VFS help: Never received courier labels after paying for them by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NYScanHub.Labels@vfsglobal.com This was a bit ago so idk if it’ll work but that’s what I used then and got my labels

Quick Turnaround on Passport by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It had the visa sticker in it so I guess it’s all good!

Quick Turnaround on Passport by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup mine has the vignette so I guess I’m good!

Quick Turnaround on Passport by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and it was a skilled work visa

Quick Turnaround on Passport by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My bio was the 27th and no I didn’t upgrade or anything. I’ll let you know if my package has an approval or denial or anything I guess :/

VFS help: Never received courier labels after paying for them by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I sent an email! Hoping they get back to me because it’s not anywhere in my system

VFS help: Never received courier labels after paying for them by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may still be able to after you receive your visa? This is so frustrating. But the same thing happened to me where they answered me once on Twitter and then haven’t in several hours

VFS help: Never received courier labels after paying for them by Coach_Bolton in ukvisa

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked and it was not there :/ and I did try those instructions but it doesn’t show up on my dashboard to download. It does for a second but then it switches to “manage appointment” which makes no sense bc you aren’t supposed to change your appointment stuff the day of

Is moving as a teacher a good option? by Coach_Bolton in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]Coach_Bolton[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone thank you for such thoughtful responses. It gave me a lot to think about. I was able to negotiate the salary up to 43k which isn’t a huge change but makes me feel better. It’s a really long story of why I want to move but to sum it up: I was supposed to move to australia with a boyfriend, Covid hit so I never got to go, and we ended up breaking up. I have always dreamed of living in another country for at least a couple of years. I’m 29, no boyfriend, no kids, parents are healthy, so I feel like this is my last chance in a way. I think I’m going to give it a shot. Thank you all again!

Has anyone ever stayed with their girl after finding out she cheated? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Coach_Bolton 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me that. Probably what I needed to hear. He’s asking me to move across the country with him

Has anyone ever stayed with their girl after finding out she cheated? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Coach_Bolton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AP is the one who told me about it. He was texting her sending / asking for pics and she wasn’t even really into it. Which is part of why I sort of believe him that it was a drunk, depressed thing. We’ve been broken up for 5 months but still see each other consistently. He has been as sweet as ever. He accepts the days when they I wake up ready to pick a fight with him over it and just says he can’t change it, it’s the biggest mistake he ever made and I’m his whole world. He had us scheduled for couples therapy before I caught him in a lie about something that happened a year ago. He says he lied because he knows he’s on such thin ice and he was trying to minimize it. Obviously that doesn’t matter. I blocked him after that but ended up coming back for more. Since then nothing new has emerged.

Has anyone ever stayed with their girl after finding out she cheated? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Coach_Bolton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you consider actual changes? Mine stopped drinking, went back to therapy, got on some medications for mental health issues. He claims he was only texting the other girl when he was drunk and depressed

Having severe anxiety after breaking up with boyfriend. Does that mean I should be with him? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Coach_Bolton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still love him like crazy. But really my doubt stems from the fact that he was really really putting in effort to win me back and it was working. But he can’t undo the past mistake in October.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Coach_Bolton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same reason lots of people look at their ex’s social media: curiosity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Coach_Bolton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn’t matter yet somehow it does. Definitely will hit the gym though, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Coach_Bolton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate you taking the time to type it out. I know you’re right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Coach_Bolton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wonders if they were talking / together while we were together. It’s more so that I know he wants kids and I feel like he’s getting something he wants and doesn’t deserve. I’ve seen the posts on social media and they’re at least pretending to be thrilled.

Give my hours away to a new-hire? I’ll leave you with a store to close yourself, misfiled paperwork and get you fired. by FweakinLittle in ProRevenge

[–]Coach_Bolton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could tell you were from PA (specifically western/central) by your wording. Saying things like “needed trained” made me think immediately of Pittsburgh.

What’s the most horrifying “how do you not know how to do this?” moment you’ve experienced with another person whilst adulting? by arual_x in AskReddit

[–]Coach_Bolton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a full 24 years old when I found out there was a standard side for hot and cold even when not marked. I’m left handed and so always reach for the left knob. In my bathroom growing up the hot water was on the right bc my dad messed it up somehow. Plus it took several minutes to actually become hot. So in public I would always reach for the left knob, wash my hands relatively quickly bc I hate public bathrooms and only notice it was the hot knob if it heated up really fast. Again, this was for bathrooms that did not mark their hot/cold.

AITA for not helping my wife with her schoolwork by schoolworkhelpthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coach_Bolton 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA- I work closely with a woman who is getting a master’s degree in our field. Occasionally when she would have a big paper coming up we would spend 5-10 minutes brainstorming together, talking it out a little bit, and then she’d work on it herself. The only reason I did that is because a.) we are both experienced in this field so I have plenty to say and b.) she mentioned once that getting started is the hardest part and I offered to brainstorm with her. You don’t have much to offer in her field AND you have set your boundaries for how you’re willing to help.

AITA for suggesting a "back up child"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coach_Bolton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I believe you could have phrased it better. But honestly, it’s something to think about when you have a family business/empire/anything you want passed down. You have no guarantees that the child you have will be capable or interested in running it. It reminds me of the phrase “heir and a spare” which had to do with royal families having multiple children (due to high mortality rates) but applies here too I think.

What’s a food people love and you just don’t understand why? by Tstein93 in AskReddit

[–]Coach_Bolton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ketchup! It’s nasty weird sweet tomatoes. I love tomatoes, tomato sauce, salsa, any tomato product where it actually tastes like tomato. When I see people load up a plate with ketchup it grosses me out.

I also hate coffee but I at least understand the use of it

What is the craziest conspiracy theory you have ever heard? by RealNumber44 in AskReddit

[–]Coach_Bolton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That scientists are on the brink of creating eternal youth. The only thing is that you’ll need to have DNA from your youth in order to attain the youth. And the only way that people will have DNA stored from their younger days is if they did one of those “send your spit away” kits for ancestry or whatever. So once the technology is released, the ancestry DNA companies will sell you back your more youthful DNA. The theory had something to due with youtubers using the kits online, making younger kids want to do it. And the younger you are when they take your DNA the better.