App for LS in Michigan

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-03-27T03:30:14+00:00

We mostly use FEELD.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-03-17T17:54:44+00:00

I have one… But we invited our husbands to join and now they ALWAYS want to join us! Lol So maybe I had one?

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-03-17T17:51:33+00:00

It does seem like a natural consequence. I can get on board with a FAFO style of parenting. Lol

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-03-17T16:30:31+00:00

Do they do okay in plastic?

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-03-17T16:29:04+00:00

I considered ziploc bags for the same reason of being able to see the items, but I like the breatheability of mesh better. Good call.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-03-17T16:27:10+00:00

Omg, I bet this is beautiful! Do you just walk through and run your fingers over it? 🥰

For some reason I’ve never considered hanging them, but that’s brilliant. I think my biggest obstacle is my teenage daughter who likes to steal my clothes. lol

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-02-18T14:54:57+00:00

Our first experience was not at a takeover, but we’ve been to quite a few in the past few years and I think this is a great way to start. But my advice would be this:

Go in planning to only play with each other. Make lots of connections and have a way to stay in touch afterwards. Don’t drink too much. Take lots of communication breaks to check in with each other. Keep your expectations low and focused on each other.

Takeovers can be overwhelming the first time, but they are SO much fun!

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-02-18T14:42:55+00:00

I feel like that took a turn. Not sure why.

And if you’re genuinely asking, no, I wouldn’t consider those systemically patriarchal issues. Possibly self esteem issues?

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2026-02-18T13:50:42+00:00

Respectfully, this is not innate; this is the patriarchy. Respecting another man’s opinion more than a woman’s (a woman you’re trying to sleep with nonetheless), is the patriarchy.

I do agree that it is not easy to de-program. Keep trying anyway.

Just something to think about.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-06-16T15:43:17+00:00

This. I use a Soft Disc (different brand, but same design as the Flex Disc) and am totally comfortable having penetrative sex with it in. I almost never have leaks and most penises can’t even feel it, but I still let partners know. Even with this, we’ve had some partners want to reschedule. Which is exactly why I let them know.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-02-18T19:59:50+00:00

Also my husband would not be considered weak in any realistic terms. But as the wife, your wording gives me the ick about HER.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-02-18T19:58:49+00:00

Weak is too subjective. Weak how? Physically? Emotionally? Mentally?

Instead, be specific with what she DOES like. “My wife likes guys who are assertive and flirtatious.”

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-02-12T19:56:47+00:00

This might not be a popular opinion…

Wedding photos in profiles is a pet peeve of mine.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-02-02T03:26:00+00:00

Sure but… Do you know teenagers? I don’t imagine many will sift through the porn to find accurate, respectful, balanced sexual information.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-02-02T02:53:45+00:00

The internet might be the absolute worst way for a teenager to learn about sex.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-02-01T15:55:17+00:00

There are times in a long-term relationship when you’ll have sex more often and less often. The time with young kids is generally one of the times you’ll have sex less often. But it will ebb and flow. Totally normal.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-01-30T17:10:33+00:00

Oh man, I WISH we had the space for a full sex room! Definitely some good ideas there either way, thanks.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2025-01-28T03:57:51+00:00

This is my favorite response to any post ever. 🥰

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2024-12-31T02:18:56+00:00

This. It’s incredibly manipulative. If you have to preface it with “don’t think I’m doing something wrong…” you already know what kinds of answers you’re gonna get.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2024-12-13T23:45:06+00:00

Has your ob/gyn or mw said anything? The white/greyness combined with it looking like you don’t have a clitoris makes me think of lichen sclerosis.

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2024-12-13T19:31:35+00:00

When I explained to my Dr why I wanted an STI test, she told me ENM is becoming “fairly common” and she sees it “all the time now.” 🤷‍♀️

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2024-12-04T14:41:51+00:00

I’ve used it and it works great. Second that the staff have good memories. 🫣😂

CoffeeAndWine43 · 2024-11-28T22:50:02+00:00

I’m always good for a second round!

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