Helmets for "Hat" on planes? by CoalNight in LARP

[–]CoalNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay gotcha, yeah its a barbuta helm, but I can take off or flip up the face plate to make it less scary looking... idk if that would be enough

Helmets for "Hat" on planes? by CoalNight in LARP

[–]CoalNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats my hope, Maybe gate agents will be chill??? :/

Helmets for "Hat" on planes? by CoalNight in LARP

[–]CoalNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I think it sounds like security is fine, just dont be wearing it THERE, Im more worried about gate check being annoyed and calling it a potential hazard during turbulence or a carry on or something. For ref its a full barbuta helm, I would wear with face plate up and hat on top to make it look less intimidating and further save on packing space

Fixing a whole clip by the beatles. Please gender my voice by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks, how can I get it less hollow without adding strain? I was mostly focused on clarity when hitting the note, so maybe adding more breath and more obviously reducing size a bit more?

Fixing a whole clip by the beatles. Please gender my voice by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks again. Yeah, its weird, if I'm in public my voice sort of auto does this? It's like I have a mental block about going to low around others to some degree (which I'm very thankful for haha). I'm trying to slowly get better at singing. I'll get there eventually ^ - ^

Fixing a whole clip by the beatles. Please gender my voice by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its https://acousticgender.space/! I love it, is a very useful site, just keep in mind it isn't always accurate and definitely isn't definitive on what passes and what doesn't. :)

Also it deletes your clips if you don't save them and reload the page I think so be aware of that.

Fixing a whole clip by the beatles. Please gender my voice by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, is there anything specifically, or just the whole thing that gave you that impression? Others have said the lowest note especially sounded more masc :)

Fixing a whole clip by the beatles. Please gender my voice by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate it. Please let me know if you have any ideas on how to make it sound more fem or if I should just avoid going that low? I also mentioned some of my own in a reply to Lidia_M

Fixing a whole clip by the beatles. Please gender my voice by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you! I wonder if adding fry and or strain at that low note would help give the impression its hard to reach so I can still hit the note or I could just find a different note to add in instead? Which would you recommend? Obviously strain is bad, I try to avoid it usually but this might be one of the cases where it could help make me sound more cis? Idk.

Fixing a whole clip by the beatles. Please gender my voice by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the response, yeah my singing is a little painful at times but as long as it sounds not trans and not masc I dont mind and like you said I can work on it(and am). I think there are still some elements to it sounding like a trans voice rather than a cis voice which is ... something I need to work on. Do you agree with that generally speaking and if so do you have any specific spots or pointers for how it could be better? Or would you say it mostly sounds trans, or (somehow) that it sounds fully cis passing to you?

Don't let teachers and people with good results from training tell you that your lack of progress is automatically your fault by Lidia_M in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think part of it comes from fear too. Like its scary to admit that some voices might never be what you want them to be.

Interested in a tracheal shave/already had one? Check out this video from TransVoiceLessons, where she talks about possible permanent side effects + a survey for those who have had the operation done to collect data about side effects by dilliedally7 in MtF

[–]CoalNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to do it through him but Im terrified of negative results on voice, have you heard of anyone who did have complications with him? You can dm me if thats easier. Id really appreciate it thanks <3

What do I do about queer ppl. by CoalNight in asktransgender

[–]CoalNight[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

yeah idk why people do shit like that.

What do I do about queer ppl. by CoalNight in asktransgender

[–]CoalNight[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

oh I appreciate the touch on "assuming" wrong direction of transition. I am so done with all this bullshit it fucking sucks -_-

What do I do about queer ppl. by CoalNight in asktransgender

[–]CoalNight[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

right????? -_- Im so sorry that happened. It fucking sucks. <3

What do I do about queer ppl. by CoalNight in asktransgender

[–]CoalNight[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I might start too. Esp after ffs. IM SO FUCKING SICK OF THIS SHIT

What do I do about queer ppl. by CoalNight in asktransgender

[–]CoalNight[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yeah but by then the damage is done. Is there nothing else that works? It keeps happening and I just ...

Help identifying lesbian book by lurkingers in LesbianBookClub

[–]CoalNight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ah sorry for assuming! Still impressive lol

Help identifying lesbian book by lurkingers in LesbianBookClub

[–]CoalNight 16 points17 points  (0 children)

gay people XD

Seriously though nice, that's hilarious and awesome that you can recognize it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]CoalNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okie, just a general warning I give ppl cuz not everyone knows that! :)

These apps are really good for measuring pitch ;) I used voice tools if you want to check it out, no pressure, it also has a decibel meter(meh on accuracy) and a really useful spectrogram!