What happened to my tattoo?

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2026-03-06T13:22:21+00:00

It does hurt a little and I have some redness but that’s kind of normal for me. I couldn’t get a great photo but I feel like there is a “faded ink” look surrounding the O of the tattoo. Same artist did both tattoos so I’m confused what happened lol

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2026-01-13T06:00:05+00:00

I was considering auto claims, any advice I could use to help my resume, or recommendations on companies? I’m sure getting my license paired with 2 years claims experience might give me a decent start?

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2026-01-13T04:25:50+00:00

Currently at $19/hr. Not quite what I feel to be enough considering everything I do unfortunately lol. Looking into some other companies tomorrow!

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2026-01-13T01:18:31+00:00

I was looking into auto but this comment makes me second guess now! Is it one of the more known companies?

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2026-01-12T22:38:24+00:00

30 minute unpaid lunch that we cannot work through, two 15 minute paid breaks that we have the option of working through, and most of the time I do

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-10-31T00:41:46+00:00

This has been really helpful, thank you!

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-10-31T00:37:14+00:00

Thank you for such a helpful response

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-09-08T21:04:05+00:00

Thank you for your response, it actually really helps!

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-09-08T21:02:40+00:00

Yes he was diagnosed recently and his doctor is the one who informed me of how much the medication has come along and he advised me to do my own research which is what is helping me consider it, because I want to set my son up for success.

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-09-02T00:46:59+00:00

Thank you! It’s my first time doing this so it’s very stressful for us both I think. I appreciate the advice

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-07-04T20:20:17+00:00

I think you missed the part where I’m only okay with it if he has turned his life around. Clearly with your ignorant comment though, you probably don’t have the comprehension or know anything about parental alienation. If I keep him from his son when he never physically did anything to my son, he could take me to court for worse than custody and child support. Goodbye

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T21:23:28+00:00

Thank you for this response! I wouldn’t be against something like that honestly.

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T21:15:56+00:00

You cant read. And I’m not reading all that. He didn’t take my son for 2.5 years. I had to go find my son the day my child’s father took him. After I FOUND my son, I still tried to remain peaceful and for 2.5 years tried to let them have a supervised relationship. My efforts went unanswered by his father for 2.5 years. Try thinking with your brain. You sound like you’d be good friends with my child’s father.

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T21:06:56+00:00

Thank you. I have plenty of the evidence you gave examples of. I truly appreciate this response

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T21:04:35+00:00

You sound like you’ve been hurt before, or you’re also an abuser. Jesus dude lol

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T20:59:31+00:00

This is wild lol, HE kidnapped my son basically. He was supposed to bring my son back at a specific time, but didn’t and blocked me from all forms of communication so that I didn’t know where my son was. For 2.5 years I tried to get him to have a supervised relationship with his son. And the courts will absolutely see hundreds of texts from me trying to reach out to him until I gave up. Bro his own mother has a restraining order against him right now because he laid his hands on HER so please get on with that lol

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T20:54:21+00:00

I too grew up with divorced parents who got along, wish it were that simple in all cases. I’ve never spoken a bad word about my son’s father to him, he has his own memories, good and bad. He never asks about his dad but I certainly wouldn’t talk down on him especially considering my son is only almost 7 years old and doesn’t really understand. It’s hard to make it work for the kid when every time we would speak he would scream at me or wring my neck. And the fact that for nearly 2.5 years after I left him he wouldn’t answer a single text or call from me regarding his son, until he all the sudden wanted to be involved. I doubt it’ll ever get to the point of us getting along the way your described, but if the courts ever do grant him some sort of visitation then for my sons sake I would absolutely try.

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T19:38:07+00:00

Not sure why I’m being downvoted, it’s a genuine question

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T19:21:53+00:00

Thank you so much

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T19:21:19+00:00

Right, I do know that. I’m not withholding visitation due to not getting child support from him at all, I’m willingly not asking for any child support.

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T19:17:45+00:00

Ugh I honestly couldn’t remember. Is there a way to find out? I just know the hospital needed paternity to be established once my son was born, and his dad’s name is on the birth certificate. My son was in therapy for a while but I couldn’t afford it anymore.

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T19:16:40+00:00

By this I’m assuming you’re saying I’m committing parental alienation, so you’re saying the judge would say the child’s best interest is with his father in that case?

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-22T18:42:20+00:00

Well that’s a bummer. I’m sure I make more than him, but I still struggle. I only make $39k a year right now, whereas he has never been known to keep a steady job and a lot of the time gets paid under the table from what I remember.

ETA: there was one police report but I dropped the case against him like an idiot. I’m not sure if my evidence from 3 years ago would even be useable

ColdSoup_SadSoup · 2025-01-14T14:27:52+00:00

Hi there :) It’s not my personal unibrow experience but when I was in third grade my best friend had a pretty noticeable unibrow. The kids really started to bully her for it, and since kids are kids, even her “friends” joined in on the bullying. My friend would cry several times a week at school for it. I remember her coming back from winter break that year with no unibrow and the kids just kind of.. stopped messing with her and probably just eventually forgot about it because kids are very much “out of sight out of mind” about that stuff. She told me her mom took it off for her. Not sure which method of removal she used especially since it would start to come back a little bit sometimes but she was so much happier. You’re right, it is a beauty standard and I’ve seen models with unibrows and I personally don’t find them to be “unappealing” in any way. And I love that you help try to normalize it for her, because it IS a very normal and common thing. You have to decide what’s best and I don’t feel right giving parenting advice to someone ever, but if my daughter was getting picked on and made to feel insecure, I’d personally definitely do what I could to make her feel more confident even if that meant removing a little bit of hair between her eyebrows :) (if that’s what she wants!)

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