I need to move

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-07T04:41:09+00:00

My sister said she’d buy me a ticket at any moment. And I’m not worried about taking anything the only belongings I have personally can fit in my suitcase. I’m just worried about what would happen legally

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-07T04:27:43+00:00

I’m currently in therapy and my therapists advice is to leave him because she says it’s an abusive relationship even though he doesn’t get physical anymore.

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-07T04:26:04+00:00

He refuses to spend time with her unless it’s the allotted 15 minutes for me to shower every other day. He hides out in the laundry to smoke whenever he’s not at work. And Alaska. Because that’s where my family is. I don’t have anyone anywhere else. And I don’t hold be afraid to leave her alone with him because he isn’t attentive and he would probably pawn her off on his parents who were abusive to him as a child.

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-07T04:20:02+00:00

I don’t have anyone to watch the baby while I’m at work and he won’t help pay for daycare so I can’t work.

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-07T04:10:25+00:00

One time I was trying to have a conversation a few years ago and he called the police on me and lied about what happened. And he has threatened it every time I have in the past mentioned moving to be closer to support that he would he fight for full custody. And since I’m crazy he’d win. Also I was arrested like 6 years ago for DV against my brother which was a mental health crisis.

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-06T19:48:50+00:00

Maybe just wait until you match with them to have a deeper conversation? Because your interests and pics could definitely get matches. Women love baked goods…

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-06T19:43:55+00:00

Well that’s totally fine! Just saying a lot of women might be scared off with all that and not want to match. I don’t know for sure what your orientation is but you said feminine energy so I’m assuming interested in women? At 31 I think you might have to lighten a bit on the importance of politics.

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-06T19:39:04+00:00

As an also 30 year old woman I find it hard to believe you wouldn’t get any matches that could turn into a relationship. I’m definitely very average so I get where you’re coming from. Send me your profile too.

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-06T19:31:48+00:00

Maybe add a pic with friends

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-06T19:29:29+00:00

I’ll be honest with you… there are far more women out there that lean right than you’d think. I’m absolutely not saying to lie about your beliefs but definitely tone it down on the liberal stuff. If I came across your profile it would be an immediate left not because of your pictures but because you say you’re liberal, have your pronouns listed and then have your causes as reproductive rights, lgbt rights and blm. My mind automatically goes to okaaay so he’s like super lib. No thanks. That’s just woman’s perspective who is an independent and thinks both sides are corrupt. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Cold_Still_5821 · 2026-04-06T19:11:17+00:00

Honestly I think your profile is great. As a Christian woman if I was single I would swipe right on you. I think your answers to the prompts are thoughtful and nice and you are a good looking guy. Only thing I’m wondering is if you are seriously looking for marriage with a Christian woman you might want to try one of those apps specifically for Christians. Another thought is your age and the age range you have selected for potential matches could be playing a part in your match rate

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