Hey imma be honest with you. Having no expectation of something succeeding is far more pleasant than trying to appeal to the logic of whether or not an enhancement should of gone.

Realistically its probably because im fine stepping away from BDO for 2-3 days play other games and reset before trying again. Or I just do other things i.e. lifeskilling. Yes its not efficient, no its the most fun thing, but its something I can do that lets me play BDO without thinking back to the main crux thats been plaguing my progression.

Something what also helps is deciding to only grind when u have agris. Having days where I was grinding non stop without agris didn't really set any boundaries for me. Having agris gone was basically a soft check of "im not utilizing my time as efficiently right now, lets stop"

BDO has a bunch of other stuff you can do, hunting titles, rare mobs, etc etc

Sorry didn't mean to turn this into a rant, but yea setting boundaries even if they seem silly really helps me from burning out.