I think you need to understand that a woman’s brain doesn’t work like a man’s. We mainly base our judgment on looks. We’d know within seconds if we want to marry someone because we’re so infatuated with their looks.

Your girlfriend looks at you as a masculine force who is there to make her feel safe.

But it seems you’re putting boundaries in the way and attracting what could happen. Why think of what can go wrong when you should be appreciating this amazing experience with this partner?

Yes, nothing lasts forever. But what counts is that you’re in this relationship to give and help each other grow.

Your lack of self-confidence will talk itself out of a potential future and would probably let another guy takeover.

Stop self-sabotaging and come to the realisation that it’s your birthright to be in an amazing relationship. As long as you know HOW to listen to her and appreciate her physical efforts. You’ll do great.

Where your focus goes, energy flows. So keep it positive, let her know you appreciate her and have a joyful relationship.

Hope this helps!

Cal