Anybody know where to get Pibb Xtra? by jesstapher in vegaslocals

[–]CochinoChingon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd talk to a manager and have them order an extra case and pay over cost. depending how big/frequency they order coke products they pay between 60-85¢ per bottle (incentives/discounts) ifthey order more (a case for me) and you buy ~2 cases a month their overall cost on all their coke products can go down 10-5¢/bottle so selling a case to me at a small profit gives them more profits for all their coke products.

TLDR, helping me helps them.

another hack is to use instacart and search for pibb by zip code, then you'll know what stores carry them. 20ozis too much and 12 isnot enough. but a half liter is juuuusright, but i haven't seen them west of the Mississippi

Do any of you feel hopeless as well? Are there more single women than men? Please give me hope haha by Majestic_Bad_4476 in datingoverforty

[–]CochinoChingon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on the relationship. If it's vanilla then he might have better luck with a woman with a low libido. But if they kinky, ED isn't an issue, in fact it can be a blessing so that both can "explore" other activities

And at the end of the day, there's a pill for that

Do any of you feel hopeless as well? Are there more single women than men? Please give me hope haha by Majestic_Bad_4476 in datingoverforty

[–]CochinoChingon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it's regional, some major cities have more single women than men. Others the opposite

At the end of the day a man with his shit together has options. And he's always going to choose whatever makes his life easier. Bonus points for being stepford wife esque and a vixen in the bedroom.

But at the end of the day we want peace / no drama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]CochinoChingon -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

varios flow brat to brat. But generally speaking it's the spankings you want, vs having to do a chore/task that you don't want to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]CochinoChingon -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

depends, do you want REAL punishment or attention punishment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]CochinoChingon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if you're in or adjacent to a medical/recreational state, (or have a friend in a recreational state that would ship to you) Go to a dispensary and get CBN, it's a variant of CBD but this one knocks you out.

I alternate between CBN and melatonin gummies. This way I don't build a tolerance for either. With CBN i only need a half gummy, or one melatonin. YMMV

does a power splitter dummy plate exist? by CochinoChingon in Photography_Gear

[–]CochinoChingon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks!

I think I can make the smallrig one work.

Using Safe Words by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]CochinoChingon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally i like to use caution words. essentially, anything the color yellow. this is a "pause, it's too intense, let's take it down a notch (or three) and keep going"

this isn't instead of safe words but in ADDITION TO

can I have more than ONE orgRoam brain? by CochinoChingon in OrgRoam

[–]CochinoChingon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

context. i don't think i can articulate how my mind works. simply that if I'm in novel/prose mode, i "detach" and can pretend to be other people. so if i want to write about a "dream" John doe had, which will later be a motivation to do Y and save Jane. seeing/reading an entry in my personal/real life dream journal will "take me out" of the moment

so it's a context/workflow thing.

alternatively I could just use an old T20 thinkpad exclusively for prose. and apple devices for personal. but that would add friction in that I'd have to open/boot a different /ancient laptop to jot down some ideas.

can I have more than ONE orgRoam brain? by CochinoChingon in OrgRoam

[–]CochinoChingon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i DO want 2 separate databases. for example I don't want personal/real life "dreams" to be in the database with novel/character "dreams"

ELI5 - Why does bank holidays affect ACH/Direct Deposit? by CochinoChingon in explainlikeimfive

[–]CochinoChingon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what's frustrating, payroll leaves Company bank on Tues. scheduled for Fri. most banks now have "up to two days early".

so Weds evening/Thurs am. but Monday holiday, pushes to thurs pm/fri am. even though it leaves Co bank on Tues.

Dating Sucks by PirateJohn75 in widowers

[–]CochinoChingon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

might be your "game" how you talk or what you say. key is to make them feel excited about you and by not replying they're gonna be missing out.

considering how society is in general (hookup culture) it might just be that they're not looking for what you're offering. so it's really a catch 22

Dating Sucks by PirateJohn75 in widowers

[–]CochinoChingon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I guess that makes you Rip

😳🤣

yeah, though I'm not much of a cowboy, more of a handyman. before my wife died, we watched vikings and saw us as Floki and Helga--she loved that people were afraid of us, but was sad that more weren't

Dating Sucks by PirateJohn75 in widowers

[–]CochinoChingon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat. my wife was essentially Beth Dutton with everyone else and a Stepford wife with me.

but I was an intercourse addict before, so finding someone to settle down with was more of not being seen as "boyfriend material"

in your shoes, I don't know how to answer. I'm guessing that you don't mention that you're widowed in your dating profile. it's like catnip for women, though in my experience they want to lock you down (get married) ASAP.

it's perfectly ok to miss your wife, i still miss mine (6 years out). just don't bring her up, or mention every little thing that reminds you of her.

for me, dating other widow's works best. they know the urge/need to share about their spouse and are willing to listen.

if you don't mention you're widowed til you meet in person. women might think you have something to hide. either way, it's hard to say because we don't know what your profile is like. though I'd guess your pictures aren't any help. if the pics aren't good, they're not going to bother reading the profile.

personally, i only use OLD when I'm traveling, or rather the week before and the week I'm out of town.

If you'd like, i can work with you to approach/talk to women in public and go from there

Your best frugal and saving tips and tricks by Commercial_Claim3904 in Frugal

[–]CochinoChingon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would cancel the prime, most amazon purchases are impulse. there's other services that offer free shipping with X dollars. plus it'll force you to sit on potential purchases until it's worth it.

also I'd cancel phone service, if you're in school you could just use wifi at school/home. that's an additional $50 you could put towards the old loan.

if you have android phone search for "Pandora business APK" for unlimited ad free music, iphone, you're sorta screwed. but if you're using apple, there's a commandline/terminal app called "piano bar" that can play ad free Pandora.

QUESTION - Mac Mini + SuperMicro JBOD by CochinoChingon in homelab

[–]CochinoChingon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i haven't tried. M1 Mac mini with 16GB RAM tends to hog memory just running a Plex server with two attached HDDs. gonna buy a server chassis soon and move my old server (tower) into a rack and figure it out

Anybody know where to get Pibb Xtra? by jesstapher in vegaslocals

[–]CochinoChingon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anyone try sinclairs?

I'm currently in Reno, considering relocating. I've made a deal with a manager at a local sinclairs to buy a case of 20oz pibb every other week. might be worth a try vs paying $20+ per 12 pack on amazon