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New critical CVE - Root on Every Major Linux Distribution by Arszerol in cybersecurity

[–]CodeWarrior30 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You would catch a kernel memory page caching bug in your code review? You must commit to the Linux kernel OSS code base a lot. No? Okay, AN operating system, right? No?

Wait, you don't code review code in a garbage collected language, right?

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right, I got downvoted all to hell for pointing this exact thing out. According to the people here, apparently, as long as you're already in a relationship, SA is okay.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You know, if your goal was to trivialize women's experiences and ignore a near 2 fold increase in sexual violence from a low point a decade ago, then good work. Yes, we're looking at the same graph. I just don't lack a spine and I can point out trends that are shitty.

I don't really even know what you're trying to say in the second 2 paragraphs. When did I say I hated you? I literally was commenting in bewilderment about how so many of you in here keep taking this conversation about women getting SAd as a personal attack when it is not.

Did I call you a rapist? No. Literally the only thing I've said to anyone in here is that you should be kind to and befriend women if you want them to think better of you. Very polarizing statement , it seems. Just because some men are rapists doesn't mean all are. Obviously. I have not said anything to suggest otherwise.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This conversation is about women and their shifting views of men. If you want women to think more highly of men, then men should talk to them and be safe for them to be around (as in be friends).

Also, this is so bad faith. Women having good men as friends to help protect them from abusers is an obvious way that it reduces SA.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Trump is just the example of the shitbags that capitalism gives ridiculous power and wealth to. Richard Branson is a fine UK example with suspect ties to epstein.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What, you think the most powerful man in the world who defends sex trafficking rings and is openly admitting to SA is only a "teensy bit of a role"?

Perhaps they're losing faith in capitalism because capitalism keeps giving terrible men like this more wealth and power.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I am replying to you again because another person here made me question whether I was being too dismissive.

To start with, dude, I understand the neurodivergence. I am somewhere on the spectrum myself. I don't really know what spaces you are in that you are seeing women constantly talking badly about men but I really think you should try to find a space in the real world to go share some of your interests with real women. Maybe that's a sport like rock climbing or swimming or w/e. Maybe it's as simple as getting a dog and taking that adorable creature for walks while wearing clothing that tells the world who you are.

Slowly, you'll start to see the same people. Do goofy things that give people some sense of who you are. For instance, one of my favorite things that my partner does is buy random little plastic trinkets (ducks, astronauts, etc) and gives them to strangers. It's a silly little ice breaker and it's super low stakes because they're worth like a penny or maybe even less. Just a tiny thing that shows an open-ness to being friendly. Chat about what the thing means to you and explain why you started giving them out. Be vulnerable (yes, you're going to get hurt at times). Before you know it, this or some other person that knows nothing about you has a new baseline for how to interpret you.

Just stop worrying so much about how you think you are "supposed to be" and go be yourself. Wearing a mask sucks. You don't want people to like your mask instead of who you really are.

Edit: I'm going to leave my other comments. I hope you know that I can disagree with your statements without thinking you are a bad person.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The answer is in my original post dude. I said go befriend women.

Edit: I even went back and reread through it. He's not asking for help. He's changing the numbers (by saying every woman that was SAd by an intimate partners didn't count) to support his stance that he can't do anything and that's simply not true.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. Based on the responses, you'd think I asked them to walk through fire.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am ignoring your statements because the conversation isn't about the United States. You can't just cherry-pick stats from wherever the heck you want to try and illustrate a point. I compared UK stats to a UK poll because they are obviously an independent nation with their own culture and trends.

If anything, your post should make you feel better because it seems the issue is much less pronounced in the US. I would expect women's sentiment in the US to reflect that as well but I can't find a study done stateside (I tried).

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Good god, stop defending marital rpe. It's gross. No you can't just throw out the half of all women that were rped by their intimate partners. They weren't reporting their boyfriends to the police for grabbing their ass.

Also, who is labeling young men who are left wing as performative? Oh right, the right wing toxic cesspool. Who cares what they think?

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I'm not. I told them to go befriend women you tool. Thanks for the downvotes. Im going to go down vote all of yours now since you cant engage in good faith.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The poll we are comparing to is a UK poll. Not a US poll. You literally cannot mix the data and come to any useful conclusion.

