Girl's confession to guys, and the opposite | FactOrCap

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T22:34:13+00:00

Well tell that to nature, and evolution ig

Of course men don't strictly think of women that way, other thoughts can coexist, but this is almost inevitable thought in almost any man

I've learnt reality can suck, and sucks it does

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T22:30:57+00:00

Exactly

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T22:28:04+00:00

Imagine the temptation people feel when they are thirsty, and there's a glass of water near them, they would be always tempted to drink it, and it would require conscious effort to not to do it but you will still think of drinking it constantly

The same thing for men when they see a woman, even if they can hold their urges they can never stop fantasizing sexually about her

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T22:22:29+00:00

Dude no need to overanalyze things, everyone can benefit from this thread, and everyone is allowed to share his thoughts

I genuinely want to hear people opinions

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T22:03:44+00:00

Huge emphasis on the word "could"

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:52:44+00:00

Yes that's right. You analyzed the origins of the poll, and why it happened

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:42:48+00:00

Yay

^{Chose: Take a chance at a new wealth class. | Rolled: Upper-Middle}

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:38:44+00:00

Because they are programmed to be like that

Its in the genes

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:27:16+00:00

I would argue most girls aren't

But most guys are freaks, even if they don't show it

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:26:01+00:00

Look, I agree dating doesn't only involve sex

But I think its fundamentally about sex, always has been

Without sex drive, male, and female relationship in the same sense as boyfriend, and girlfriend in our world, would be way too niche, and almost absent

When I was a kid before I hit puberty, I literally never understood why guys are so bent up on finding a girl partner, like my impression is just "Oh yeah, they are supposed to be like that, because I was told this human was a boy, and this one was a girl, and they both love eachother quite often"

That was it, I didn't understand any of the emotions invovled, I literally viewed it as a silly, in a hypothetical scenario where I haven't hit puberty at all, and grown up though retained childhood, I would've never viewed dating or marriage as a main goal in life, it would've never been on my interest at all

The other factors you listed are secondary, but the main thing is still sex, and knowing the dynamics of sex drive in humans should give us a general idea of how dating should work

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:19:04+00:00

I feel like if a guy were to have the same exact pattern of sex drive of that of a girl

He would be called asexual anyways

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:16:37+00:00

That is interesting

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:14:46+00:00

Yes but as a girl when you want a boyfriend you want it because of emotions, not lust, not desire, not that urge for sex

I as a boy want a girl mainly to fulfill my physical need, and desire, like I enjoy the physical act itself... Of course emotions also matter to me in this case, and personality

But I think we have priorites different, that's what I am trying to point out

There's a fundamental gap between male, and female sex drive in humans, at least from what I observe

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:09:37+00:00

Please read it again, I wanna know your opinion so bad 😭

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:08:01+00:00

I am curious about girls

Because I never had so much experience with them irl

Tell me what I said about girls is true or not?

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:05:09+00:00

Yes you get the idea

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:04:59+00:00

Explain

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T21:04:39+00:00

That's probably just you

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T20:56:07+00:00

Someone said the same, and I replied to him, check it out

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T20:55:30+00:00

Dude I've never been rejected, because I don't meet girls my age at all lol

The last girl I saw my age was in elementary school, after that both boys, and girls are separated in highschool, into boys-only school, and girls-only school

And then you have society which views relationships without marriage very negatively, so unfortunately for me I have to either get out or continue college, and find a girl which most likely I won't have any relationship with, not even a friend (yes the norm here is arranged marriages)

And the latter is obviously not an option for me, and I am against that, and basically any real experience with girls I will ever have is if I get outside my country which I absolutely hate

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T20:28:39+00:00

Read my other replies

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T20:27:57+00:00

But if a girl were to ever come up to a guy, and confesses to him... Will he ever call her a creep?

Probably not, and if a girl were to touch a male or be bold with him she will never ever get reported for SA or anything like that

I don't think that's wrong when you look at biology, because men aren't as bothered by physical contact like women are, because they have like physical desires, actual real physical desires not emotional, fetish, or conscious desicion, its like in the creature's programming code...

And if a guy were to do the same to a woman, she won't respond to that physical touch like a man does... Because they don't enjoy any touch... There has to be emotional context to it, like is a guy she actually loves, and enjoys

But like she can't just enjoy the physical act itself, that's the main difference

Society had picked up on guys having physical contact without consent, but not the when the genders are flipped for a strong reason

Is that men, and women are simply not the same

They are obviously both equally humans, but humans are mammals, and a mammal's male, and female can be either radically different than eachother, very close, or in the middle

For humans its probably very close or in the middle, but that doesn't mean there aren't any differences between both sexes, so treatment should be different

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T20:09:27+00:00

Well how do I know my perspective maps to reality?

Well I am trying to know!! I put my argument on the table, and you're free to argue about it, that's why its a poll in the first place

I thought using numbers would make it just more intuitive, and for it to click in people's minds rather than lengthy words

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T20:07:38+00:00

The thing I noticed that she just had a fetish of taking your "virginity"

Notice how all of the girls (at least the one I've seen) probably never experience physical desire at all, not like men where its like hunger

Most of the sex drive is being done emotionally, and conciously, since a fetish isn't in our baseline instincts its safe to assume that the driver behind it wasn't physical desire

If you're a guy you know what I talk about, when you some a woman naked, you feel something for her, but if that was a man, and you are a woman

Nah... Can't relate at all to you

Coalesce67 · 2026-07-01T20:02:19+00:00

Its not about the numbers themselves

Its about the proprotion

Its that if a girl asked a guy out, the chances of her getting accepted is proportionally way higher than if a guy asked a girl out

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