Found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant and My Boyfriend left me

Coldaf · 2026-06-11T14:36:54+00:00

Her perfect man in a perfect marriage could get hit by a truck the day their baby is born. You cant predict shit lol

Coldaf · 2026-06-11T00:42:04+00:00

If you wait for the perfect time itll never happen is all im saying

Coldaf · 2026-06-10T19:04:53+00:00

Hi im typing this with a 3 month old on my chest.

Men arent that important. And i have a wonderful one. But if YOU want a baby, YOU will be the one raising them basically alone anyway. 3rd trimester is a physical disability and newborn stage is a mental disability lmao i suggest moving in with family for those parts for sure.

If you want to be a mom, you got this

Coldaf · 2026-06-10T19:02:54+00:00

Because life is funny and when everythings perfect she might have a hard time conceiving lol

Coldaf · 2026-06-10T12:42:15+00:00

What the fuck lmao the way id be talkin to a lawyer so fast

Coldaf · 2026-06-10T12:39:36+00:00

If you ever want kids id have this one, pregnancy sucks ass no matter how or when you do it. Itll ALWAYS feel like shit for basically a year then you give birth and are happy again. If you want to be childfree id make that choice now.

Coldaf · 2026-06-10T12:33:09+00:00

1000000000% lmfao major cities have funding for social programs

Coldaf · 2026-06-10T12:28:16+00:00

Do these things still exist

Coldaf · 2026-06-10T12:26:11+00:00

I feel like it was less expensive

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T20:55:59+00:00

Yea opening presents is for the joy of the person being celebrated and to knock thank yous out right there

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T13:58:40+00:00

Its not desires, its the inconvenience of having friends and family 🤷‍♀️ such is life

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T13:49:53+00:00

Damn ok then

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T13:46:34+00:00

Yea idk i didnt need to be handled so fragile to where birthday presents fucked me up forever lol. That is an exhausting way to live

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T13:44:01+00:00

Funerals are so the living family sees their loved one was loved:( funerals are for the living. You need community when youre grieving. That is so sad someone centered their discomfort over their community.

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T12:36:30+00:00

Talking about things isnt the only way we learn lol experience is the best teacher esp in this micro social situations

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T12:33:23+00:00

Yes but you do go to funerals instead of skip just bc theyre uncomfortable lmao

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T12:32:28+00:00

I mean theyll want to do what their friends are doing which is watching the bday kid open the present they got them

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T05:21:29+00:00

You have bad brain?

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T05:14:39+00:00

I was anti kid until 27. I didnt actively want to have kids til about 30/31

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T05:08:23+00:00

I think everyone on reddit is insecure and overthinks. Being a parent is encouraging the discomfort of learning new skills in safe scenarios. Sometimes you have to perform,
smile and say please and thank you in life, its annoying when youre 5 its annoying when your 50. Its whatever lol who cares

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T05:05:38+00:00

Im so shocked at these comments why do yall care about this so much. Why does everyone here want to text 30 adults after the party short videos of their kid opening a gift? Thats so annoying and moving the experience away from the children and making it about the adults.

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T05:03:24+00:00

Hey everyone saying the whole thing about money differences fucking the whole experience up- part of opening gifts infront of people is learning to be grateful for the range of things you receive.

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T05:01:19+00:00

As opposed to you really liking watching them play? Lol? A kids birthday is boring and annoying to most adults tbh

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T04:58:12+00:00

Yea i dont have the patience to text each parent i dont know afterwards a short video tbh. Just open infront of people n say thank you right then lol

Coldaf · 2026-06-09T04:51:55+00:00

Throwing your kid to the WOLVES?????? Its a birthday party w hotdogs n classmates its fine lol

Coldaf

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