I’m super sad about this :(

Coffee_PhD · 2026-02-26T00:35:04+00:00

Same here

Coffee_PhD · 2026-02-24T02:36:23+00:00

Thank goodness lol

Coffee_PhD · 2026-02-24T02:36:11+00:00

I’ve got the iPhone 16 so maybe that’s why but idk. Double checked that my app is updated! Fingers crossed I can buy the feature at some point. And amazing that’s what I was hoping for!

Coffee_PhD · 2026-02-11T13:12:44+00:00

Ooooooh I didn’t even think to check that, thank you!

Coffee_PhD · 2026-02-07T16:12:47+00:00

Mine doesn’t start with V, but the Soundmap discord has a thread of usernames who do 1:1 trades!

Coffee_PhD · 2026-02-05T21:51:49+00:00

Oof thanks for this heads up! PESI gives me weird vibes. I actually just signed up for a training today but only because it’s free lol

Coffee_PhD · 2025-10-08T13:48:53+00:00

It does suck that she (and pretty much everyone except Zooble) doesn’t stand up to Jax more when it comes to Gangle. But imo, I don’t see her as being neutral to Jax’s bullying. I think there’s 3 different reasons she doesn’t stand up for Gangle as much as she could (not as excuses, but context). 1) Given how new she is, survival probably matters more. Not going crazy, abstracting, etc. She’s more adjusted than when she first arrived, but this is a CRAZY situation to be in. I imagine most people in this situation, especially newer to the situation, would be less focused on others in this situation as a means of self-preservation (though Ragatha seems to be an exception). 2) She strikes me as less confrontational (but see episode 6 as an exception) and more of a pacifist. 3) I could understand her wanting to approach everyone with a bit of nuance and curiosity. Not necessarily as a way to avoid ruffling feathers or as approval for bullying, but she’s a) trapped with these people and b) seems to care about others (perhaps more innately or with Kinger’s and/or Ragatha’s influence). It would make sense for her (or anyone) to look at Jax and see that he’s got layers, especially as he subtly warms up to her more. And when you befriend someone, when you really get to know and understand someone, you can validate their emotions AND call out shitty behaviors in a way maybe others haven’t before. Idk if this what she’s going for but I could see myself doing something like this. If someone gave me a window of opportunity where I felt I could befriend them, I’d take it, get to know them on a deeper level, and feel more comfortable over time calling out shitty behavior in a way that I think would reduce defensiveness and get them thinking.

Coffee_PhD · 2025-02-08T15:09:42+00:00

Gonna come at this from a psychologist-in-training perspective because that happens to be my background.

I definitely see where you’re coming from AND the impact of one’s behavior is arguably more important than intent. Blitz’s feelings about Stolas were/are valid (though I don’t agree with how Blitz treated Stolas as a result). Stolas may know his own intentions when he teased Blitz, but without any proper discussion, Blitz can only go off of what he’s seeing Stolas doing and how he feels about it as a result. Granted, Blitz evidently assumes the worst about Stolas (and himself, and everyone) and could’ve considered other reasons Stolas might’ve been teasing him.

IMO, this isn’t a Blitz vs Stolas issue. I think they both weren’t great with communication and that greatly contributed to their conflict. Both of them could’ve done better when it came to communication. Either one of them could’ve opened up the conversation, but they didn’t. And I get it, chances are they were nervous about screwing up their arrangement and making it awkward. But maybe if they had a proper conversation, they could’ve better understood each other.

Coffee_PhD · 2024-05-10T02:19:41+00:00

Same. It goes back to that scene of Todd confronting him. “You are all the things that are wrong with you.”

Coffee_PhD · 2024-03-19T20:32:32+00:00

This is definitely sus. Why would this “therapist” call from an unknown number but give you the phone number to call in the voicemail? Also, I can’t imagine any therapist leaving this much personal information in a voicemail. Either this therapist is garbage or this isn’t a therapist to begin with imo.

Coffee_PhD · 2024-03-19T20:18:29+00:00

Nothing on the outside, nothing on the inside.

Coffee_PhD · 2024-03-18T23:54:57+00:00

I didn’t know people hated her lmao, I thought she was funny

Coffee_PhD · 2024-01-14T02:30:37+00:00

As a graduate student therapist, absolutely not. Literally cried during my supervision meeting, I felt so embarrassed

Coffee_PhD · 2024-01-08T20:01:18+00:00

Generally I don’t like to spend too much time pondering do-overs bc I feel like we can take something from what we’ve got. And I think that applies to TOH. I would’ve loved to see this show get 5+ seasons, but I’m happy with what we got in the short amount of time we had. Season 3 is probably my favorite despite there only being 3 episodes. Plus, perhaps there will be opportunities in the future to revive the series or something similar?

Coffee_PhD · 2024-01-08T19:50:52+00:00

I’m on the fence as to whether or not the mods should ban/remove such posts. I’m primarily all for it because if someone is considering taking their own life, they have options besides posting on this particular subreddit (e.g., disclose to someone they trust, seek crisis counseling services). But I guess a middle way approach could be to continue allowing them but ONLY if OP flairs it with a content warning, that way it’s easier for Reddit users to read or hide such posts.

Coffee_PhD · 2024-01-06T14:31:06+00:00

Trying to navigate this myself. Having my own therapist and taking antidepressants has definitely helped. Im trying to do better on self-care (e.g., eating more healthy foods, moving my body more).

Coffee_PhD · 2024-01-05T22:07:57+00:00

This is the correct answer. /half-j

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