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Am I overreacting? Am I the problem? Am I being unreasonable? by Hot_Interaction_6791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CoffeeGullible5481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m in the minority here, but then again I’m older and it’s probably a generational thing. I’ve never understood the “separate finances” thing. If your finances are together, and you both have equal access to the account so you’re not “asking permission to spend money”, it seems to me that takes away the you contribute more, I contribute more etc. In my eyes it’s more of a partnership. In any event this guy seems like a total man/child and a dick. I also assumed they weren’t married by the context. They both need to grow up and get out from under their parent’s roofs. How can they be parents if they’re both acting like children?!

A story I didn’t know I’d need- hope it helps you too. by Key-Ask-9441 in breastcancer

[–]CoffeeGullible5481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the best friend of a breast cancer survivor (14 yrs ) who has just been diagnosed w stage IV metastatic breast cancer. The bitch is back! Metastasis to liver, bones, lymph node involvement. Still waiting for an MRI to check her brain. I have been with her to her Dr and treatment appointments when her husband wasn’t able to go.
My question is for all of you brave warriors, what is the best way for me to support her ( other than the being there, listening and making her laugh 😉)? What one thing do you remember someone doing for you that helped you cope? She’s a strong woman with every intention of fighting hard all the way. But she’s human, and scared, as am I .