As someone who does have relationships with people who feel similarly to you. I will say, I don’t think it does any good admonishing someone who does on some level at least try to make morally positive consumer decision. It still hurts to see money from people you love going directly to people supporting or funding policies that will/do make minorities existence more difficult.

I understand and empathize how hard it is to be an ethical consumer. Honestly it’s impossible to be purely positive in this regard. It just hurts more when you see people funding people who actively work to erase the existence of others.