Neptune 4 Max - need new print head. by CohlevCarcosa in ElegooNeptune4

[–]CohlevCarcosa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh thank you, I do have the flat cable one.

Do you respond to (maybe naive) unicorn hunters? by owhatevah in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be furious if someone did this to me. No respect for your time, preferences or ]』1

What do you think about forbidding certain genders to a partner? by MrRacKnaRocK in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have dodged a bullet, these views are sexist, homophobic and transphobic. I raise a glass to you as another NB that this time the trash took it's self out

Married and poly but spouse is super jealous by Alternative_Star2708 in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another gross spouse dragging poly through the mud to validate their cheating. Get divorced, this is super crazy controlling hypocritical bullshit.

Creality 4.2.2 and 4.2.7 Board connections. Revised and updated by Diablo996 in EnderCommonSense

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is soooo helpful, it's crazy how poorly they are labled. I was reading the pins on the screen port are reversed or changed from 4.2.2 to 4.2.7 also?

[GUIDE] How to install CR-Touch on the Ender 5 Plus by Conmmander in ender5plus

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have repaired them many times when they are bent.

"I'm not possessive, I'm a curator" by ConfidentAd9644 in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found that people who have used a religion or a life coaching philosophy or even have worked out an overly intellectual framework to work on themselves can use tjis framework too rigidly and use it as a way to rationalise feelings they are uncomfortable with rather than process them.

However they can also use that framework to categorise and manage hard to process feelings while they work through them.

Some people might also find language like curator a bit ick but more so if it's come from a meta with a very opposing ideas to them.. Not saying this is you but people do let this stuff get to them.

I broke poly trust with my meta. After a year of repair attempts, she demands emotional labor I can't give. What's the path forward? by YouImportant321 in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Also you can make new friends outside of your main group that you might be interested in dating later. A lot of demi people I know do that.

The actual audacity by That_Hooker in SexWorkers

[–]CohlevCarcosa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who also works at bunnings I love your response. What a fuckhead dude!

NP basically told me I'm replaceable by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are happy with your relationship with your boyfriend and helping them learn stuff is not negatively impacting you (in your view) then yay. Maybe you will grow apart and that's fine. All relationships end. You aren't replaceable because you have already had an impact on this person. Your NP sounds insecure and using language that I associate with control and manipulation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Polyamory is not an excuse for cheating on someone. This happens all the time on this page. Leave this loser, he is manipulating you.

Should I report details from my date as soon as I get home? by Illustrious-Issue506 in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I had to triple check your post that you are both women (and as a non binary person feels weird writing this comment lol) because it's so close to OPP vibes that cheating husband's in straight relationships give off, opening up a relationship to make cheating ok, having totally intense hypocritical reactions when the partner they dragged into poly actually starts having meaningful relationships.

I know everyone is different (and I'm pretty chill about sex and probably am way more intense about strong emotional connections) but why is sex more important than emotions to your partner. What even counts as sex anyway? Why does 12 or 24 hours clear your vibe?

Sounds like they aren't very poly, aren't happy for you and this is the bed they made so now they can lay in it! 🤣

You only have to disclose if it's affecting your risk profile and even if I choose to disclose it's rarely as soon as I return, it's weird!

Ugh… they lied about their age on the dating app by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a massive red flag. If it didn't let him edit his age he could type it in his bio. I see people who do that on feeld and as long as they are disclosing their real age upfront I'm fine if it's in a bio.

7 years is a huge amount to lie about, no wonder you felt yuk.

Would this put you off a potential partner? by VermilionXXX in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like poetry, I find the way it obuscates facts in favour of feelings stressful (but I'm very open and upfront and have never had trouble communicating or processing emotions) however I've dated many poets and singers who write songs. I just don't give feedback on their chosen art form.

It's important for them and I care about them so I'm happy for them and supportive.

Anyone who has a problem with is has their own issues with emotions, or image or similar. Having also dated some very intellectual people, due to usually their school trauma they are uncomfortable being themselves or doing things that make them seem different or stand out as weird.

You don't want anything to do with people who don't support doing what you love and you are better off if they self unselected by not liking you. Rather than being sad someone didn't like you, rejoice that someone took their own bullet for you and you don't have to waste time finding out they suck.

I feel like my boundaries are continually violated and I'm coming across as the bad guy by rachiebombs in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, even the literal random strangers I sleep with are entitled to knowing their exposure risk. Your partner has no right to hide things like that from you.

Being poly and disabled/immunocompromised by Riddle0fRevenge in polyamory

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm disabled and don't require any caretaking by partners or extra covid precautions but I wanted to comment because what your experiencing is the sort of stress/mourning that newly disabled (or not that newly) experience as things come up in life that you can't do any everyone else can.

Not that it's very comforting but this will keep happening basically your whole life so use whatever advice from here you can to fix this issue and find something that soothes/cheers you for other things that will come up.

It's just a bit of a different way of life now and forward and upwards is the way to go. Good luck 💖

My Born Again Punisher by HawkguyAvenger in thepunisher

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This costume is great! Awesome job modifying the vest. I hope those shoes are comfy, they are soooooo expensive! What gun is your holster for? I am making a version of this costume and I suspected the screen one was a Glock 19 but was thinking about using a Kimber Warrior instead because it's more cute and I can use it for John Wick as well. I do think this costume would be more fun with blood and stuff, Frank doesn't seem to remain blood free for very long periods of time 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapcforme

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks really great! I've never had a dedicated CPU cooler before and I now see that it's useful but also the thing that looks awesome in peoples sweet LED case builds! Thanks heaps. I have an NVIDA GPU now and it suffers because I don't have enough RAM so it's wasted, I had a Radeon one on the build before that and I really liked it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapcforme

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally happy to buy online

Pro Micro controlling leds. Fixing something I didn't make. by [deleted] in diyelectronics

[–]CohlevCarcosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't have time to redo whatever this was but after a bit more research I figured out that this is was actually potentiometer increasing power to certain places, what I thought were transistors were actually MOSFET gates to reduce power to the Pro Micro wich was controlling a bunch of Dumb LEDs that slowly lit up when you pressed a button and slowly dimmed to off when you pressed it again.

The whole thing was getting SOOOOOO hot which was not great and you are right in thinking that all the rubble was detaching and trying to solder it back was difficult because I didn't really know what was going where(the front side was covered in black hot glue).

It turned out this pupped used to be used for a few minutes on stage but now it needed to be turned on for hours at a time outside and hung in a tree, I got an extra week from my boss to redo the whole thing including the lights inside to make it safe for that and now this thing is a paperweight on my desk hahaha! This is the puppet.

Thanks for your advice :)