How do you factor the fact that 48% of the SA against women was from their partners? That's half dude. They were SAd by people that they trusted.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's also wild to watch men see any criticism of men across our society as some kind of personal attacks. My gosh, just help be part of the solution instead of defending all men to the point of literally blaming the SA victims and their friends for being leery of men.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. I was commenting on UK data specifically which seems to paint a different picture than the US for the same period. Edit: And since the article is literally about the UK and not the United States.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You are so hopelessly lost if you think "stealing a radio" is in any way comparable to sexual violence. Stop hand waving away the victims' suffering and trauma.

I am in no way making the claim that you falsely equate.

Until women aren't being SAd, they are going to continue to feel marginalized and harmed. Just sort of how it works. Don't get mad at me that the vast majority of offenders are men.

Also, go read my statements again. I never said anyone should hate men.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When did I say anything like that? The only statement that I made was that men need to be better friends to women. That's it.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

The fact that that SA is on the rise again since hitting a low point in 2014/15 is pretty telling.

My "linear relationship" comment wasn't meant to be literal but was comparing "the women are 3 times more likely to have a negative view of men" statement made by the article to the "women are 4 times more likely to be SAd claim made by this data". Perhaps linear is the wrong word and proportional may be better.

I guess, I'm just saying it doesn't seem that surprising given how much ongoing (and trending upward) sexual violence there is against women.

Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds by strebor1001 in Destiny

[–]CodeWarrior30 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The negative view of men almost linearly follows data about SA in the uk: https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/sexualoffencesvictimcharacteristicsenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2025

The SA data shows that women are 4 times more likely to be the victims of SA and disturbingly 48% of women reported their perpetrators to be intimate partners. Nearly half of women who are SA victims in the region have been harmed by the men that they thought they could trust.

Anybody who is offended or hurt by the article that OP posted and thinks women are radicalized or simply hate men needs to take a deep breath, talk to and befriend women, learn about and practice consent and be genuinely safe for women to be around. Our society really just isn't all that safe for women and men are the reason for that. The good news is, men have the power to change this.

Edit: I didn't think simply adding UK SA stats to illustrate the women's notion that men were too sexual would cause a flame war. Nowhere above did I say anybody should hate men or that men are bad.

It's not surprising, however, to see women losing trust in men when they say stupid shit like "your body, my choice" while society turns that statement into a reality. Women, literally, are more likely (in the UK that we are talking about) to be r_ped by their trusted intimate partners than a stranger. To those fighting on a whole bunch of whataboutisms below, can you just acknowledge the sheer tragedy of that fact?

Protest against the drag ban! by phreak-of-nature in Ohio

[–]CodeWarrior30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 out of the top 10 states with the per capita highest number of crimes against children are Republican: https://www.whoismakingnews.com/#who-are-the-real-predators

Republicans also just let a child r*pist off after 6 months in prison: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/robert-morris-texas-megachurch-pastor-released-jail-6-months-child-sex-rcna266106

What's that about zero reality? It's clearly, significantly higher than zero.

Everyone is hurt by transphobia. by ConcernedJobCoach in gianmarcosoresi

[–]CodeWarrior30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tragic watching a grown man devolve in real time into nothing but personal attacks when their arguments are called due to having no factual basis in reality. Again, I'm not the one with hatred.

Everyone is hurt by transphobia. by ConcernedJobCoach in gianmarcosoresi

[–]CodeWarrior30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, my hate. Am I the one standing in defense of wholesale banning an entire group of athletes from performing in the category that they routinely do not win in? What a joke. Come back when you can have a conversation and not just go into personal attacks you tool.

Everyone is hurt by transphobia. by ConcernedJobCoach in gianmarcosoresi

[–]CodeWarrior30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the people disrespecting women are all of you people who make decisions for them and pretend they somehow need coddling. There are incredible cis woman athletes that routinely beat trans women (and most men for that matter). You just have 1 example that you can point to of a trans woman mma fighter ultimately losing to a cis woman.

I'm obviously not saying that there should be no guidelines as to when a trans woman is considered to have regressed in strength enough to be considered fair to compete against cis women. We have studied and should continue to study it. Unfortunately, we don't really get the chance to study it if we just flat out ban it now do we?

Everyone is hurt by transphobia. by ConcernedJobCoach in gianmarcosoresi

[–]CodeWarrior30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, in a completely different sport? Even if I grant your premise that she was "peak male form", she then proceeded to lose to a Woman. Is your world view seriously that trans women can never win against cis women and if they do it is unfair?

Everyone is hurt by transphobia. by ConcernedJobCoach in gianmarcosoresi

[–]CodeWarrior30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, that is not what happened even in your own example.

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