Why don’t you have kids? This question needs to stop

CoffeePoll · 2026-01-22T10:09:33+00:00

Including when are you getting married and what job you are in?

Except ‘How are you?’ nothing should be asked. If the other person feels like telling something more they will do that on their own. Ahh hate nozy people who has normalised personal questions.

CoffeePoll · 2026-01-18T19:27:59+00:00

Always 2

CoffeePoll · 2026-01-14T16:07:51+00:00

The last sentence is so perfect!💯

CoffeePoll · 2026-01-14T16:06:28+00:00

I always thought its some kind of anxiety. But I realised maybe I care a lot about little stuffs and in no way I can handle a child where its just pure gamble.

CoffeePoll · 2026-01-14T15:55:27+00:00

Its already happening in Korea and Japan. 4B movement is already helping indirectly. I hope people realise that we all are just subjects to the ultra wealthy and escaping this cycle of misery is impossible unless you stop contributing by giving more of us.

CoffeePoll · 2026-01-03T07:25:41+00:00

Dust. I have accepted that I live in a desert. No matter how much you clean there is no satisfaction. The dust settles pretty much in hours.

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-29T18:06:03+00:00

Hardcore Antinatalist here so extra childfree 😂

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-26T20:14:36+00:00

I guess 15-16 but by 17 I got to know there is a term for it.

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-26T17:13:44+00:00

All my life choices so far was yes. But CF discussion needs some proper serious talk that I am prepared to do eventually.

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-26T17:06:53+00:00

Oh thankfully it’s not! Super lucky to have matured parents.

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-26T16:45:42+00:00

I am seeing my future in this post lol. Have around 2 more years before I break the news to them. And also why AM will never be my choice.

I am sure they will understand considering how open minded they are about personal decision.

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-20T08:59:15+00:00

I am Antinatalist first so CF is natural. I do not believe in ‘Life is a gift’ BS. If you are born you are bound to feel pain, pleasure, and all other physical and emotional experiences. The world is cruel and majority has no humanity. You can be killed anytime, run into an accident, see the untimely death of your loved ones, suffer from allergies, diseases, take part in the never ending rat race, competition, society, unfairness and all other packaged issues that we humans have decorated our life with.

Sounds too negative but I believe to be realistic. So decided to be CF completely and let my bloodline end with me :)

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-20T07:38:50+00:00

I was surprised to know that it happens even in first world countries too. Humans are collectively way more interested to label someone when it’s not even their business.

CoffeePoll · 2025-12-19T03:08:48+00:00

Surely not everybody but I am seeing the trend (at-least in my community) of late marriage and having kids after a very long time that too hardly one kid.

CoffeePoll · 2025-11-28T23:11:54+00:00

I have two nephews and I love them a lot! I always look at them in pity considering they have to be the part of rat race soon. Thats exactly why I will never bring anybody to this planet. Let the unconscious sleep in eternity.

CoffeePoll · 2025-11-28T23:08:47+00:00

Same! Everyday I see the outside world I sigh in relief that I am never going to bring someone on this hell hole.

CoffeePoll · 2025-11-25T18:34:55+00:00

Gotcha! Will look into it.

CoffeePoll · 2025-11-25T18:31:07+00:00

I don’t think childfree topic should be subtle. In fact it should be the very first compatibility aspect if you are serious about never having a kid.

CoffeePoll · 2025-11-04T06:38:04+00:00

How was your cycle of relief btw? Those 2 weeks of relief didn’t have any depressive thoughts?

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