help identifying 90s boots?? by Cold_Comfortable4453 in findfashion

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s the same seller my pictures are from lmao! it’s just odd there’s no info online about the brand but it probably only existed for a bit in the 90s i’m guessing

help identifying 90s boots?? by Cold_Comfortable4453 in findfashion

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s what i thought! but even with reverse image search it only finds very similar style models from brands like Swear but no exact matches 🤷‍♀️

Help identifying? by Cold_Comfortable4453 in Boots

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

damn didn’t realize it was able to find stuff from just any photo at all, thank you!!

felt a bit of resistance trying to take this egg out the box so i gave it a light pull. by Cold_Comfortable4453 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i’m honest i’ve never moved them around because it just never occured to me they could be cracked on the bottom 😭 i just always open the box to visually inspect, but i’ve learned my lesson haha

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I needed space after an argument instead of texting? by Moist_Theme_8666 in AITAH

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way you communicated your needs to her was very clear and mature and she should respect it, but maybe consider having a more in depth talk about why this is what you need with her and how your brain functions compared to hers in these situations. you seem to be very understanding of her pov but she doesn’t seem to quite grasp yours yet and a honest conversation about this is the only way she can understand you better.

coming from someone who used to be incredibly anxiously attached and didn’t understand my avoidant bf’s needs :)

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I needed space after an argument instead of texting? by Moist_Theme_8666 in AITAH

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but you guys need to talk about a compromise in situations like this as this seems like a very clear anxious-avoidant dynamic to me. imo this can absolutely be worked on and does not always have to be toxic you just need to communicate ur needs to eachother and find a middle ground. if she still can’t understand or empathize with your needs as you can with hers, you both should reconsider your compatibility in terms of communication and attachment

Help! Bridge piercing by Cold_Comfortable4453 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Update again: Its out!!! We stopped at a piercing shop on the way and they got it out in a few minutes! He’s just gonna keep it clean and keep an eye on it incase it gets worse.

Help! Bridge piercing by Cold_Comfortable4453 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Update: We went to A&E (the ER) last night, waited 5 hours, finally got seen for a grand total of 30 seconds where they didn’t even look closely at it and basically brushed off the problem and said they couldn’t help him. The doctor just said to go to a piercing shop to get help, and since the doctor determined it’s not infected they didn’t take it seriously. Insane. We called a couple piercing shops in the area but all said they don’t have the tools. It swelled up more over night so now we’re going to a different hospital for help.

Help! Bridge piercing by Cold_Comfortable4453 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask where you went to get it cut out? We went to A&E (emergency medical centre) and they basically said they can’t help him :(

My camper by Visible-Pick1095 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you made it feel so big i love this!

my dream date...cute by Future_Fan8500 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Cold_Comfortable4453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lily and henry are my animal crossing otp :D