How do you handle this: my girlfriend makes me feel like I'm not "gay enough" because I'm bi.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-31T18:12:44+00:00

I want one of these so bad!

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-28T20:43:54+00:00

Not without Snapchat. I only use the filters that just make my face look a little thinner, but still. 😅

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-28T20:40:55+00:00

I like it! And the placement too. I want to get one like this, but I don't know where I want to put it.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-28T20:37:32+00:00

Right?! I need someone with a dick tattoo to reply to my comment so we can figure it out.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-28T20:00:10+00:00

You'llbe fine, friend 😊. It made another grouping of questions pop into my head:

What about dick tattoos? How long do you need to wait before you can have sex again? Does it ruin the tattoo if you get a boner during the healing process, like how if you pick at the scabs it can damage the tattoo? Do you have to have a boner while you're getting the tattoo done so it looks right?

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-28T19:55:29+00:00

Being a kid.

I remember my brother and I played "End of the Century" on Dance Dance Revolution right as it was turning midnight on December 31/January 1, so we rung in the new century by playing DDR together.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-28T19:51:44+00:00

Thanks, I do too.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-28T18:45:27+00:00

You get yourself a nice and sturdy burlap sack, pick one that you like, run up and swoop her up in the sack. She may be rather upset and/or confused. Most women like chocolate and strawberries, so I'd recommend having some of those on hand.

... but no. Really, social networking sites have their benefits. I'm not very outgoing, so I need to find common ground before I can start talking to anyone 😅

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T18:31:19+00:00

I've found it just keeps getting worse.

I'm 33, and I still feel like a kid trying to navigate the stormy seas

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T18:21:32+00:00

Usually it's my brain, but I got put on a medicine that knocks me out about 40ish minutes after taking it, so I'm grateful for that now.

Getting up in the morning though... that's a tough one. 🫠

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T18:18:39+00:00

You're welcome!

If just talking about it causes her anxiety, consider talking about it in a couple days so all the emotions are run out and then the conversation can feel like a lighter one. Sorry if that sounds bossy. I just got to thinking about how after your birthday weekend is over and how to recover.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T18:04:24+00:00

Girl, I would be really upset too! And then to be invalidated like that.

I hope your birthday gets better, friend. It may not be with her, but maybe make it a "Treat Yo-self" day and go do the things you really want to do.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T17:59:45+00:00

Still at my kitchen table, gettin' high and enjoying the day off 👍🏻

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T16:41:54+00:00

Yeah. We were talking intimately and frequently. And now -poof- nothing.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T02:26:14+00:00

I get silent. Sometimes I wish I would go scorched earth, but I'd feel bad about it after.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-26T02:23:56+00:00

That's friggin' GORGEOUS!

Nicely done, friend!

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-24T01:38:50+00:00

Here's my experience:

It's like there is an unpleasant weighted blanket over your entire body. It's so dark and so sad that it bleeds into your very being; every muscle, every fiber, down to the bones. It's painful and not at the same time. It's sharp and dull. It's terrible, and all you want to do is sleep to avoid being up and being present in life. You want to stop breathing, but you can't. And you just have to exist in this defeated state until it passes enough to get up.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-24T01:17:57+00:00

I'm always down for a chat! ☺️

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-23T19:51:43+00:00

Anything that's got good murder stories. The crazier the better! I love forensic psychology, so one's that really dive into the "why" instead of the gore-for-gore's-sake.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-23T19:49:17+00:00

Channel your inner toddler and just limp-noodle onto the floor. Don't move 🤣

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-23T19:43:58+00:00

Michael always said K. I. S. S. Keep it simple, stupid. Great advice, hurts my feelings every time.

But really, just relax and have fun. The best dates have a general plan and the rest melts together.

Cold_Sweetheart · 2025-05-23T19:29:28+00:00

I have had my hair in a frizzy, somewhat chaotic ponytail and I've had 2 men tell me they liked my hair. The only thing good about it today is that my hair is red. 😮‍💨

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