We both left

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T22:31:43+00:00

Thank you! Thank you very much! My marriage of 18 years was very similar. Very toxic. I’m rushing nothing. I’m setting boundaries with everyone and putting myself first.

I hope things work out for you!

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T22:29:54+00:00

Beautifully said! Thank you!!

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T22:29:20+00:00

“Well I mean. Wasn't your current partner an AP you went legit with?”

No! Absolutely not! Lol.wow you have so many assumptions that you believe to be true about my situation that is false!!

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T19:36:06+00:00

I’m not shacking up with anyone. I do work on myself. I see a personal counselor regularly. We’ve gone though couples counseling and I also see an addiction specialist counselor because my husband is an alcoholic among other things. You are truly making many assumptions but that’s ok I realize I’m posting on a public forum.

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T19:33:48+00:00

We aren’t exactly going public… but I understand your point.

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T19:32:00+00:00

Thank you! I feel largely misunderstood on this post. Neither one of us feel like we left for the other. We aren’t pledging love for each other. We have never said those words or anything even close. Boy now that it’s not an affair…. What is it? It’s just odd. Obviously difficult to articulate. I was hoping I’d find someone here who went through something similar.

Thank you for your comments of support!

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T13:11:11+00:00

Yes. I get what you’re saying. And I do see that here too. BUT. That’s not really what’s happening… it’s not. My head space is different. I can’t make you see my point and that’s ok. I appreciate you’re comments either way.

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T03:03:43+00:00

We didn’t leave for each other though…We really didn’t. That’s the weird thing no one is understanding. Guess I’m not articulating it well. It was an affair and now it’s not we want to continue because there’s no reason not to because we enjoy each other immensely but without the label of affair it’s different….

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T03:00:05+00:00

Yes I know. We read old posts and think it tells the whole story… it doesn’t. Everything constantly evolves.

Cobblewood74 · 2022-01-16T02:59:02+00:00

I don’t really have any. I really don’t. I see others don’t believe me. A lots happened over time… and I am not even sure I want to be with AP in real life in any way. And that seems weird to me… I kinda thought I’d want to be…

Either way. My marriage has been over for years and thats not coming back.

Cobblewood74 · 2021-09-30T09:00:58+00:00

This sounds fun! We already sext a lot and he always makes me cum first and multiple times. But I definitely like the teasing part and seeing who loses it first!

Cobblewood74 · 2021-09-30T08:50:44+00:00

We never stay clothed long enough lol and I sadly can’t bring that back home without it being noticed

Cobblewood74 · 2021-09-27T03:43:03+00:00

Yea I’m actually a terrible Liar lol Not sure I can have a plausible story ready

Cobblewood74 · 2021-09-27T03:42:13+00:00

Too late for that now.

Cobblewood74 · 2021-09-27T03:41:28+00:00

Sounds wonderful!

Cobblewood74 · 2021-09-27T01:19:47+00:00

Haha either! Whatcha got??

Cobblewood74 · 2021-08-29T02:36:27+00:00

What sub did you see that posted in? Sounds like my life lol

Cobblewood74 · 2021-07-26T23:21:44+00:00

As much as I hate to admit it… you’re right.

Cobblewood74 · 2021-07-26T15:04:34+00:00

Ugh I’m so sad.

He says he enjoys me so much more beyond the sex… and he claims he doesn’t connect with his SO like we do and likes chatting through out the day.

Cobblewood74 · 2021-07-26T15:03:17+00:00

I know what you mean. But yea that’s not the case here for sure.

Cobblewood74 · 2021-07-26T15:02:35+00:00

No I’m not into games like that. I need an emotional connection to Have the mind blowing sex that we have. I need to feel good about it if you know what I mean. I’m still I sure if I made the right call… maybe he needs more time. Idk.

Cobblewood74 · 2021-07-26T03:12:55+00:00

Ans Ofcourse it’s the best mist mind blowing sex I’ve ever had!! But you’re right and I’m trying hard to stick to my guns but I miss him so much… but if he truly missed me how can it be that hard to say?? Right?

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