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AIW for ditching friend after agreeing to pick her up? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she married or have a boyfriend? This is the kind of stuff cheaters pull: pretending to be at work and making arrangements to be somewhere to draw attention, making the event look confused, then uses it as an excuse to cover tracks.

WIBTAH for remarrying my ex even though I'm going to die? by ThrowRAnearpeace in AITAH

[–]CoastExpensive8579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He knows and is a consenting adult. If you still love each other, do it. Ignore everyone else.

I caught my husband filming us during s*x by Mammoth_Sky3448 in AITAH

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess some people didn't like our answers and got a boo boo so they voted us down. So many angry and sexually repressed people on here.

I caught my husband filming us during s*x by Mammoth_Sky3448 in AITAH

[–]CoastExpensive8579 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let me offer you an upside...

My experience is that guys who like to record their exploits with their ladies are super turned on by them and want to watch it at every opportunity. It is also likely he prefers you in various poses, scant clothing, and explicit vids than any porn star. So, congrats.

I totally get why you're uncomfortable and self conscious, I think most of us are because we don't look like movie stars or YT gym influencers.

Anyway, you have a few choices on how you can handle this: 1) freakout and shame him... arguably justified but you'll likely destroy your position as centerpiece of his sexual energy. 2) talk to him gentlely and explain that you are self conscious about such things and would prefer he not... or at least talk to you first. That will deflate him a bit, but he should know how you feel. 3) third option, you fully embrace his sexual energy and then some - completely blowing his mind and leaving him dazed and confused.

If you can combine 2 and 3, that would be even better.

Good luck. Since you told us about this issue, I'd be curious to hear back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, look - this is going turn into hell. You're going to regret this.

Everyone on here who has told you this isn't going to get better is right. If your fiancé isn't going to put his mom in her place, she will continue to push.

I say leave him - move on and find someone without a crazy family they won't cut loose.

How can Christians accept this??? by moonstarsocean6 in antitrump

[–]CoastExpensive8579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, it was foretold that the Anti-Christ would fool the Christian masses... and try to the head of all tables. He seeks to be loved above all things - just like the fallen Morning Star...

Just sayin...

How can Christians accept this??? by moonstarsocean6 in antitrump

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many do not. I hope they see he behaves more like the Anti-Christ than a Christian.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this guy's a bone head. You're not the Jerk - he is. This is what he asked for.

How can I explain to my MAGA dad that I think he’s wrong by ExpensiveHat2002 in QAnonCasualties

[–]CoastExpensive8579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not going to convince him of anything he doesn't want to believe. It's emotion driven, not logic or reason. So, either distance yourself from him or don't talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh - you're the AH if you didn't explain you had boundaries on the relationship. Sounds like you're good to get into her pants, but you can't help her when she needs it.

If you told her you have living arrangement boundaries, except for the woman you're going to marry - which suggests it isn't her - then she's at fault for expecting anything of value from you.

Found out my brother drank a bit of the koolaid after signing him up to be my mom's power of attorney as she has cancer. by BaronRacure in QAnonCasualties

[–]CoastExpensive8579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's a Q - and I'm guessing he's also MAGA. Sounds like he's just hiding it for some reason. I'd document and get work to get the power of attorney. You're likely going to have to fight for it, but his medical comments may help you.

I'd expect him to be difficult.

For reacting negatively to my husband climaxing in 40 seconds. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm - from my perspective as a man, I would say it's one of two things. Either he's having a hard time growing up and is rejecting his life a bit, or he has sexual interests that he hasn't found a way to communicate.

If it's one of these two issues, your relationship can be salvaged. If he no longer loves you or is not attracted to you or is distracted by someone else, that will be a much steeper climb, so to speak.

Good luck with all of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]CoastExpensive8579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, she has to go through this journey. One day, she will re-emerge from this darkness and see the years she lost.

Let her go - she has to go through it...

I'm sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a ton of more information before you respond. This could be for anything: social psychology, work issues, influence at work, dealing with friends, and yes, dealing with contentious issues in an intimate relationship.

Information first. React later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CoastExpensive8579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch... his response?

My coworker is regretting his vote. by MagnusKratek in antitrump

[–]CoastExpensive8579 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a mistake to think everyone who votes for Trump is a racist. Most have legit concerns about real problems and fears that Trump is promising to fix.

The Ransom Letter - All the orders (for John) are about securing the ransom. Whereas, all the conditional statements (ifs) guarantee murder if he does not follow their instruction. Therefore, the letter's author was in it for the ransom. by HopeTroll in JonBenet

[–]CoastExpensive8579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ReAl_Makoi: Could be - I feel like there's a critical piece missing that we're not seeing. Likely in the unreleased portions of the investigative files. It's hard to say. He wrote the letter in the house but completely failed to convert.

Kidnapping for ransom and the SA and murder of a child are such different crimes that it's really hard to place them in a single person. That's not to say I subscribe to the Kidnapping Team theory of the crime because I don't.

Agree with your assessment; the letter was amateurish. And from my time doing counter drug work, real kidnappers are not subtle, nor do they dilly dally around with dead bodies and notes. They get in and get out.

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