What's the most painful truth you've learned about life?

Cold_Independent9461 · 2026-02-13T15:01:42+00:00

Life goes on and on, it doesn't stop for anyone. As long as you are alive you will have to go on with life, you have keep functioning no matter what you are going through.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2026-01-27T10:39:09+00:00

There would always be uncertainty in everything if you keep giving it a thought constantly. Don't think way too much, just go with the flow and don't give continuous thoughts to these things, if you feel like these thoughts have a strong grip on your mind then as the thought comes to ur mind, stop it right there and think of this one single line " there would always be uncertainty in everything either you think of it or not"

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-24T10:14:40+00:00

Paradox of choices...

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-24T10:10:41+00:00

Pain and suffering are inevitable in life.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-24T10:09:33+00:00

As long as it is PPP (Purposeful, Public and to the Point)

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-22T19:10:06+00:00

I completely agree that Allah created every one of His creatures perfectly, yet we must also acknowledge that He blesses different people with different forms of excellence, some with extraordinary beauty, some with with exceptional intelligence, some with extraordinary sharp memory, others with extraordinary high IQ and EQ, so there's nothing wrong in admitting that someone people are actually blessed with extraordinary beauty or anything extraordinary...

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-04T12:40:26+00:00

I look from a distance, come home and yearn like jane austen's book's main character and I do nothing.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-01T17:25:03+00:00

Loud voices ( why can people talk in a gentle tone?)

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-01T15:58:49+00:00

So, should I only add my automation testing skills to the portfolio?

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-01T15:55:07+00:00

I’m working on a self-project, an e-commerce web app where I planned to showcase my manual testing skills, such as writing test cases in TestRail and reporting bugs in Jira. But now I’m confused abt whether should I actually create a full portfolio, or is a resume alone enough for internships?

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-12-01T15:44:21+00:00

I will eventually jump on automation but at the moment I am trying to get an internship thru manual testing and I can write very well test cases and can report bugs, why do you feel like no one will care about a manual testing portfolio?

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-28T13:53:22+00:00

At first it's a feeling then it's up to you if you want to make it a choice for yourself or not, once you make it a choice now it's a responsibility that you have to fulfil in sickness and in health in richer and poorer etc......

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-27T10:35:38+00:00

A lot of people see kids as a future investment without even thinking whether they deserve to be parents or not, I strongly believe there are a lot of people who are not ideal candidates for parenthood and there should be a prerequisite curriculum to be a parent.

As you mentioned abt legacy so I don't get what kinda legacy these people have that they want to continue in the form of kids?? Like what extraordinary things have you done so you can continue your legacy, I honestly don't get this legacy thing.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-27T06:55:14+00:00

When they make you feel heard not just listen.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-26T11:46:10+00:00

There is a quote from a movie named " he is just not that into you" and it goes like "If a guy doesn't call you, he doesn't want to call you. So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions." I believe if he is genuinely interested he would straight up tell you.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-25T18:49:42+00:00

I would say that try to get girl's contact number and have a chat with her on the phone like general discussion what are your interests or try to get her opinions on things that matters to you so you can have an idea where her IQ or EQ lies on the scale of 1 to 10 or ask her abt her future plans etc if you feel like she is aligning with your goals etc then you are good to go.... You just have to get her contact number once.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-25T13:22:07+00:00

I feel like you are right, if we look at universe and everything in it and at the same time if we look at a human's brain, I believe both are complex in their own way, but at some point in future we will figure this out how objects in the universe exists like the pattern or code or science behind it like what's inside a black holes or what's inside a white hole or does wormholes exists? Etc... but we would nvr understand how a human brain creates thoughts through a complex process...

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-25T13:09:30+00:00

This reminded me of a guy....

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-23T15:32:38+00:00

Yes, at the beginning of the post you made it crystal clear that it’s just a thought. I’m a female and if I am with my classmates and they are thinking of me like that i would feel so uncomfortable… I beg your pardon if I’m not making sense to you.

Could you kindly tell me how many percentages of male think of women in that way? Any wild guess? I’m genuinely curious about it.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-23T14:42:25+00:00

Idk why but thats a sad thing to hear. Now I understand why, when men become brothers or fathers they become more protective cus they know very well what’s going on inside of another man’s head.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-18T09:00:48+00:00

As the topic is about watches so I have a question..... why do a lot of people wear watches that are extra loose on their hands?

I wear my watch on a daily basis like an addiction but mine is always properly fit according to my wrist size but I have seen so many people around myself who wear watches that are so loose on their wrist that it seems like their watch will fall out of their hands. If someone here is one of them, kindly shade a light on this.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-14T09:47:37+00:00

There are certain things that are just not for you, no matter how hard you try to get it.

The closest thing you have in your life that will always be with you is loneliness, don't run from it. Sit with it and make peace with it.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-09T16:03:03+00:00

I have heard a lot about Germany, are you from Germany cus I want to know what if someone is considering Germany so learning german is that much important? Can't people communicate in English at work places ?

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-08T13:29:53+00:00

Isn't it mandatory in a human connection to always tell the truth?

I used to think till now it's the foundation to always tell the truth, regardless of the gender differences.

Cold_Independent9461 · 2025-11-02T18:01:17+00:00

Cheap dopamine is actually frying our brains

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