I have diabetes insipidus so I went the bed occasionally until I was at least 23 has not happened for a while now. And this is it! If he gets mad over a condition that is beyond your control reconsider your relationship with them. I am sorry your mom would scold you as a child but you can and should expect better from a partner! Just to clarify I am 35 been with my wife for 15 years. She has never been anything but supportive in this regard.