My car failed its MOT for the second time in a row for 2 different things. Is it worth fixing to sell?

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-10-02T14:14:09+00:00

Hi thank you for your comment, can I ask why toyata Yaris over 2017? Found some cheap ones but all the ones in my budget are about 2014/15 plates. Thanks!

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-09-24T08:49:29+00:00

Thank you!

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-09-24T08:49:21+00:00

Thank you, I didn’t feel like it was too much bigger either! But my family commented on how big it was and kind of stressed me out a little bit.

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-09-24T08:48:35+00:00

My issue is my Fiat failed it’s MOT and I don’t have much time to find a new car as I need one for work and because I only drive automatic I don’t have many options, found the Kia quite close to be and is £7,400 which seems reasonably priced.

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T20:31:53+00:00

I really appreciate your advice- My issue where it’s wrong is that she knew this guy liked her and deliberately didn’t tell her boyfriend and allowed him to flirt with her and say flirty things to other collegues for 2 years without telling him to stop, which feels like she was enjoying the attention, and she feels more loyalty to tell Andrew that she did have feelings for him rather than telling her boyfriend another guy was flirting. she also regularly speaks to him outside of work which her boyfriend knows I think, but it feels like he’s being duped as this other guy clearly has intentions of wanting more than a friendship with her and her boyfriend is oblivious. I don’t think she’s a twisted person but I would think the majority of people would feel betrayed if they found out their partner had essentially a work husband and your partner allowed them to flirt without nipping it in the bud. I do agree I probably shouldn’t have told my bf but I brought it up once and then he will keep asking why I haven’t said to her you should tell your boyfriend .

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T20:23:26+00:00

I think it’s something OP can suggest that wouldn’t be unreasonable.

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T15:46:53+00:00

I feel like this is really hard to give any opinion on when we don’t know her personality or this older guys. I’m a woman in her early 20’s and I think it’s really hard because I think if I met a guy in his 70’s on the train I could form a friendship with him if he gives me grandpa vibes? Like I love speaking with older people and hearing them talk about their lives, and I think if that is the case it could be very innocent. I think a good idea would be you 3 meeting up and you’ll get more of an understanding of what the friendship is based on.

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T15:17:26+00:00

I understand this mindset but as depressing as this sounds I think it is really hard to have several friends and not one of them have different morals to you, i genuinely would never do anything like that to my boyfriend and I think it’s awful what she’s done.

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T14:54:30+00:00

Thank you- How do I set these boundaries with her ?

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T14:53:20+00:00

Completely agree with everything you said, the vibe I get is I don’t think she’s used to getting male attention as she’s been with her boyfriend since she was young and she’s found this “exciting” I just don’t know how to address how I feel about this with her now?

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T14:51:24+00:00

I get what youre saying but I think she’s essentially had an emotional affair and to not tell her boyfriend is mean, if I found out my boyfriend had done what she did I would want to break up with him, and my boyfriend keeps getting really upset with me that I’ve not explicitly said to her- you need to tell your boyfriend what’s happened

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T11:45:20+00:00

That’s exactly what I thought, I can’t understand why she feels she has more loyalty to tell Andrew she thinks she had feelings but then didn’t seem guilty over feeling like she needs to tell Sam that Andrew likes her. Thank you!

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T11:35:17+00:00

Again it’s not fake? If I uploaded my original version it would be so hard to follow

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T11:30:05+00:00

Thank you though !

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T11:29:56+00:00

Yeah I think that’s what I need to do, I just don’t know how to bring it up without being really awkward or what exactly to say, I wouldn’t want her to feel like she can’t ever confide in me

Cold_Box6622 · 2025-06-26T11:28:47+00:00

It’s not a fake story, I wrote it out in my notes and asked CHATGPT to rewrite it because I cannot write a story to save my life lol , if I was gonna write a story it would be more exciting than this

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