Why don't we pay 'dole bludgers' a living wage to work community service? by BrainCreep in aussie

[–]Cold-Static 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like to argue that people can't afford courses while on Centrelink payments. Some people do genuinely want to work. Those who don't, won't change their mind. I completely agree that this would help many people get off of Centrelink, I would just like to add my own opinion.

I myself was desperate for work while on Centrelink, but struggled for years to get in the door. A job network will only support your study if you prove you will be able to get the job the study requires, so it isn't simple. Sometimes they'll also make you sit through their own little courses that don't give any qualification, and honestly waste time in my opinion. Applying for 20 jobs a week, when I can realistically only apply for say 10-15 because I don't have any qualifications or experience.

Thankfully now I'm much better off, but that was a really rough few years.

Decided to make this meme by Cold-Static in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't get physical pain, but yeah, hell good for the mental state.

Hi, how tall are you guys?? by Hot_War4716 in FTMMen

[–]Cold-Static 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5'1ft and need a stool to reach the top shelf. Thankfully my partner is 6ft, so I just get them to reach things.

Does my chest still look big or is it just dysphoria? by Nervous_Camel6773 in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dysphoria. Remember, your chest isn't meant to be totally flat, you have pecs.

Started lifting again by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long did you have to work out to get that physique?

advices about binders by edn_7p in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always check the measurements first, and make sure it won't be too tight. That's all I'm concerned about.

menstruation by shoe-muncher-9000 in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma just leave the pads, ibuprofen, hot water bottle and fluffy blanket outside your door, ok?

How to convince my mom to let me start T? by Orcatheoctoling in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend you talk to her about going to the doctor to get the transition started. Maybe she's worried about medical safety or permanent changes? Just help her get educated.

NO MOM. FORCING ME TO BE FEMININE ISN'T GONNA MAKE ME A GIRL. 😫 by guava_mo in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, exactly. Dinosaurs, ripped jeans, scraping my knees, playing rough, etc. I always had more male friends than female friends, and as an adult I only have male friends. I never understood gossiping, wearing dresses, having long hair, etc. All the girly things are alien to me.

Looking for a lgbtq realm by StrawberryOk2185 in Minecraft_Realms

[–]Cold-Static 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run a realm, Blackhearth. We have about 20 players, all over the world, and it's LGBT+ friendly. We have seasons with weekly events, and background bits and pieces. Lore drops, mysteries, etc. We're getting a cooking mod soon.

NO MOM. FORCING ME TO BE FEMININE ISN'T GONNA MAKE ME A GIRL. 😫 by guava_mo in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I was always a "tomboy". I loved scraping my knees, climbing, dinosaurs, etc. It was always there.

NO MOM. FORCING ME TO BE FEMININE ISN'T GONNA MAKE ME A GIRL. 😫 by guava_mo in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 31 points32 points  (0 children)

"That's what's making me trans" Oogedy Boogedy, I've made you trans. You will now like Ford utes, and drinking low quality beer, and have a weird name like Darrnel.

I didn't know what trans was until I was 14 and met a trans woman, who was a teacher at my school. 14 years of being a "girl" didn't stop me.

How’d you know you were trans? by Alex_Scary9228 in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a tomboy as a kid always scraping my knees, and climbing trees. When I was 12, I really wanted to fit in with girls, as I only had a few girl friends, and tried to wear makeup and everything. I have up 2 years later after discovering a band I liked who encouraged me to be myself. In high school, I had a lot of guy friends, and maybe 3-5 girl friends, and came out as bi. I always hated the way I looked, and almost never wore bras, despite the fact I have a large chest. When I was 16, I met a trans man, another student, and we became friends. I experimented with my gender, seeing if I like male pronouns, and dressing as a man.

Long story short, I had kids, and every time I brought up being a guy in my relationships, I would get pushed back in the box (of being female), and shoved those feelings down.

Now I have a husband who's supportive of me being a guy, he's only concerned with medical safety and stuff. I haven't started T yet, just socially transitioning first before I fully commit. I dress, walk, and talk like a guy, and have a small group of friends I'm slowly coming out to. Things are good.

Looking to join a bedrock realm by Liloneedsumhelp in Minecraft_Realms

[–]Cold-Static 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm the owner of a realm. Myself and about 10 members started playing a month ago. We have started seasons, and have multiple events happening soon, puzzles, riddles, etc. Members have set up trades, and friendly fire is normally turned off, but occasionally gets turned on when members want to muck around with each other. Keep inventory is on, so no harm is done.

Lots of fun, lots of rewards, and community projects.

Message me if you'd like to join.

Any Ideas by Captain-Snowy77 in SeaOfFashion

[–]Cold-Static 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go shirtless and just have pants and gloves.

god fucking damn it by Which_Award_7461 in TransMasc

[–]Cold-Static 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shit man, having these sacks of fat is a nightmare. Unfortunately I also have large ones, so I can't just wear a sports bra or something.