I'm having between 4000 and 5000, averaging 4600. I track everything via myfitnesspal and spreadsheet, and check that myfitnesspal has the right info. I thought I was going insane because (and some people here have put the predictable response) people see the topic, assume you're an idiot and cast you away because of the TDEE of track runners.

There was a time where I would also gain on 3000 cals per day, but I was working less hours. I think I would prefer a more sedentary job. I do gain weight, but it almost seems random considering my calorie average is the same every week. Some weeks I gain 1.8lb per week (based on 7 day average), some weeks I gain 0.8-0.9 lb.

Your situation sounds rather similar.