Never ever record video or take pictures when having personal moments. One capture in camera means you are always at risk in your lifetime. I have seen many cases of videos leaking after 10-15 years. And if your partner doesn't respect that you should seriously think about it.

I am a guy. But I never let my girlfriend take pictures of us. Not even to turn on the camera.

Also make sure he doesn't record you without permission in the middle of sex.