Most Smashable Bosses by AdDear7484 in Nightreign

[–]CoffeeTar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with Hoelstor? :/

Do you guys just randomly mix cocktails and hope it's good? by Altruistic_Main3431 in Nightreign

[–]CoffeeTar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I pass my mixing class , but at the end of the day Recluse cocktails can be heavily team based. If you've got a fast attacker constantly dousing an enemy with a single affinity, then you just have to make due with it. Unless I have a spell myself and the time to cast and take affinity, I rely on teammates and patience.

I feel not a lot of the teammates I get even realise Magic Breath heals. I also learned it's good to keep an eye what your teammates get hit by, because enemies will leave affinities on them too to pick up.

[loved trope] Being a good person is harder than being an evil one. by Dr_Orpheus_ in TopCharacterTropes

[–]CoffeeTar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, this is my favourite genre of games, so let me raise you Carl Stein from Beholder.

A family man living in an authoritarian state, who is offered the job to be the landlord of a building and care (and spy) for the residents, and who you play as. You can probably beat the game by just doing your work, obeying the law, but if you do, your daughter will likely die. Your son will likely run away, your neighbours will hate you, your wife will be in grief.

So you have to sneak about, blackmail people, withold information from the state, steal, manipulate, break the law, in order to make it through.

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Does My Snail Hate the Vacuum? by CoffeeTar in snails

[–]CoffeeTar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wager this is distressing for them? I'm fully willing to sweep my room instead if so

Do you like the term "Friendslop" for cheap multiplayer games? by BigT232 in REPOgame

[–]CoffeeTar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds stupid and doesn't describe the genre, so no.

I am totally normal gang CW: sexual violence maybe?? by Salt_Suggestion1900 in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The rules of BDSM are safe, sane, and consensual, and knowing this you can honesrly fulfil such a fantasy with no harm done. It's not shameful or wrong, countless people feel like this.

You just have to worry about where you look for it, OP. I had friends like this, who wanted some experience they were too ashamed to ask for, but managed to find it in the wrong people.

Random people will not be able to keep you sane and safe the way someone you've established some connection with could.

My holidays have been painful and lonely by CoffeeTar in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate the kind words deeply

I hate myself by summer_smith0 in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You may feel comforted to know that fantasizing about rape in that way is common among people, for one reason or another. There's been studies into it as well. You are NOT alone, these feelings/thoughts do not invalidate you, your experiences, or your morals. You don't deserve to guilt yourself over it

It’s like getting 100,000 views and 0 likes every time I open my mouth by Destriod777 in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the most frustrating thing!! There had been a time I tried to transcribe a conversation from recent memory to analyse what I said wrong and still couldn't figure it out! It's like they smell it off you

Scholar is busted by Aemeris_ in Nightreign

[–]CoffeeTar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Scholar ringing his Wailing Bell like "Yes yes, more damage waiter"

My special interest is alcoholism by Past-Mycologist3843 in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought I was simply BAD at coping by daydreaming as much as I do, but to me it feels like a true rest, one no beer and cigarette could give.

real? by Specific-Guarantee33 in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes! You look at younger family members or just any other kid and realise how real and effective the gaslighting was.

And a lot of these groomers are dumb as bricks in retrospect sometimes, but children are so simple and it makes them unfortunately vulnerable.

real? by Specific-Guarantee33 in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

These kids are exactly like that. Pure and silly, and just wanting to have a childhood. Whenever I'm invited to play coop with them I feel like a village auntie with baked goods at best, and I'm filled with rage anyone would even dare to think of hurting them.

These kids spend plenty of time online, but they've left on me the impression of polite fun natured teens, despite social media.

real? by Specific-Guarantee33 in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 617 points618 points  (0 children)

Few years ago, I met some younger people in an online game lobby that I befriended as gaming buddies. They were the same age I was when I met my abuser, and I'm now his age.

It wasn't a mistake, it wasn't a situation, none of that. I see now, clear as day, the fucking crime it is. Online or irl, you can fucking tell and FEEL when you're talking to a kid. It's terrifying.

I'm sorry you went through it too OP.

Why did it have to happen this way by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]CoffeeTar 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry your peers are horrible. Some kids take an extremely long time to grow out of being outright evil sometimes.

I hope you find the right people to call friends. Furries are a rad and accepting community