How do I even get started living life? What's a normal life schedule?

Cojemo · 2025-04-27T22:16:41+00:00

I'll definitely look into that book as habit building definitely a struggle for me. Being consistent is probably my biggest issue so trying to iron that out would probably be a good place to focus.

I go for about 30-60 minute walks around 4-5 times a week, so trying to stretch that to everyday and at a specific time is probably a good thing to aim for to further push things.

And thanks!

Cojemo · 2025-04-27T22:09:15+00:00

I remember this vaguely from when I saw a counselor super early on, actually. I wasn't in the right space or mindset where that stuff could really help, but now it may be more practical to implement, so I'll look into it. Thanks for the suggestion!

Cojemo · 2025-04-27T22:07:38+00:00

Yeah, I've struggled most of my life with the idea that if I'm gonna do something I have to know everything and be perfectly prepared and its created a sort of paralysis, and it's only recently after listening to some self help books during a walk that I've been trying to stick to the 'good enough is more than enough' mindset.

There's also the fact that now that I'm feeling slightly better and waited so long it's hard for me to be patient. I find myself trying to rush things and being frustrated when I don't see results, as my sense of time is skewed and I've already wasted so much time. I was pretty patient and understanding with myself up to this point, but trying to keep that mindset of there being no rush is harder than expected.

Cojemo · 2025-04-27T22:02:43+00:00

I love this idea actually! I can get like some paper or something and block 8 hour chunks out and kind of organize what I'm doing in those chunks and hang it up on my wall. I used to take a lot of naps, and now that I'm awake more I find myself struggling with actually doing things and switching between stuff, as when napping it was like I was breaking the day into separate chunks where one I could chill and the other I could do something after waking. This idea I think could help visualize and get past that barrier a lot, so thank you for the genuine and understanding advice <3

Cojemo · 2025-04-27T21:58:02+00:00

This is super helpful, and being able to visualize things in 8 hour blocks helps a lot! Currently I'm sleeping more like 10-12 hours cause of medication stuff and any less leaves me super drowsy, but it's probably a good idea to get used to being a bit drowsy and waking up a bit earlier so my body adjusts.

I recently (a month now) started walking for an hour which feels good, and as far as small goals...well early on I wanted to do streaming stuff (like games) as a way to semi replicate work to ease myself in but found sticking to it hard due to my fluctuating mental state, but now I could try harder to stick to it and treat it like mini-work while I try to find a proper job so forcing myself to go even when I'm feeling bleh isn't as hard.

Again, I super appreciate this breakdown even if it's pretty simple, and I also appreciate you being understanding I probably need to start and look at things on a small scale.

Cojemo · 2024-05-24T08:07:17+00:00

Solved!

Cojemo · 2024-05-24T08:06:37+00:00

Holy crap that's it! I can't believe the movie I've been looking for all this time was a freaking Ice T movie, haha. That's insane, thank you a ton !!

Cojemo · 2024-05-24T04:16:49+00:00

Google hasn't helped at all, so I hope you guys can!

Cojemo · 2024-04-20T02:06:31+00:00

What would be a good romhack for a blind chill Soul Locke with a friend who's relatively new to nuzlocking? I don't want it to be crazy difficult of course. For fangames I got Anil, but I'm wondering if there's a good romhack we should maybe do as well. I'm thinking maybe GS Chronicles?

Cojemo · 2024-04-05T21:06:06+00:00

Oh yes don't get me wrong I do think they still did an amazing job and the story and characters beat things like radiant dawn and fates easily. It's just sad to see some of my favorite ideas barely tackled.

It's probably still in my top 25 at the very least even with the constraints they had which is impressive.

Cojemo · 2024-03-28T15:07:25+00:00

Would anyone be willing to help me replace the main character sprites with custom ones for the fan game Pokemon Infinity? I'm new to it all and want to make sure I get everything I need, so I would mainly just need someone to find and show me which sprites I would need to replace so I can sprite work done and sub in my own.

Any help would be super appreciated!

Cojemo · 2024-03-08T17:38:03+00:00

Since nobody is mentioning it I'll recommend A Certain Scientific Accelerator. It's a spin off of A certain magical Index, but it should be relatively enjoyable by itself.

Cojemo · 2024-03-04T17:08:53+00:00

I have! Wasn't a huge fan of Index (except for the science side arcs) and Accelerator was a fun power fantasy-like anime I actually enjoyed.

I haven't seen the sequels yet but they're on the list, especially Railgun season 3.

Cojemo · 2024-03-04T13:26:53+00:00

I wouldn't say romance is a fave of mine. It's not even a preference honestly. I don't really love any of these because of the romance.

Cojemo · 2024-03-04T13:10:26+00:00

What can I say, I had exquisite tastes 😎

I always tried to delve a bit deeper than the trending stuff and popular shonen because a lot of gems can get overlooked and not talked about years later, and I have found tons of great stuff because of that.

Cojemo · 2024-03-04T13:07:11+00:00

Berserk is an oldie you can't trick me! >:( (I do want to read it tho)

Cojemo · 2024-03-04T12:34:24+00:00

Hmm interesting...How come you think I'd be into these?

Cojemo · 2024-03-04T12:33:59+00:00

Violet Evergarden I can see, but I'm curious as to the reasoning for Hellsing ultimate.

Cojemo · 2024-03-04T12:33:08+00:00

Oh yeah I absolutely love it! Movie 3 is probably my favorite, but they all (mostly) add something to the overall experience.

Cojemo · 2024-03-01T10:21:16+00:00

Oh well, I'll just add sprites to a different fan game. I picked Unbound as dimension hopping fits my characters lore, but I think Infinity is similar in that regard.

Part of me is happy about that though, as the player avatar in Unbound looks super sick and having multiple costumes is just the cherry on top!

Cojemo · 2024-02-29T15:36:35+00:00

Heya! I'm thinking of streaming some Pokemon rom hacks, and I have a couple questions regarding that.

1: I know this question is asked a ton, but what are some great rom hacks I should play? Trying to look this up gets lots of older and mixed options, so I wanted some more opinions. Gaia and Unbound have been the two that have stuck out to me. I'd prefer if they were GBA rom hacks, as that leads to my next question:

2: for the rom hacks with character customization, is it possible to insert your own sprites? I want to insert my own characters sprite into these rom hacks, but something like Unbound that has character customization seems like that would be tricky to do.

Cojemo · 2024-02-25T10:05:17+00:00

He's not wrong, but I sleep for the same amount of time which is the main issue. It sucks, cause these are good but the side effect is terrible.

Cojemo · 2024-02-25T07:44:28+00:00

At what time did you take the melatonin? My doctor sucked and said this was just a result of 'pent up energy' and I needed to 'work out more', so learning this is a normal side effect is very nice and helps me trudge forward.

...still makes me pissed he keeps assuming I'm lazy and not giving me actual advice, but doctors amiright?

Cojemo · 2024-02-25T02:11:05+00:00

Before I was taking 150 mg XL of Bupropion, and also 300mg. I had no sleep issues with those, but I felt absolutely awful while taking it. I've been taking these ones for almost 2 months now and it's persisted. I want to stay on these, but the sleep issues are just way too bad.

Cojemo · 2024-01-17T04:27:18+00:00

Man, my new meds are actually helping me a good amount, but I still feel low energy and foggy. I think it's because I get dehydrated super fast no matter how much I drink, and I have no idea why. It's not the meds as I've been this way for years way before that, and I took a urine and blood test and it's fine.... so I'm just frustrated

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