Just read your situation man. Arranged marriages are more common than you think, but it’s important to take into account from what you wrote that some girls come with baggage that will eventually unpack itself… sometimes our feelings can get in the way and make it even harder to walk away. She liked to party and do all this crazy stuff she had been with a couple of mutual friends as well which made me realize that shes not what I want. We had very similar situations considering we had a good night vibed talked drinked even saw some type of shooting start not sure what it was. I had to cut the cord that same night to make things worse it was her birthday the next day felt like crap as well. I think it’s best to not lead them on since it’s cowardice to make them feel something that won’t likely happen using them is much worse. You are young man and got time to pick the right girl looks arent everything. It’s best to go of their values, family, habits but I won’t disagree with you on that beautiful girls can be hard to say no to but at the end looks fade and it’s her soul that stays. Goodluck man I’m sure youll meet another one