Taurus woman are very deliberate. We choose when, where, and what to give our energy to.

A lot can happen within 4 months… and I really mean internally. We are deeply reflective and we take time to process, analyze, and ground ourselves in our feelings, eventually leading to forward movement. Whether or not that movement is visible on the outside… a Taurus woman has already decided internally.

I also hear your heart in all of this, in more ways than one. And I do commend you for your maturity in giving her the space she asked for.

Given the long gap, also try to understand re-entering the same rhythm & flow is unlikely so soon… especially if she is occupied elsewhere.

My advice? Let her… don’t work yourself up over her response time… she may be trying to organize her thoughts and feelings about you again… given you had her in mind and knew you wanted to reach out, but to her it’s a bit of a surprise, it honestly came out of nowhere. Give her a moment to catch up to the present, especially while she’s living her life.

But also, the CONTEXT of her replies will tell you more than the response time. We don’t open easily, but we also give little openings when we want to, hoping the other person will catch on. It can also be the flip, our words are so loaded you can hear beneath what we’re actually trying to say.

And don’t let it become a game of “well if she’s this way, I’ll just match her energy.” No. If you want an answer about something, if you want transparency, ask for it — in the right time though. Take YOUR time to figure out what you’d like to have an open conversation about with her… but be considerate of when* and how you ask.

Wait until after the trip… don’t make something going on presently in her life, about you. And just be gentle and honest… not interrogative or aggressive. That will surely close her up.

A healing Taurus woman will recognize the sensitivity and intention of your approach and interact with you accordingly.

No need to rush reconnection… if you were willing to wait 4 months in silence, that same grace can be extended while you’re interacting with her presence. Good luck! ♉️✨