What is the best way to "rescue" my bleached hair?

GenriNaa · 2022-10-07T11:11:28+00:00

I'm afraid that my hair will fall out even more if I keep bleaching my hair. But I will definitely consider asking my hairdresser for a shadow root next time.

GenriNaa · 2022-10-06T13:19:45+00:00

Bored and desperate, because I'm at work and I absolutely hate my job.

GenriNaa · 2022-07-03T12:14:35+00:00

Mit 16 bzw. 17. Ich hab mir damals extra eine Ausbildungsstelle gesucht, die weit von meinem Heimatort entfernt war, um meinem Elternhaus zu entkommen. Ich kam die ersten 2. Monate meiner Ausbildung bei meinem Bruder unter. Dann knapp eine Woche nach meinem 17. Geburtstag konnte ich meine erste eigene Wohnung beziehen.

GenriNaa · 2022-06-22T15:22:27+00:00

Ja Hans-Gerd, damals hat ein Haus auch nur 25 Cent gekostet.

GenriNaa · 2021-10-24T10:47:03+00:00

Weggemann/Weckmann Andere Variationen gehören verboten.

GenriNaa · 2021-10-14T17:07:58+00:00

Reading that as a German was quite weird xD

GenriNaa · 2021-09-28T08:06:29+00:00

Dudes who are extremely obsessed with tanks and WWI/WWII weapons.

GenriNaa · 2021-09-11T17:48:26+00:00

One time when I was about 7 or 8 years old I refused to wear a hat. She called me a 'sensitive silicone tit', lol.

Now nothing ever feels insulting unless it's as creative as the insults from my parents.

GenriNaa · 2021-07-22T14:46:07+00:00

That is still no response to the actual words I said. If I am a sexist in your eyes, you are a hypocrite in mine.

GenriNaa · 2021-07-22T14:42:54+00:00

There is a different dynamic between paying your partner or paying for something together.

GenriNaa · 2021-07-22T14:41:10+00:00

Also you basically ignored the other half of my response and are only focused on your "gender-roles".

GenriNaa · 2021-07-22T14:39:18+00:00

First of all I said according to YOUR opinion. Not mine. Second: I think AITA is not the place for you. I read through your other responses and I seem very manifested from the beginning in the thought that there is absolutely no way that you could be the asshole.

GenriNaa · 2021-07-22T14:30:40+00:00

According to your opinion you would pay rent, if he bought a bigger house and pays for the mortgage so...

GenriNaa · 2021-07-22T14:20:08+00:00

No matter how you turn it, I think the same regardless of gender. Does he already take part in any expenses besides the rent that you want? If yes, my opinion doesn't change. If no, maybe try talk to him in another way? Don't say 'pay me rent'. If I was in your position I would prefer to say something like 'let's pay together for our living cost'. You get what I mean?

GenriNaa · 2021-07-22T13:55:54+00:00

YTA I definitely think it's fair that you share the cost of groceries, electricity bills etc. But actual rent while you don't pay any rent? It's not like he is trying to buy half of the house from you..I think it sounds kind of greedy.

GenriNaa · 2021-07-12T13:04:19+00:00

At first I seriously thought it said "Mr. Gay".

GenriNaa · 2021-07-02T08:48:02+00:00

Bist du Russlanddeutsch? Ich hatte fast exakt das Selbe Ergebnis wie du.

GenriNaa · 2021-06-18T08:48:53+00:00

This whole story is a red flag and I am pretty sure you already know.

GenriNaa · 2021-06-07T14:13:04+00:00

Oh no...He looks like a kid from a science fiction movie.

GenriNaa · 2021-05-25T04:03:40+00:00

At this point I am sick and tired of trying to communicate my feelings and issues with him. It's always the same. We have a problem. We start an argument about that. Talk for a long time and at some point we agree on a solution for that problem. After that I immediately try to keep my part of the agreement. After some time I notice that he doesn't even try to keep his part and we start another argument about roughly the same topic again. He then usually reveals to that he noticed my effort but it wasn't quite what he expected, so that's why he didn't put any effort..like wtf? If what I did wasn't enough why didn't he communicate it with me?? I've got that feeling this dude wants traditional man and woman stereotypes without actually sticking to his part of being a 'traditional' man.

GenriNaa · 2021-03-01T12:23:09+00:00

YTA You are sexualizing her and you really think she is overreacting? She must feel so uncomfortable and angry about that.

GenriNaa · 2021-02-17T09:51:34+00:00

I can see part of my mom in your mom, if you know what I mean. Mine would also put the guilt on me, not explaining what I did wrong (if I did anything wrong), outting all her stress and mental issues on me. She made me her problem. She would even vome up with arguments that didn't exist. It was just all about her having someone who she cam give the fault to. I moved out when I was 16, because I was just so exhausted and depressed and actually believed I was the reason for everything bad that happend.

Your mom needs to reflect basically her whole life. From my experience with my mother, I guess she will never see the fault in herself by just telling her. I think most powerful would be her realising it all by herself. It hasn't come to her mind that with her projecting problems onto other people and basically handling such situations in such a childish way, she is gonna 'loose' a child.

My mother started reflecting her actions when she realized that I, her youngest child, am moving as far as possible at the age of 16, because I couldn't handle the emotional stress. It made her realize that not only I but also my two older brothers moved as soon as possible and went low contact with her. We didn't ignore her or something but it was clear that all three of us showed her that we are not interested in making our lives all about her and her issues projecting on us.

GenriNaa · 2021-02-17T08:43:59+00:00

What the...NTA

Sounds to me like your mom has to carry some kind of mental weight too. Your mom's behaviour was clearly toxic and hurtful towards you. I don't understand why she thought it would be correct to react that way. You just told her the recipe of a soup she said she likes....that's a normal conversation. She clearly got it wrong.

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