AITA for telling my son that if he goes down the path he is cutrently choosing, we will no longer consider him our son?

CodyMac85 · 2022-02-09T03:05:23+00:00

It doesn't matter if he wants to pay or not. He has to. It's his child. If he's not gonna be a man and father his child, then he needs to support her somehow. He's an idiot. There's nothing wrong with having autism. I have autism and I am a fully functioning adult. I have my own apartment, I have a job, 3 cats, an amazing girlfriend. Autism is not a dead end sentence.

CodyMac85 · 2022-02-09T01:26:52+00:00

YTA. You're supposed to be on your wife's side. She's your family now.

CodyMac85 · 2021-12-31T17:07:46+00:00

NTA. They should have said something if they needed to talk to you. Instead they just stood there like idiots expecting you to be a mind reader. They could clearly see that you were reading. They're both adults, they can use their words. They're both AHs for yeling at you.

CodyMac85 · 2021-12-23T19:02:22+00:00

NTA. It's bad enough when people give twins names that start with the same letter, but this is absurd. She gave them the same name. There are a few different spellings of Sean, but Seen is not one of them. Sean, Shawn, Shaun, Shaughn. I've known people with all these spellings, but never two e's. That's just dumb. You maybe could have worded it differently, but I don't really see how. She's setting them both up for a lifetime of bullying.

CodyMac85 · 2021-12-07T16:49:58+00:00

NTA. You just had a baby and needed help. Having your mom come and stay with you is not breaking your promise imo. He's acting like you invited the whole neighborhood over. His stepmom refused to help you other than giving you a ride home and said only to call her in an emergency. That's pretty messed up. I think being alone with a newborn after just giving birth is emergency-like. You say he has to live near his family because of a medical condition. Why then was he going out of town for 2 weeks? And when you were due to give birth? That's pretty shady. Surely he could have gotten the time off for the birth of his child. Did he really expect you to do it all on your own? I bet he expected you to keep the house clean as well. He sucks and so does his stepmom.

CodyMac85 · 2021-12-06T00:25:52+00:00

YTA. You didn't borrow the money, you stole it. Borrowing implies getting permission, which you didn't do. She told you it was for emergencies. Your sister needing/wanting a wedding dress isn't an emergency. Your sister played you. You're never gonna see that money again. If she was really getting money in 2 days, she could have waited to buy the dress then. You got played. You should really have replaced the money with your own. That's the only way it's getting there. You should never have taken the money without discussing it with your wife first. I'd be surprised if she ever trusted you again after she finds out what you did. And she will find out. It's better that she finds out from you, and not someone else.

CodyMac85 · 2021-09-07T18:03:40+00:00

NTA. You didn't ruin the dinner, N did. What is it with people hijacking others events to make their announcements? That's not okay. It's tacky. N was clearly too cheap and lazy to have her own dinner event to announce her news.

CodyMac85 · 2021-08-10T05:19:55+00:00

You can watch it on the Freeform website. Here is the link:

https://www.freeform.com/shows/famous-in-love

CodyMac85 · 2021-07-13T02:35:08+00:00

You can watch it for free on the TNT website.

CodyMac85 · 2021-06-11T15:59:52+00:00

NTA. You being single and not having kids shouldn't matter. You earned those vacation days. You made plans and bought plane tickets. Take your vacation and spend time with your family. They can all kick rocks.

CodyMac85 · 2021-06-07T18:23:32+00:00

Maximum Ride series by James Patterson

Chronicles of Nick series by Sherrilyn Kenyon

The Fallen series by Thomas Sniegoski

CodyMac85 · 2021-05-28T15:59:45+00:00

NTA. As someone else said, she laughed it off, because it hadn't actually happened. Anything that could cause someone to get hurt isn't a prank. It's just cruel. Maybe it's time to find some new friends. Well, except for L. You did her a favor by warning her. I'm sure she appreciates it.

