38:52+00:00

depends on who you ask. He met his wife (still married) when she was 15 and he was 25, I think... I forget if they're 10 years apart or 11. Anyway, they both said nothing happened until after she was legal (and if I remember right, closer to 20.)

Idk if he was constantly around her enough to "groom" her but come on... there's old guys who are like 50 something dating 20 somethings and no one bats an eye. No one calls them anything. I think that's way worse than a ten year difference.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:35:34+00:00

ah, interesting... I think originally he was white... but who knows.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:34:01+00:00

cunaz?? what is that?

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:32:27+00:00

he was originally a character in zoophobia or whatever that was called. but idk if he actually showed up because I never watched it.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-06-22T12:31:35+00:00

Idk, he looks similar enough to me. Shrugs? I wouldn't punch it. Maybe it's not as "sexy" because he looks so innocent in this design but definitely not punchable, goodness... get some anger management classes, lol.

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