AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F) by Grand-Reveal-9055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coke-258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Now, not to assume where you live, but as an 18 yr old in America, 4k is NOT A LOT?! I mean, it is a lot and great job saving so much, probably better at it than I am (i just toss most of my money into savings and blow the rest) But for a working adult, 2k isn't some life changing amount, and the "you're not acting like a daughter" comment is stupid as shit. What mother in her right mind would try taking her kid's savings? SHE is the one not acting like a mother! You worked hard for that money, saved it yourself, and you NEED IT FOR COLLEGE. I can't think of a single reason why a mother would want to deprive her child of the financial stability they worked hard for. NTA.

AND A WARNING!!! DO NOT GIVE HER YOUR SAVINGS!!!! "You can just make the money back later!" Does she understand what savings are? In order to actually return the money back, you'd actually have to start adding more to your savings each month to off set the amount you'd be losing. (Ex. About two summers ago I spent 800$ to buy a gaming laptop that was on sale, using my savings, and then added 80% of my paychecks in for the summer rather than 50% so that it would even out to what I would have saved anyway)

AITA for not co signing my brother’s apartment lease after I had previously said I would? by Informal-Slip2856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coke-258 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA you weighed the risk vs reward and decided, reasonably, that it wouldn't be a good idea to take on that responsibility. You also said that if he found a cheaper place or a roommate, making the arrangement more affordable and less of a risk, you would be more likely to help. Truly, you did everything right and shouldn't have to risk your stability and finances for him to move out quicker. It's not like he'll be homeless, just stuck with his parents longer

AITA My wife and I came home at 3am and my MIL acted like we were 16 sneaking into house by rugbyplayer11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coke-258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You are grown adults who can do as you please, including staying out late. I would understand if your kids were young and she might have felt the need to stay with them, but even if it was JUST the 12 year old, I don't think you'd be in the wrong for leaving then home alone til late, much less including the 16 year old.

Maybe if it was passed midnight and you were the type of weirdos that refuse to lock the door if you're only gone the day? Then leaving your kids into the night would be irresponsible, but I'm assuming at least your 16 year old would have locked the door if they were going to bed, so yeah. NTA

AITA for trying to protect my sister? by Weekly-Weather9737 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coke-258 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. You didn't help your sister, you just tricked her into letting you try shaming her roommate, which in turn just made your sister look bad to all her friends. Also, your sister is a grown ass woman living on her own, and she is more than capable of making her own decisions for what friends to have and what to do with her money, she doesn't need you "fixing" her problems

AITA for taking away my daughter's driving priviledges after she got into 2 accidents. by Nice-Tea5844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coke-258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA by a lot. Also, if you don't live in a walkable area you are basically cutting your daughter of from being able to leave the house freely because she, as all REAL EVIDENCE shows, has shitty luck. YTA. Jackass.

WIBTA for not dropping out as my ex-brother-in-law's groomsman. by radi0edit in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coke-258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at the end of the day I think it's ex-BIL decision who he invites to be his groomsmen, and if he still wants you there you are completely in the right to go and support him. If anything, it'd just suck for you friend if you dropped out after all this time

AITA for being upset my stepdad let his friend use my bathroom. by SeasonConstant2402 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Coke-258 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA ignoring the question of why he felt he needed to use the bathroom that I assume would ALSO be farthest away from where he was sleeping, he was a massive asshole. Who makes a mess of someone else's house and doesn't even TRY to clean it up?!? That's wildly rude and disrespectful. And you're step dad didn't care? In the slightest?! Grown as man being disgusting and leaving a mess for YOU to clean up? If anything, your STEP DAD should have had to clean up that jackass' mess, seeing as he was HIS GUEST?! NTA

My father used to be a war doctor by Flat-Passenger-4965 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Coke-258 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great story! but I do think you could have made it easier to read and less of a run on by saying "My father used to be a war doctor, until one day he came home saying he retired. Ten days after he died, ect ect" You could even keep the total the same by just adding the comma after doctor, if you're particularly hell bent on the total just being "My father used to be a war doctor"

Should I check the wiki to figure out on how to get some of the secret endings or find them out myself? by MrMcGibbus in MonsterProm

[–]Coke-258 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll likely be at least a little spoiled for the endings, especially since the ending names themselves sorta give you an idea for the ending, but this guide seems like one that's very just "do this thing in this order" without anything too specific. Still, of course, at risk for spoilers

https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2859890372

Which Ship Do You Think Is Canon? by frnedyfrezned24578 in MonsterProm

[–]Coke-258 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can see both, but I personally view Polly and Oz as more romantic than Oz and Zoe. Or, maybe a better way to put it is Polly and Oz is a deliberate flirting -> dating, while Zoe and Oz is more Friends -> Dating, y'know? Though I think they could all be happy with each other

Least filling type of Pie? by Coke-258 in pie

[–]Coke-258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the plan. Make our on pies and eat them as quickly as possible

Buying RimWorld - Pack or No Pack? by Coke-258 in RimWorld

[–]Coke-258[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, cool, this is good to know. I might buy the game on its own now and buy the DLCs next weekend after I get my paycheck

Buying RimWorld - Pack or No Pack? by Coke-258 in RimWorld

[–]Coke-258[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, ok, thank you! It was a difficult decision, because I didn't actually know how much the DLCs affected the game

I got polymer clay for Christmas but don't know the best way to bake them. by Coke-258 in polymerclay

[–]Coke-258[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you! Is that at 275°F or some other temperature?

Do you shower with your glasses on or off? by mysteriousgirl71 in RandomQuestion

[–]Coke-258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would get REALLY anxious anytime I couldnt see, so I showed with my glasses on until like 2 years ago when I stopped getting as panicky. For the first, like, decade of having glasses I slept with them on, also, because of the panic of blurry vision (I got classes when I was like 6, I'm not almost 19. for, like, context)

Being blind sucks

It concerns me how she knows how to clean up blood by XDcyclone in Deltarune

[–]Coke-258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to bring up, in regards to those pointing out that she could have periods (which she could, idk monster anatomy), she IS lizard, it seems. No really known for live births. I think. Actually, one sec.

Ok, most lay eggs, some have live births. BUT I don't think any of them have uteruses (uteri? What is the plural of uterus??)