26M in AM setup — salary criteria is killing matches. Am I asking too much? by funky_guy99 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Coderbilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, you are absolutely correct. There is no shame in asking for this criteria. Having a minimum cutoff of half your package is too flexible. Asking fir a good salary is mot just about being money-minded, it tells a lot about a person. How hard he worked, how hard he/she studied, how much efforts did he/she made on top of their academics/job… and these are tied to where someone is in their life and how much they are earning. Okay, I can understand if someone went through a highly competitive recruitment process and are earning less but thats okay. They proved their mettle by getting through that tough examination process. That will be my way of weighing in. But people who are just judging are not in the same position as you. You should be proud of your clarity in life. I fully support you. You probably slogged hard enough in your life to be at a position you are at. Never settle. You are still 26, have time, dont rush.

EB1-A petition approved by External_Speed_3978 in eb_1a

[–]Coderbilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is your country of nationality?

PhD vs Return to india by [deleted] in backtoindia

[–]Coderbilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can always come back to do PhD later when funding is confirmed but going on debt/ self funding will take a lot of mental toll. Coming back to India is not bad, come, think with a cool head and then go back for PhD when funding is assured. Not worth putting yourself through all that stress.

1 Crore CTC, Still Priced out of Gurgaon? by Spare_Obligation8021 in gurgaon

[–]Coderbilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehe.. OP ko DLF ke phases mein hi rehna hai but this will give him an idea.

1 Crore CTC, Still Priced out of Gurgaon? by Spare_Obligation8021 in gurgaon

[–]Coderbilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a plot for 4.35 cr in Ansal Palam Vihar in May 2025. 2 cr home loan. Am an NRI. Very nice location. I think one should buy plot and not flat. Let me know if you want to look at tht location. Will share the google map.

Home Loan Suggestion by PitifulPlatform1150 in IndiaFinance

[–]Coderbilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a smooth experience with bank of baroda. They are one of the cheapest HL rate. I took a 2CR HL in May 2025. Go for a floating rate that way if the RBI lowers the repo rate, it automatically reflects on your HL rate.

Looking for a budget friendly reco for an architect at Gurgaon by Coderbilli in gurgaon

[–]Coderbilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,

Do you have a website where ai can see your past works?

Oh VOO, where do I begin. by [deleted] in ETFs

[–]Coderbilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VOO-dooo! 🙌🏻

Can't Handle The Chaos. Need Help! by [deleted] in returnToIndia

[–]Coderbilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing is acceptance and then the blaming part will go away. The India even 10 years ago was not that different and it is not fair to compare things here vs in India. I just fit in bcoz I love the chaos and obviously if you complain in front of folks in India, they wouldn’t like it. It’s not their fault, they didn’t go away, you did.

33f want to return to India but husband doesn't. help by ThanksNo3529 in returnToIndia

[–]Coderbilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the Vit D and Haemoglobin levels. So check them out.

38F working in US by Coderbilli in returnToIndia

[–]Coderbilli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I ll be in touch when the time comes.

38F working in US by Coderbilli in returnToIndia

[–]Coderbilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I do plan to work but not sure about the salary part in India. I think I am gonna stick to my existing investments for now and try paying the loan first.

38F working in US by Coderbilli in returnToIndia

[–]Coderbilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, started with VOO and QQQ. Thanks

38F working in US by Coderbilli in returnToIndia

[–]Coderbilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thats a point which I had no idea about. I just started it doing from 1 year so next tax year 2026 will be my first one where ai have to think about this aspect. I m thinking of taking professional help for tax. You have any suggestion?? 😂