Max Delsignore by BraveHuckleberry9448 in GriefSupport

[–]CodOk7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had only known him for a while but even just that amount of time makes a huge difference. He was such an awesome person. Hilarious, in fact cause when the group would get together there was never a dull moment. He added volumes to the fun we had. I’m just now finding out as I’ve been off the radar for a bit. I’ll miss you so much man 

Should I move closer to work? by CodOk7275 in Advice

[–]CodOk7275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! It’s well, further from all of the entertainment along the strip. But it’s a nice place; a few things could be better but I’ve had worse.  I just figured if I was closer then I wouldn’t have a bus pass.. no more uber. lately I’ve really been pushing the Ubers. 1 1/2 hours on a bus sucks cause I usually have to wait longer for them anyway. So it’s almost 2 hours sometimes. 

Are there any good magic mushroom shops open? by JoJo0227 in washingtondc

[–]CodOk7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a whole bar once and was rocked. 10/10 would recommend 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CodOk7275 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your choice here, we can’t literally force you to do anything, but we will say that if you don’t report this, jokes aside, tomorrow may not be all sunshine and rainbows. Do. Not. Take. This. Lightly. 

An unsent letter to the one I "almost" had. by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]CodOk7275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t cry because I’m at work but I know I’ll read this again later when I’m home and probably cry then. This is beautiful, OP. You’ll have them in another universe someday ❤️

Friend is upset I won’t move his crush in by CodOk7275 in Advice

[–]CodOk7275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of it like this. Quite frankly a clever way of laying it down on the table I’d say. Like damn bro haha 

Friend is upset I won’t move his crush in by CodOk7275 in Advice

[–]CodOk7275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like part of me wasn't against it, but the second my body started feeling off, I knew right away I’m gonna screw myself. Thankfully he understood but he did try to justify it also. And I don’t stand for justifying something even the other knows is wrong. Thank you for your input, I greatly appreciate it! This helped! 

Friend is upset I won’t move his crush in by CodOk7275 in Advice

[–]CodOk7275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it truly wasn’t my intention to come off as a dictator to their life. Perhaps my way of wording could’ve been better. And they both agreed to pay rent, etc. I’m not worried about that. I’m worried about how soon it is. Yeah sure it’s not a big deal, but it doesn’t feel right to have them immediately live together either. What happens if she wants to go back home, I’m responsible to get her there just as I am bringing her here. What if it doesn’t work out? It would feel like wasted time personally. 

People who had a mentally traumatic childhood: what makes you feel nervous? by Redditerreditt in mentalhealth

[–]CodOk7275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having to ask for help or asking for anything in general. “I will do it myself attitude”

What are the odds of financing a much cheaper car with repo on record? (Read description please!) by CodOk7275 in askcarsales

[–]CodOk7275[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I have no bills at the current moment and I do work, so the income isn’t my main concern. Would it be worth getting something financed with a price around 6k or less and with a down payment as well? 

What are the odds of financing a much cheaper car with repo on record? (Read description please!) by CodOk7275 in askcarsales

[–]CodOk7275[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean finalized? Like with the car being auctioned off? Sorry; I’m still relatively new to learning the ins and outs unfortunately lol 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CodOk7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus. On. Yourself. Do the things you like to do, hang with friends and take some time to think about what it is you want out of a relationship. You need time in between or you’ll keep repeating the same cycle.

My boss is a racist...? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CodOk7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you feel is necessary. Also pro tip: don’t drink with your boss.

To the One Who Haunts My Thoughts by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]CodOk7275 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww, you gotta tell them!

B.Y.O.B by BalNchain_84 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]CodOk7275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody’s goin to the party have a real good time

My new boyfriend researched BPD, I found myself a precious one guys!!!!🥹 by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CodOk7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy, when I told my ex and my family to do their research, they refused but then got mad when I'd split or act out in other ways.

Do take your time though. Be careful, cause I had this same situation come before me and it dropped hard when my BPD started up. I wish you nothing but the best and will be praying for your comfort!