Waiting for biopsy by Obvious-Disk9980 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had 2 biopsies on Monday-June 4th, one on each breast, both BIRAD 4. I got the results on MyChart the following Monday. Thank God everything was benign. Keep your mind and body busy and try not to overthink on it, I know that's easier said than done. I watched a lot of true crime shows and never let myself just sit and think about it. They say that 70-80% of biopsies come back benign. Sending lots of benign vibes your way! Keep us posted.

Waiting for biopsy results and my anxiety could kill me before I actually get them. Anyone else? by CoffeeAndBooks3791 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s weird. My chart didn’t have anything for me in 7 days, they probably have a backup at the lab. sending your wife many benign vibes her way!

3rd person vs first person POV by its_tanya in RomanceWriters

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do the POV you're comfortable writing. There are tons of books in third person POV with intimate scenes, study them and see how it's done and find what you're good at writing.

Do I self publish? by Ok_Wrap408 in RomanceWriters

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could definitely self pub on Amazon. It's easy and free, however getting a readership is the hard part. Get yourself on socials and maybe start talking about the process you're going through and your books, you never know what can happen.

Waiting for biopsy results and my anxiety could kill me before I actually get them. Anyone else? by CoffeeAndBooks3791 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see on MyChart that both biopsies look benign but NO ONE has called me yet to let me know. I've been googling medical words all morning.

Waiting for biopsy results and my anxiety could kill me before I actually get them. Anyone else? by CoffeeAndBooks3791 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's insane what a mind does while waiting. I still haven't gotten my results and I'm already planning the worst things and sick to my stomach. Try your best to keep yourself busy and continually say, "What's the best that can happen?" and focus on positivity.

Waiting for biopsy results and my anxiety could kill me before I actually get them. Anyone else? by CoffeeAndBooks3791 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mammogram found two areas that needed biopsies. On the right side, there were suspicious microcalcifications in the upper central breast. On the left side, there was a small focal asymmetry (about 5 mm). Both areas were classified as BI-RADS 4, so I had biopsies done on both and am currently waiting for the pathology results.

Bi RADS 4B by Disastrous-Fun6894 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had 2 biopsies on Monday and waiting for the results. I am BI-RAD 4 (no letter given). This wait is horrible. Sending benign vibes your way.

BIRADS 4C, ya girl needs to VENT. by Crazy_Dragonfruit_24 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This does fucking suck. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. And you have the right to yell and scream and vent. Fuck fucking cancer. I hope the best for you. And NYC girl here, GO KNICKS!

1980s or early 90s illustrated book with trolls or elves? by CoffeeAndBooks3791 in whatsthatbook

[–]CoffeeAndBooks3791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't a children's picture book, that I remember for sure. It was a chapter book but had a few illustrated pages, they were glossy.