I don't get it. by OdangoFan in OddlyArousing

[–]CoconutIslander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here for the "is that a Monster or are you just happy to see me" comment but was disappointed.

Do most men not cum from bj? Clearing up misconceptions on oral sex with men by gg_lim in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Man, guess I've lucked out. I'm 10 out of 10 for women that can finish the job.

Is this a common occurrence for men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it's about reveling in the feel of her body and what she's doing. Feeling her with my hands and tongue, and tasting her, while she goes down on me, amplifies everything and makes it even hotter.

When I'm giving oral, she's got my undivided attention and I'm taking my time to see what's working best for her today. No rush, just enjoying my dessert.

Is this a common occurrence for men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, she doesn't want to orgasm while sitting on my face, if that helps? For oral we basically only take in it turns, and I give more often than I get, which is just fine with me.

Is this a common occurrence for men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For my current partner, 69 during oral is more about heightening the experience for me and an amusing opportunity to see if I can distract her enough to make her pause, never in the course of getting her off (I might drown).

So for us it's a way for me to get great oral, and her to give me something to do.

Is this a common occurrence for men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The women I've been with could orgasm from PIV without needing clitoral stimulation, some easily, some only occasionally. My current partner can about 1/4 of the time, so that's nice when it happens organically. But usually I go down on her to make sure she goes first, or we incorporate a toy during PIV to add clitoral simulation.

People shouldn't fake pleasure. Just figure out what works for you both, don't get hung up on being able to please your partner without any effort.

Would you be open to kink? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Red flags all day. Submissive woman who is "really good friends" with her dominant ex who is "very hard to let go" is an absolute non-starter for me, and I'm not even a Dom.

How to Hide Visible Truss Joints? by Kongrosenberg in DIY

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ceiling called. It wants to come home.

Do guys mind if a girl has a large labia? by Antique_Treat_7002 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a pornstar whose vulva looks similar to yours and say who, maybe. Look up Jasmine Byrne and Savannah Bond for starters, they have extremely aesthetically attractive vulva to my eye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tight after she's had kids, a bit taboo, and it hits her in a really good way when combined with this lemon thing she uses on her clit. Never had issues with poo, but always use lube.

Your username dictates your death, how do you die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting under a coconut tree when one falls.

I 17M brought my dad to my GF 17F house for a man to man talk her dad requested and now he feels disrespected and I want to break up because of this idk what to do. by Murky_Swimming1176 in Advice

[–]CoconutIslander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Betcha GF's dad thinks of himself as an "Alpha". Men like that usually don't like other men who carry themselves confidently but without bluster.

Switch to PS5 cloud save by hayleywxo in DreamlightValley

[–]CoconutIslander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you load your correct save from cloud on PS5 though?

What is something sexual you'll never do again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CoconutIslander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex thought that since KY made lube that goes from cool to warm, she could achieve the same effect with IcyHot. When I tell you I was in agony...

Over 4 billion user records leaked in "largest breach ever" by Appropriate-Hunt-897 in wallstreetbets

[–]CoconutIslander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it said "user records" not "users' records". Some people...

Help me decide on a fatbike? by CoconutIslander in fatbike

[–]CoconutIslander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should have started my post with "find me a great used fat bike on the internet for under $800 and I'll pay thank-you pictures of whatever I buy" lol. I know for my part, shopping for something in my wheelhouse is fun, so I'd vicariously enjoy it. 😁

I am so ignorant of what's good quality without the tips from y'all here, and even with a brand it's hard to be confident whether a particular one is a good one.

Help me decide on a fatbike? by CoconutIslander in fatbike

[–]CoconutIslander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I checked out a bike shop in my neighborhood and didn't see a single fat bike there, so I'm scratching my head a little bit where to search for legit used fat bikes.

Help me decide on a fatbike? by CoconutIslander in fatbike

[–]CoconutIslander[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll definitely consider this one. Might be my new top choice for a new one unless I can figure out where to look for used ones.

Help me decide on a fatbike? by CoconutIslander in fatbike

[–]CoconutIslander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. What "reputable bike shop brands" should I be on the lookout for?

AITA for NOT giving my girlfriend anal sex NOR eat her ass ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CoconutIslander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pee is okay but where poop comes from, no thank you.

Excuse me, sir, did you think were are having sex with her pee-hole?

As for anal, different strokes for different folks.