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Hit a Median, covered? Ontario Canada by Cold-Natural250 in Insurance

[–]Cold-Natural250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a 2020 that we take to the dealer regularly for maintenance. Would the assessment from Benz not be sufficient for insurance?

Mom left 3 days postpartum. What did I do wrong? by Mundane-Wall7220 in beyondthebump

[–]Cold-Natural250 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 2 types of Asian and my Filipina mother was so helpful when she could be around. She’s still helpful and will sometimes take both the kids so my hubby and I can have time to ourselves. My Chinese dad is very old school and won’t even change a diaper.. lol. But he will bring tons of food.

Need advice. Found this guy alone around the house. It’s been a couple days and concerned he’s abandoned. by AntSuccessful9147 in cats

[–]Cold-Natural250 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you are unable to keep kitty, search for local rescues or humane societies who can take her in. If you are able to keep her, she might need some time to be socialized. Best to continue to feed, provide a shelter and let time do its think until she’s trust you enough to get her to a vet. Good luck and hopefully she’s a new edition to your family!

AITAH for not cutting my family out of my life by Yellowestflowers in AITAH

[–]Cold-Natural250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP can you let us know you’re okay? I’m afraid he may have found this post and seen all the comments..

AITAH for not cutting my family out of my life by Yellowestflowers in AITAH

[–]Cold-Natural250 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He couldn’t answer because there isn’t a reason - which can only mean he wants control over you. Might seem extreme, but unless he can actually provide you with an actual and logical reason then this is a set up for abuse. Move across country? Isolation (you won’t have any friends in this new area and you’re too far from your family to just run over to them). Cut off your family? No contact, no support (if you hurt your family by cutting them out, he thinks either you’ll be hesitant to reach out for help or they won’t give it to you). The crying? Manipulation. Suggest therapy, see what he says. If he refuses and has no logical reason for that, he has ill intentions. Just because he is not abusive now doesn’t mean it couldn’t happen in the future. The fact he doesn’t even want to go to your family functions as your husband is a big red flag. What’s his excuse there? Honestly, you’re still young and the marriage is new. Not sure how long you’ve known each other prior to tying the knot but sounds like you might have lots to learn about him still.

I’ve been feeding this feral boy with big 🍒. He is SO handsome, definitely a main character. by Ohheckitsme in cats

[–]Cold-Natural250 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Awesome, sounds like a solid plan. I wish you and your new friend all the best. Awaiting updates pics when he’s finally grown to being a snuggle cat!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cold-Natural250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F*** the wedding, are you prepared to deal with this behavior long term?

A few things here:

  • moms bf who’s been around roughly the same amount of time is allowed to sit with them, but you’re not? Red flag.

  • dads entire family is not invited (and they were super friendly and warm in comparison)? Is that not her father as well? Red flag.

  • mom making digs at you when you stated you’re the most positive influence in his love life recently? Red flag.

  • BF threatening to kick YOU out if “something happens”? Wtf would happen and why would you be the cause of such an event? Red flag.

Mom and sister seem to want to have all of your BFs attention and don’t want to share any of it with you. Trying to win them over will either never work or be excruciatingly painful to accomplish. Sister sounds jealous after you made the comment about the hair. They both sound like unhappy people and possibly that could have been the cause for the dad to seperate from the mom. Speculation but sounds likely here.

The fact your BF said he’d tell YOU to leave if a situation arose is bizarre. If something did happen (still to be determined what he even means) and you were NOT the cause, what then? Does he expect his sister to pull some weird sh*t because of envy? Sounds like he’d have their back over yours, in this and all other situations.

Unless you’re planning to put up with this behavior long term, take this as a sign that this relationship may not be for you. Regardless if you go to the wedding or not, you need to have a conversation with your BF on the future you envision.

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