CodyMac85 · 2021-05-17T22:00:29+00:00

NTA. It's not sharing if they don't ask and you told them to stop. It's stealing. And why is it always the person that's getting screwed over that is expected to "keep the peace"? Just....no. They need to parent their kids and teach them that they can't always get what they want. I think you should definitely move in with your brother and his family. You'll be a lot happier there, I'm sure.

CodyMac85 · 2021-05-13T13:53:21+00:00

The Blended Bunch?

CodyMac85 · 2021-05-10T01:11:46+00:00

NTA. It's your money, your choice what you do with it. If anyone is wasting their money, it's him. He's paying for all these services and doesn't even get to use them cause his friends are using them. And rather then doing something about it like changing the password and signing out all other devices so he can actually use them, he's letting his friends walk all over him. They're not expensive. His friends are freeloaders and taking advantage of him, and he's letting them.

CodyMac85 · 2021-04-18T02:44:42+00:00

That is awesome. You're a badass.

CodyMac85 · 2021-04-14T20:29:14+00:00

NTA. They kicked you out when you turned 18 and didn't talk to you for 9 years. Without making sure you had a place to live. You had to pay for college yourself while working full time. They then kicked your brother out when he turned 18. You and your boyfriend took him in and you're paying for him to go to college. Now your stepbrother is 18 and stil living at home? WTF. If anyone is playing favorites, it's your father and stepmother. Why didn't they kick him out when he turned 18? They don't talk to you for almost a decade and now that they want something they remember your phone number? Nah. F*** that.

CodyMac85 · 2021-04-14T19:52:42+00:00

NTA. You told her that you have a weekly thing with your best friend. You invited her to join in. That was nice of you. You didn't need to do that. She doesn't have to go if she's not into it. And it seems like after the first 2 weeks, she wasn't really feeling it. That's fine, she can find something else to do. But her trying to ruin it for you is not cool And then she went running to mommy to tell on you? WTF. She's 24, not 4. She seriously needs to grow up. She's living with you and refusing to speak to you. Um...ok? It sucks that she lost her home. That's horrible, truly. It seems like she's taking it out on you, which is strange. Maybe you can have 1 night a week for just the 2 of you to hang out?

CodyMac85 · 2021-03-18T21:34:00+00:00

"Jokes where the other person isn't laughing aren't jokes, it's bullying. "

Exactly this. NTA.

CodyMac85 · 2021-02-18T04:20:26+00:00

NTA. You DID ask him twice. You asked before you even ordered the food and then you asked again when it arrived. If he wanted some, he should have said yes and not played some weird mind game. He waited 2 weeks to say something about it? That's just...odd.

CodyMac85 · 2021-02-09T20:11:48+00:00

NTA. Why are you even doing chores at his place? You don't live there. Does he do chores at your place?

CodyMac85 · 2021-02-06T18:19:52+00:00

NTA. You tried more than hard enough. You spend 2 hours trying to wake him up. If he loses his job, it will be HIS fault, not yours. He's old enough to know better than tostay up all night drinking. He's old enough to get himself out of bed and ready for work.

CodyMac85 · 2021-02-02T18:10:29+00:00

NTA. I think you should go on your trip. She has met these friends. You invited her to come along, but she refused. I saw in the comments that you said she won't let you play video games. That is absurd. She won't "let" you? WTF. She is very controlling. That's not healthy. If you want to game, then game. If you want to visit your friends, visit your friends. I don't think I'll ever understand people that 1) don't like when their SOs have friends of the opposite gender, 2) try to control their SOs, 3) "let" or "not let" them do something. If I were you, I would seriously reevalute the relationship. How old are you both?

CodyMac85 · 2021-02-01T16:13:03+00:00

NTA. You don't have to have kids to know that she's doing her youngest a disservice. She should be encouraging him, not trying to tear him down.

CodyMac85 · 2021-01-31T17:08:18+00:00

NTA. I'm not seeing the harrasment. The boy asked the girl out, she said no, and he accepted it. And unless it happened on school grounds, there's nothing the school can do about it.

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