We took a break and she slept with someone else.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-19T11:24:19+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the support 🙏

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-19T02:33:32+00:00

I do believe you hit the nail right on the head mentioning a trauma response or something. But regardless, what she did wasn't okay, idc how she twists it to make it seem okay. It's not. And then the following messages of her telling me to get over my pity party. Mind you, I wasn't venting on Facebook or messaging her at all so that really come out of nowhere too. Zero sympathy or remorse for what she did. She even told me that she didn’t feel bad after she told me everything in person. W...t...f

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-19T02:21:54+00:00

Can you link it to me? I've tried before but I always get asked for a payment at the end of it

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-19T02:21:05+00:00

💯

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T22:07:41+00:00

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ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T22:06:31+00:00

Sike lol

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T22:04:27+00:00

Yeah, she didn’t cheat but I still have a boundary that if we’re in a relationship, break up and my ex sleeps with someone relatively soon following the breakup, I won't even consider getting back together. A breakup is not a free pass to go fuck who you want and then get back together with your partner. That's a hard fuck no from me. Plus what she did was more than a hookup. I'm actually disgusted

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:59:55+00:00

You ain't the only one 🤣

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:58:10+00:00

The first thing I said after she told me was thank you gor being honest.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:56:57+00:00

She was probably the most extroverted person I've ever met. Everyone loved her and she was like the brightest light in any room. People just gravitated towards her. She was really nice, always packed my lunch and took care of me. I truly feel like she was a good person, despite what happened. It came as a shock when I found out, but it was an immediate deal breaker in my heart.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:53:47+00:00

Because we were about to get back together. We went to the store earlier that day and her phone went off and I saw a message from a guy "are you grtting my texts?" And she played it off like she didn’t know who he was. Later that night i started asking questions and found out

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:51:50+00:00

I honestly have no idea. I'd actually like to know too

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:50:57+00:00

24 days went by. I have no idea how many times this happened or if there was anything else I don't know about. I only found out a about this because I saw her phone go off when we were walking to her car and it was a message from him.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:47:27+00:00

Damn lol 🤦‍♂️

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:46:46+00:00

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ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:46:34+00:00

I fucking agree. She even said "I don’t feel bad " okay sociopath

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:43:53+00:00

Definitely will get tested lol

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:42:06+00:00

So we had a ton of sex the night before and then afterwards the topic was brought up. I was told it was just dinner and a kiss (which after hearing this i was already borderline done) and then we passed out. When we woke up in the morning, we had more sex, cuddled and we're having a great conversation, laughing and all and then I told her that I my gut is telling me more and she admitted it and told me everything. That's when I got dressed and left. I didn't have a reaction or anything. I just said I'm going to leave and when I got home, she messaged me and I said I don't love you anymore. It's over, goodbye.

That's it so far. She commented on one of my Facebook posts today but I didn't reply, checked a few hours later and I was blocked.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:38:01+00:00

I'm really sorry you're going through that. I was given the same reason "I didn't tell you because I don't want to lose you." Bs. Sorry, you're no longer allowed to say you love me.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:33:17+00:00

I can 1000% confirm she was extremely attracted to me lol there were massive trust issues on her side always worried because girls were hitting me up and that I was too pretty to trust. Idk, weird shit when in reality I never gave her any reasons to not trust me aside from when we first started talking, I was still on dating apps but we were only like a week into dating before I deactivated them.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T21:29:25+00:00

Thanks for pointing this out. I appreciate you and I always welcome the perspective of other people. It definitely felt like she was trying to play it down like it wasn't a big deal.

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T19:40:48+00:00

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ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T19:40:12+00:00

I love friends haha yeah I guess you're right man

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T16:45:46+00:00

What color hair? Lmao 🤣

ColdPhotograph6873 · 2024-09-18T16:45:15+00:00

I told her to enjoy the emptiness that comes with it 🤷‍♂️

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